Hi. Well, I’m almost 16 and pregnant, but the doctor said I may not be able to carry my kids. Yes, it’s twins and they are precious to me but anyways, this is what I need help with right now…
Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for a while. So for Valentine’s Day, he got me a promise ring and I got him one. Well, last night, he fell asleep and I was on his phone, using it, when all of the sudden, I saw these messages to his ex who is in love with him and he was telling her that he loved her and stuff. Well, when I asked him what he was thinking, he said he wasn’t thinking and I said well you must love her more than me and your kids!!!! So I need help. This isn’t the first time since we have been together that he has done this.
SO PLEASE HELP ME UNDERSTAND WHAT TO DO! I DON’T KNOW ANYMORE AND WANT TO GIVE UP ON HIM…
So I’m 16 years old and a Junior in High School. And I was with a guy for 5 years until I found out he cheated on me.
When we were together, I got pregnant with twins (a boy, Rylan James Hunter, and a girl, Heaven Hope Love) that I carried for 32 weeks until I woke up bleeding and went to the hospital and had to deliver them. Rylan was stillborn and Heaven wasn’t breathing, but they got her to breathe, but she died at 2 hours old. That made me and my ex very upset and we were too emotional to stay together so we broke up 6 months ago. And now I’m with a guy that I have known since I was 6 years old and everything is going good. It’s only been one month. But after me and my ex broke up, we were still having sex. And now my period is 2 months late, I’m having the same symptoms I had with my first pregnancy and I’m scared I might be pregnant.
What should I do? How do I tell my ex and my boyfriend?
I’m almost 18 and I just had an abortion on the 20th of Feb, not by choice. It was my boyfriend who said to do it because we couldn’t do it.
He’s the only guy I’ve ever had sex with so I didn’t know what to do… Well, I made the biggest mistake of my life; I had an abortion at 7 weeks and 4 days. And I can tell you, anyone wanting to get an abortion to really think about this and not be pressured. No one in my family knows so I’m pretty much on my own through everything, I cried myself to sleep last night feeling like a murderer. A murderer of an innocent baby… MY BABY….
IDK how girls do this, mentally idk how i can get through this i cant really depend on my boyfriend becasue all hes worried about is the sex because i told him no more since mentally i cant do this again and i WONT do it again.. i feel all alone.. im feeling every emotion except the happy ones. i dont feel relieved, or glad, or free, i feel i failed as a person. i feel i took an innocent life who didnt ask to be brought into the world… i feel miserable. i keep replaying the day in my head over and over.. i got the ultra sound and saw my baby and i cried. then went to the operation room.. ive never prayed so hard in all my life. i changed into the gown prayed one last time ,said goodbye to my baby and the procedure begain…. i cant believe myself for what ive done.. i will never be the same again. and going through this alone is nearly killing me.. no girl should have to endure such pain and the guys just dont understand the bond of a mother and her baby, he called it an “it” i never did. it was my baby, a part of me, i carried it for 7wks and 4days and the thought of it growing and never knowing that the 20th of feb would be the day i gave my baby wings just breaks my heart into.. mentally idk how i can take much more…
anyone who has been in my shoes please tell me how your dealing with this please..
i need some advice if anyone would like to help . i think i might be pregnant but im 16 and want stay in school if anyone knows of any schools that provides child care of any way so i can stay in school but yet take care of him or her please let me no because i no if i drop out my futures messed and if its in sarnia ontario that would be even better thanks 🙂
Hi, I am 20 years old and have a 19-month-old child. I have just found out that I am pregnant again and I really do not know what to do with it. The baby father of both the children does not want it. He is totally against it. He says we do not need another baby. He has got one and that’s all he needs.
Please, could anybody advise me as to what I should do as I do not want to be forced into anything? Would someone please give me info as well as what would happen if I were to have an abortion?
Thank You xxx
So I wonder now what to do. How to move on, how to live my life with such a sin.
I ask God for forgiveness yet I wonder if I really am forgiven. School is so hard. I constantly find myself looking at him. I just wanna scream at him and make him hurt like he has done to me. Yet, he knows nothing. He wonders why I’m so mad. This is possibly the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life. I often cry and I think I honestly would have killed myself without my boyfriend’s support and love. I start seeing a counselor next week. I think. I don’t know when, but soon, I hope. I know I did the right thing, but I also know I won’t ever get to hold my little baby. I keep thinking of the way I felt in the recovery room, so empty. I wondered, is it over? Why do I feel so sick? As I asked for a spew bag, she passed me a small tablet to place under my tongue, which made it so much worse. I sat in a little ball and cried my heart out. I placed my hands on my tummy and prayed to the Lord above.
Forgive me, Lord. I have sinned.
