Sometimes asking the why question is not the solution. It has never been a solution.
My sister is the only one who knows about my pregnancy so far, guess what she said? Well, she said, I must have an abortion before it even shows. I can’t, not now especially since they know about the baby……I am not denying that the pregnancy came as shocking news. I am not able to tell my mom as she cares a lot about her image as school principal and my dad is a very strict, respected man in the community. How do I go about it? I’m in my second month of pregnancy and I try by all means to hide it as no one notices. I believe that I am old enough though to be taking my own decision. The first thing that came to my mind after hearing that I was pregnant, was how will my father’s congregation act. I did think about my boyfriend but he never crossed my mind as much as my father’s church, my workmates, and my mother’s students.
I have really disappointed my family, but still, I don’t think of having an abortion…..
I’m sorry I’m so young, I’m sorry I’m not married, I’m sorry everyone is going to think we won’t make it.
But you’re so new to me, and already you’re changing my life, you’re mine okay? And this means I will take care of you. I found out about you today, although I kinda knew for a while now. I think you’re two months now. We’ll find out for sure when I get to see you next week in our first sonogram. Babe I can’t wait to meet you, I know you’re going to be happy with me. And Angel too, he’s going to be a great daddy to you, I can assure you of that. He’s funny, and he’s responsible, and although you scare him he loves you too, and he’s excited to meet you. I hope you have his smile. You’re going to be so beautiful, and I can’t wait to see everything you are going to teach me I’m going to be so happy with you. I know it’s gonna be hard baby, but I’m not gonna let us be unhappy. I love you so much, more than anything and I’m not gonna let anything hurt you.
Baby, your mommy will do anything for you and I feel like we already know each other :-*
It’s a scary thing, finding out I’m seventeen and pregnant.
Sure I’ve seen my friends have their babies and I’ve told them how cute they are, and of course I’ve watched the show, saying ahh at the cute parts and feeling sad during their struggles… But now it’s me. Now it’s me with two hearts beating inside of one body. Me who’s tired, and sluggish, and hungry, really hungry. All my plans, all my dreams, they are now being rearranged because I’m not just taking care of me now. And it’s exciting as well as terrifying, but abortion isn’t an option for me. I’ve always said I am pro-choice, but my choice is to keep the beautiful baby inside of me. I know most people say that teen pregnancies are a sin and that me and my boyfriend are too young to be in love, we won’t make it. But I know him, and I know I can’t tell the future but I do know that no matter where life takes us, he’s going to be there for his baby girl or boy.
Ugh, I’m filled with mixed emotions and questions and anxiety.
I am a 15 year old.
Okay, so what happened is my boyfriend of two years asked me for a hand job so I started and didn’t wanna finish and so he finished himself, then he fingered me and we didn’t think about cum being all over his hand. Now it’s time for my period and I’m just having like a light spotting. I’m scared to death. My parents are really strict and are gonna think I’m lying about now having sex. like they are very against teen pregnancy. So I don’t know how to tell them or how to handle this I mean they are so strict they won’t even let me watch Teen Mom on MTV.
Help me, please. I have a lot of symptoms except for throwing up, please any advice on telling my parents and everything please tell me 🙁
I’m 16 and my daughter will be a month old tomorrow. I have had horrible thoughts of hurting her and I’ve been getting really frustrated with her a lot where I start yelling and crying while she cries. I’m scared for both of us. I’ve had a history of depression since I was 12 and anxiety/OCD problems as well.
I love my daughter so much and I thought I would just struggle financially. It’s the opposite. I have a place to live, we have food, we have money and we have clothing. I’m in school and I have all the love I need. So why do I feel like this?
To be honest, I have hurt her already. I pinched her and forced the bottle in her mouth and I just want help before it gets worse. I don’t want to hurt her. I love her so much. I don’t even realize what I’m doing until after. I figured this was the only place I could go to for help at first. I’ve tried talking to friends and family, but they just scolded me and called me a bad mom and an abuser.
I have feelings of putting her up for adoption, leaving her, not feeding her, and leaving her dirty diaper on yet I would never do these things. She is the light of my life and after I freaked out this morning, I just picked her back up, hugged her close, and started crying.
I need help. Where do I turn to?
:'(
Well, my husband is gone for training and will not return home until Tuesday. I have just finished dinner with my boys and put my daughter in her bouncer. The boys are watching a movie while I check up on some things online. It has been a very rowdy 2 weeks and this mom is ready for a break. After the movie, it will be the same as every other night, bath time for the boys while I feed her then read books, brush teeth, say prayers, pick out a night-night movie, and tuck them in. After all that, bathe the baby and get her off to bed so I can hopefully have at least an hour without kids.
Sounds so terrible, but when my husband has to leave for training, I’m fine for the first 10 days, but then I get upset and tired because taking care of 3 kids 24 hours a day alone is very exhausting, and requires a break every once in a while. I love them all dearly but I am so ready for my husband to get home and help out again. The good thing about the weekend is not getting up at 6 am and making breakfast, packing lunches, getting bookbags ready, and zipping out the door to catch the bus. Instead, it’s sleeping in till 8 and then making breakfast and relaxing with my kids. I love them so much.
I guess the real reason I feel the need to vent via blog is because it might not be 3 kids for long as I just took a pregnancy test this morning and much to my surprise, I saw 2 little pink lines. Crazy as it seems I have an 8 and 5-year-old as well as a 5-month-old baby. So a new baby is going to be a challenge. All my kids are a good 3 to 5 years apart in age, but if I am pregnant again, Olivia and this new baby will only be 1 year and a few months apart. So as soon as she gets over being a baby and moves into being a toddler, I will have another little one. There is something to be said about babies. I love them very much so. I forgot how much I missed having one as it has been 5 years. Now I remember and it’s not so bad. We did want 5 children before we were 30 so I guess if I am pregnant, we will have 7 years to have the last.
This is going to be a bright thing for us I can feel it.
