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relief

I went into the emergency room on Friday for extreme stomach pain. They did an ultrasound and I saw my baby for the first time and heard its heartbeat; it was the most amazing thing I've ever experienced. They said it's perfectly healthy but I need to see an OB...

trying to get pregnant

Hi, I'm trying to get pregnant. I had a stabbing pain in my lower left side just below my hip. Is this ovulation? ( Dec 9) I've been having mild cramps on my left side and my abdomen on Dec 13,14,15.  Could this be Implantation? I had 2 kids and I never had these...

A toast

Once upon a time there lived a man who really believed in God. And one day, there was a flood in his city. So when the water was gushing down, he got down on his knees and prayed to God. Please, God, save me. Suddenly, his neighbor runs into his house and cries....

Just got here

Hi! Well, I just found this site and thought it was amazing, to find so many girls with similar life struggles. It's nice to chat with someone that can relate to you and know how you fee. I'm not very good at writing so I hope I can express myself in the right words

Brand New Concept

As you probably gathered from my other (slightly poetic and aloof) blog entry: my cousin aborted the baby. She has said (or so I heard) that it was her decision so what can I say really? I tried. At least it's not for the sake of some loser idiot boy (at least I...

They rise and they fall…

If you look at it in terms of living through it, in terms of living through it on the edge and under pressure, 9 months is a very long time... Just when I thought one of my nearest and dearest had made the conscious decision to be a fantastic Stand-up girl and be...

2 years ago

I have a little girl who is 2 years old named Jaymie Lee. I became pregnant at the young age of 15 and let me tell you, things did not go to smoothly for the 9 months of pregnancy. When I found out, my mom found this website for me. I wrote an email to Becky and...

A mom’s Fears

Lately, I have been worried but pretty much excited that I might be pregnant. I know how hard it will be and I am not expecting this to be easy either. I've talked about it with my boyfriend and he told his father that I might be pregnant. His father demanded to...

Life can be so peculiar

Not looking to bore you but to encourage you in your walks, decisions, and thoughts. I recently found out that my barely 16-year-old daughter is pregnant. She is 29 weeks along, due on Feb. 25th... I won't lie. I couldn't say much when she told me 4 weeks ago, but...

31 weeks and 4 days.

At my 30-week scan, the doctor noticed my placenta was disintegrating before its supposed to. Not much to be worried about, but enough to have him induce me in 6 weeks. Monday morning, I woke up with strong contractions, 10 minutes apart.  I was rushed to the...

I wanna have a baby

Hey everyone. Ya, well, I thought I was pregnant, but I found out that I am not and it is very depressing because I have already lost one child. I was 14 and I was pregnant. I went to the doctor to hear my baby's heartbeat but they couldn't find it. So I was sent...

happy!!

This is a really good website for young parents. I am only 18 and am expecting my first baby on the 31st, so not too long now. And I am really excited, although it's not all been easy. My mum kicked me out when she found out. I never wanted to have children... and...

sad.

So I'm sad. I just found out that at about 12 weeks of your pregnancy or around there your baby will sometimes silently cry. That broke my heart because it's like you can't do anything about it cuz you don't know when they are crying and you can't comfort them....

im a new prego

Hi, I'm 17 years old and just found out I'm 3 weeks and 4 months pregnant. My mom kicked me out and I have no place to go. My boyfriend doesn't even have his own place, so I'm solo... Anyways, I guess I'll try to keep you updated...

Baby No.2

Baby, I got you on my mind isn't just the title of a song. I really was thinking about a second baby -- my friends still can't believe how absolutely incurably clucky I am, nor my wish to have five more children when I already know how much work one is. But I've...

A BABY HAVING A BABY

I AM SIXTEEN YEARS OLD AND I'M 4 MONTHS PREGNANT.... WHEN I FIRST HEARD THAT, I BROKE DOWN CRYING AND THOUGHT THAT MY WORLD WOULD NEVER BE THE SAME. I FELT THAT I WAS GOING TO GO DOWNHILL FROM THERE ......I THOUGHT OF HAVING AN ABORTION BUT MY MOM SAID THAT WOULD...

right now

Well, I'm about 18 weeks preggo and I'm still with my boyfriend. We're both happy but yet terrified. We haven't told our parents yet and his are very Christian and mine, well they'd just flip and I don't know what to tell them, ugh.... I wish I had advice on how to...

right now

well, i'm about 18 weeks preggo and i'm still with my boyfriend we're both happy but yet terrified, we haven't told our parents yet and his are very christian and mine we'll they'd just flip and i don't know what to tell them ugh.... i wish i advice on how to tell...

help !! NOW !!!

OK, I have a 2-month-old baby boy named Lucas and I think I am pregnant again. I'm not sure. I might not be. But I do not know what I would do with another baby. Well, I guess I don't need to freak out until I find out for sure. But... I'm just getting ready just...

standupgirl

A StandUpGirl’s Movie

Bella, the movie, tells a story that all of you are familiar with.  As you see on the pages of StandUpGirl.com this story is different every time, yet it is always the same.  Life is full of unintended consequences, and the questions are not so much what we wish...

Is she “my” daughter?

Last September, I had an ex-boyfriend who died suddenly at 18. His heart had a hole in it and the doctors never knew. He also had a then 2-year-old daughter named Daja, and her mother never wanted her and left her with my ex-boyfriend when she was only a month old....

Try’n

It's been over 2 years since I've been off "the shot" or the depo shot and my soon-to-be hubby and I really want a baby. We have everything together in almost every way, from a good job to a nice place to live. We can't seem to get pregnant. I thought I made the...

22 weeks

Hey guys, don't really know what to write here.  I'd just like to stress how much abortions are the worst thing ever!  I was forced into having an abortion at 22 weeks by my mum and boyfriend in May and I'm still suffering! My life is a wreck. All my friends that...

teen mom

Hi. OK, so I am a teen mom. My baby boy is 2 months and his name is Lucas. I love him to death, I would do anything for him. But I am only 15. Everybody has smart comments, especially at school. I needs some advice about what to say and other stuff too. So I need...