I’m 15, an upcoming 11th grader. I migrated from the Philippines to Canada.
So I am living in Canada now, but my boyfriend,19 years old, is still in the Philippines. We had unsafe sex when I was in the Philippines. When I got here in Canada, I experienced all the symptoms of pregnancy and had a positive result in a pregnancy test. If I’m really pregnant, then I’m on my 8th week. I already told my my boyfriend about this. And he said that he’s happy and promised to do whatever it takes to be with me as soon as possible. But I don’t know how will I tell my mom about this. She works hard for me and I know she’ll feel really bad about this. She will be very disappointed. She will be very ashamed. Plus, I have plans in my life. I’m not yet ready for this.
What should I do? Please help me!
I never thought this strange feeling would suddenly embrace me… That night, I wrapped my hands around my shoulder, a cold and eccentric wind… I felt so secure and safe… Eveeeeeeeer………. It’s a nice feeling that I never felt before….. All the burden was unloaded in me…..
I think I really deserve it!!!!!!!!!!!!
2 weeks ago, I found out I was four weeks pregnant. Today, I was currently six weeks pregnant until about 1:00 this afternoon. I had an abortion.
I cried. I don’t think I made the right decision. I’m in very little pain and no bleeding, but I honestly think I only got the abortion to make everyone else happy when I really wasn’t happy with what I was doing. My boyfriend and his mom had kind of pushed me to have the termination. I saw the baby today on the ultrasound. It was so cute it hurt my heart, I haven’t cried to my mom or anyone. I just feel really alone right now. This seems so unreal. In a way, I want to get pregnant again, but idk that’s just being selfish & sick. I don’t know what to do right now. I don’t know if I should be mad or sad or happy?
I’m really confused. /:
Hey
My life was never easy. My dad was barely ever home and my mom wasn’t either. My dad worked from 6 a.m. to 12 p.m. or 1 a.m. He was only home on Fridays, Saturdays, & Sundays. That was, sometimes. He sometimes had work on Fridays and Saturdays. During summer, he sometimes had to work on Sundays too. My mom? Well, she worked in the afternoon and I only saw her for about an hour after school. I had two little sisters, one was four years old and the other was two. I always took care of them in the afternoon so that my parents could work. That all started when I was 12 years old. Well I was all alone every afternoon from Mondays to Fridays. My parents let me do whatever I wanted and gave me whatever I wanted because they tried to make up for all the time they were away. I always felt alone and felt I had no one to go to. Loneliness is never a good thing.
I lost my virginity when I was only 12. I started doing drugs and drinking by the time I was 13. When I was 13, I started dating a boy who was 14. We ended up sleeping together sooner then I ever expected. He didn’t leave me as I had thought though. We had a lot of problems, but we managed to get through them somehow. I’m now 14 and he’s 15. We’re expecting a baby. I’m 5 months and 3 weeks pregnant. I wasn’t ready. We’re making the best of it. His mom doesn’t like me at all and my dad barely speaks to him. My boyfriend had to leave to Mexico, but he’s coming back. He wants to be here for his baby and we already decided what to name him or her when he or she is born. Me and him quit doing drugs and drinking after we found out I was pregnant.
My parents are here for me now. They didn’t want to know anything about me at first, but now they’re getting used to the idea of having 4 babies in the house (my mom had another baby girl on May 6th) and my dad’s trying to get used to the idea of being grandpa. Life isn’t easy and I have to grow up faster then all my friends have to, but I don’t care because I know it’s best for my babies. My parents always taught me you have to be responsible for your actions which is why my parents never wanted me to abort even though they thought I was too young. Now, they’re going to help me financially until my baby’s dad is able to. Me and him talk almost daily and we’re thinking about getting married when we’re old enough to. I’m going to finish high school and he’s going to start working to help provide for us when he gets back to the U.S. We’re both excited to have our baby and we’re glad that I have such supportive parents.
This is for any girl who thinks they can’t make it with their baby, I know we all can. God only gives us what he knows we can handle. He’ll never give us more. That’s why I know that I can do this. It may be hard but I can do this. With help from my family, friends, and the baby’s daddy, I can make it with my baby. Girls, we all can. Abortion isn’t the answer.
OK, so me and my boyfriend have known each other for 4 months & we just started dating on May 3rd. I’m 15 and he’s 17… I live in Florida, he lives in Texas. He’s coming down to see me next week and he’s staying here for the whole summer.
He tells me he’s deeply in love with me and he doesn’t want to be with anybody else, but me. I believe deep down inside he is telling the truth and I find myself falling in love with him more and more each day. He claims I am the love of his life and he wants to marry me.
He tells me everything I want to hear, but he also tells me sweet things that guys have never told me before. He said he’s preparing to ask me to marry him when he comes down here. I know we’re young and everything, but he says he’s ready and that once I’m 18, we’re going to get married.
We have talked about having children before and I never thought he would want one now. I really do want a child now, but I believe that’s just a phase I’m going through right now in life. I feel like if I get pregnant now, I might regret it later on in life. I really want to be successful in the future. I want to finish high school and go to college, but I don’t want me being pregnant to be the result of why I couldn’t do those things.
He tells me he will always be there and he will support me through thick and thin. He claims he is ready to be a father and he is ready to take on the responsibilities of having a child. We started to talk more seriously about having a child more and more each day. We already picked out a name “Nevaeh Cabrera”.
I feel like he is ready. But am I really ready? I love him to death, but we only have been together for almost a month and were so young. But the more, we talk about having a little baby girl, the more I feel like I’m ready. I don’t know what to do… I feel torn by this decision..
Can you give me some advice?
Love,
Help, I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 17 and don’t know what to do.
I’m scared I’m pregnant. I don’t want to go to the doctor cause I’m afraid it’s true. I have missed my period and over the last few days, I’ve had a bit of bleeding like it’s not my period. It’s real light and smells kind of funny. It’s a off-colour as well. I also sleep for about 16 hours with small gaps when I’m awake to eat and pee but then I’m asleep again and I eat so much. I also cry for absolutely no reason.
Can someone help?
