Hello,
I am 17 and I found out I was pregnant on August 23. I am 7 weeks. I have never been pregnant before and I am extremely frightened. When I told the father, he asked me to get an abortion. I told him I couldn’t do that and that if he didn’t want the baby, then to leave me alone. He came around that night and told me that he would be there for me and the baby and that we were going to do this together. It really scares me because we have not had a great relationship. This last year, we have fought constantly and I’m worried that we’re going to start arguing again. I don’t want to put my baby through that. I know I’m too young to have a baby and I know I’m going to be judged by a lot of people but this is what happens and I will not punish the baby for my mistakes. I do not believe in abortion and I could not live with myself, knowing that I have a baby somewhere in the world that I gave up. I really really wish that this was not happening right now but I will get through this.
To all you young mothers out there, I now understand what you went through or are going through and I just want to say I am so impressed that we can go through with this. We are a lot stronger than we think and a lot of people prefer to take the easy way out. But if a 4′ 11” 17 year old high school drop out who had really REALLY bad morning sickness on her first day at work at her first job ever can get through this, so can you. And I know a lot of you don’t know me but if anyone needs someone to talk to, I’m here. Thank you for taking the time to read this
Always,
Hi, this is my story.
I had a boyfriend and I loveed loved him. He was the one. We were at his football game and he made a touchdown and won the game and we stopped at a motel to stay the night, me not knowing that he was dating a girl younger than me and not knowing she was my best friend. Then we stayed the night together in the motel and something happened, I am too scared to say. So you know the next day was prom and we went together and when I went to the bathroom, my boyfriend started dancing with my best friend. When I came out, they were kissing and I left pissed. I went home, had a hot bath, and went to the bathroom. The next month was my check-up. When I went to the doctor, he said I was pregnant and that I was 1 month pregnant. Then when I went home, my boyfriend called and said he was on his way over. When he got there, I told him I was pregnant. Then he left me all alone to cry by myself, and on my due date, he said I was a b*** and I had no right to be with him.
I am 21 years old and married. I had about a month ago, unprotection sex.
I used to be on the pill, but stopped it like 2 or 3 months ago. I always get my period the first week in the month and I had it last in July (first week in July). It is now almost September and I still have not got it. My stomach is swollen and I am constipated. I feel tired. I also get headaches now and then. I did a test about two weeks ago and it was neg. I saw a doctor and the doctor was not very worried, but I am very. Could I be or not?
Can someone help me!
Hello,
I live in Weirsdale, Florida and am the mother of a six month old. My son is my life. I love him more than anything in this world. Recently, my boyfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me and wants nothing to do with me or my son for no reason at all and I don’t know what to do about it because its not like our son wasn’t planned. “The father” very much wanted a baby, not to mention a boy to top it all off. He wanted it to be a boy after months of trying and we didn’t get pregnant. I thought that it was just me and that there was something wrong, so we gave up. Less then 5 months after that, I found out that I was pregnant. I was a little afraid but happy at the same time because I didn’t want this to happen. Well, guess what? It did and I don’t know what to do about it. My boyfriend left me and our son and I don’t know why. I love him so much and wanted to make him happy. And now I have a baby and I’m on my own. You see, when we 1st got together, I dropped out of high school to go to work and provide for us while he stayed in school. Finally, I went back when I became pregnant to an online school and graduated from high school on August 16th of this year. I had told him that I wanted to go to collage and he wasn’t very supportive at all because of the fact that he would have to stay at home instead of partying with his buddies while I was in school. It’s not like he didn’t have the time. He doesn’t work or anything and hasn’t since I went to work. He doesn’t go to collage, nothing
What I need some advice on is that I love this guy so much despite his flaws and I don’t know how he could break up our family when it’s something that he wanted so badly at the time. He doesn’t call to see how me or our son is doing, nothing. How can I make the hurt go away??
I am 17 years old. All summer, I was telling my mom I wanted a baby. Who knew it would come true?
My soulmate lives in Florida while I reside in Maryland. We have maintained and kept a long-distance relationship for a year now, but we’ve liked each other for almost 5. While I went to see him a second time this summer, we had sex. It wasn’t just sex, we made love. It was extremely intimate and the most beautiful thing I’ve ever been a part of. When I got home from Florida, I got my period the next week. It only lasted 3 days, but I didn’t think about it much. It’s month 2 now, and I didn’t get my period going on week 2. I told my mom I haven’t gotten it, and she bugged out. She knew I had sex with him but she then began to remind me that just because I got my period, doesn’t mean I’m not pregnant. I told her there’s no way I could be pregnant. She asked me when I got my period and how long it was. When I told her, she bugged even more. I continued to lie to myself and assure myself I wasn’t pregnant. When I got home, I began to think about it. Then my phone rang. My boyfriend called so I told him what was on my mind. He too told me it was impossible. However, he then began thinking himself.
I’m not sure if I am pregnant, but i know if I am, this website will be a lot of help to me. I also am sure I will keep it and raise it. My boyfriend wants that too. He said he would move in with me, worst case scenario, and take care of me and our child. Part of me is so scared and worried, but another part of me is so excited and happy. Today my life changed, pregnant or not. I realized that I love my boyfriend more then anything, that my mom will help me get through anything that comes my way, and that I’m comfortable with the idea of having my own child.
