Four months ago, I found out I was pregnant for the 3rd time. After having 2 abortions in the past year, I told myself that no matter what the situation was, I would never have another abortion.
It’s not as easy as people say, abortions are a terrible thing to go through, both physically and emotionally. So when I found out I was pregnant for the 3rd time, the 2nd pregnancy with my current boyfriend, I knew I was going to keep the baby. My boyfriend always said he wanted to have a baby with me, although we both knew that this was not the best time since we are both young, we don’t have a lot of money, we are still in college, and oftentimes, still depend on our parents. I knew that when my dad found out I was having a baby, he would freak out and stop talking to me and cut off all financial help. And that is exactly what happened.
He was paying my bills, college tuition, and giving me extra spending money. But when he found out I was pregnant… and even worse, pregnant with a black man, he cut off all that money and stopped talking to me. I am now working at a strip club because I don’t know how else to make enough money to pay for school and everything else. My boyfriend and I just moved out of our nice two bed, two bath apartment and into his parents’ house so we can save money until the baby is here. We are lucky to have the rest of our families supporting us and helping out when we need it. We just found out a couple days ago that we are having a baby girl. Even though life is extremely difficult right now, pregnancy is a beautiful thing and I feel so blessed to be healthy and have a beautiful healthy baby girl growing inside of me. I am now 2O weeks and 4 days pregnant and our baby is due on march 27th.
I pray everyday that everything will work out OK and my baby and I will stay healthy for the rest of the pregnancy and after she is born.
OK, me and my boyfriend had sex like 5 times. Not the same days but different days.
And like, my stomach has been hurting and I have been peeing a lot and sleeping a lot like I just like to sleep now. I stay tired but my period had come on the right day but it act like it wasn’t trying to come on. Like I was bleeding for 1 minute and it stopped and like I came on later that night and now it’s on and off. My period don’t never be like this, man. I threw up.
I wanted to know is this pregnancy symptoms? Plz plz help me
Hey everyone, I just found this site last night and I hope talkin’ with other ppl in my situation will help me a little.
I’m 19 and 6 months pregnant. I found out on my birthday, exactly one week after my boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He says he wants to still be in the baby’s life and be friends, but it is so hard, because I’m still in love with him. And it’s hard being his friend when I know he’s hanging out with other girls and going to parties every weekend. It hurts me so much cuz I’m out workin’ hard for our baby boy, in college full time, and working full time. He works maybe 15 hours a week. I’m just scared that he’s not going to be there for the baby if he can’t even be there for me now. All we do is argue and are not talking at the moment. And my friends do not understand at all… They just think I’m gonna have a fun baby to play with but as you guys know that’s not how it is. I love my baby and can’t wait for him to get here, but I’m still a mess. I just wish me and my ex would get back together and he’d change back into the great guy he once was.
If anyone has any advice or a similar story, please share with me. I need all the help I can get!
I really don’t want to have an abortion but I know there is no way to support these babies.
But the thing that makes this even harder for me than ever before is that I have been told since I was 15 that I could never have children naturally and now I get pregnant with twins! TWINS of all things and they’re Fraternal twins, not identical. I can’t believe this is happening to me. All I want to do anymore is cry. I understand that this is my choice but what about their dad? Me and him are dating but I could not keep them without him being extremely unhappy with me. I tell him continuously that I want to go through with the pregnancy but he just looks at me with this sad sad look and I know that this can not happen. I just hate feeling helpless, helpless and me do not go hand in hand.
Things just suck right now and I wish I knew what to do about it.
Well now im preganat again, i want to start thinking about names but i cant decide. i like unigue names and double barrel names as i ended up calling my first child Ellie – May. But i dont know what to call my second child, does anyone have any ideas to help me out ?
Chelseaa .
In June, I found out I was pregnant.
I remember it clearly. I went upstairs to do the test, ran downstairs, and jumped on my boyfriend’s lap, waiting for him to tell me what the test said. We had been together for 11 months. He told me that the test was positive, it didn’t kick in. I knew I had to have an abortion. My mum has always said she would kick me out if I ever told her I was pregnant. I wouldn’t be able to stay with my boyfriend because his mum wouldn’t let us see each other if I ever did get pregnant. I didn’t want to raise a child with nowhere to live and no money. The next day, we went to doctor’s. I told her I took a test and it said positive. She asked
‘Is that good news or bad news?’ I just stared at her blankly. I didn’t know what to say. I really wanted this baby but not this way. My boyfriend whispered to her ‘bad.’ Then he went silent again.
