Two weeks ago a friend asked me, ” Is love supposed to hurt?” I didn’t know whether or not to say yes, or no.
Because when you’re in love, different things hurt, make you cry, and make you think negatively. But, after a couple of days of thinking, I came to find out that love doesn’t really hurt. The reason a person will think love hurts is because of the things that they do that have to deal with love and they assume it is the cause of their hurt and tears. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you back will hurt you and have you thinking that by you being in love with this person, love is the reason you’re hurting, but it’s not. You are the reason, on the other hand, because you let you’re self fall too hard for someone who you have never spoken a word to or made eye contact with. If you are already in love and are still hurting, and blaming love, it is because of the mistakes, broken promises, and all the lies that your relationship has been built upon.
So, whether or not you’re in love, don’t blame love for all your tears and sorrow. Blame yourself.