HOW TO GET OUT OF DEPRESSION!

Hi,  I’m 15 years old. Yesterday, if some of ya’ll saw my blog, you would know the problem that is going on with me right now. I have been in a really deep depression since yesterday and my teacher gave me some good advice and told me if you keep up with like cleaning or something, you won’t be as depressed as much. She said if you clean the bathroom or something, it will help you out a lot, and if you are like me and are in somewhat the same position as me, then this really does work. If you are not talking to your parents, then do what I did. Walk straight into your house, don’t say a word, and just start cleaning something. Clean the bathroom, do the dishes, take care of the pets, do the laundry, and take a shower. It really does make you feel a little bit better. And if you keep doing it, then hopefully at some time, you will fall out of your depression. I know it’s working well for me. I haven’t fallen out of it yet, but I know I will soon, but trust it will work and will make you feel better. If you have any advice to give me or want to talk to me, I would deeply appreciate it.

Please message me here on StandUpGirl

standupgirl: sammy1214, thank you and I hope to hear from you soon. BYE-BYE for now.

parents don’t understand

I’m 15  and this is my blog called “Parents Just Don’t Understand Nowadays”.

They think it’s better if they take your child and raise him. Well, I learned it’s not! At all! they convinced me it will all be the same, nothing will change. Well if they say that, don’t believe them! They are lying straight to your face! I was basically forced to sign over custody thinking, “Oh well I’m still going to take care of him. I’m going to feed him and love him and bath him and change him and burp him and play with him!” hahahaha. I was lied to! I haven’t done anything with him! My parents won’t let me even touch him! It’s like they are making him a punishment to me! I’m not allowed to see or play with him or anything! But we live in the same house so I’m told I’m being stupid by saying that we live together so they are not taking him away from me. Well, it’s true that they are wrong! I don’t have one reason why I shouldn’t fight for him! Now I know I’m 15, but I’m still his mother and when you have your son taken away from you, that’s when it’s time to fight back.

Please message me back on here if you have any comments!

I guess I feel a little better now. Everyone is right. If you make a blog and stick with it, you’ll feel a little bit better. For now, goodbye unless you message me. BYE-BYE.:)

From 16 and pregnant to teen mom

Everyone was saying that being a mom at 16 would be hard. What I have learned is that people build stuff up to the point where it seems like you won’t be able to handle what is going to come. For me, I have found that things are not as hard as everyone said they would be. There are times were it has been hard, but there have been times where it has been very easy. Things are not what I thought, but they are not as hard as people were saying.

Thinking there is something wrong with me

My whole life, all I’ve wanted was to be a mom. Now I’m married and it’s only been 1 month and all I can think about is wanting that child. I feel selfish because if we were to get pregnant right now, I know that we would have a hard time providing the support and life that a child should have. Why am I so obsessed with this!? I would do anything to be able to turn off my brain and just be a happy newlywed that is happy with where her life is right now 🙁

Torn on what to do

I am 22 years old and I just found out I’m 4 weeks pregnant.

I’m going into my final year at university, and hardly have any money to provide for the baby. And I’m worried if I have the baby, I won’t be able to cope, in many ways. I don’t know if I’ll be able to finish uni. The other thing is that I’ve been with my boyfriend for only 3 months even though I  went out with him when I was 16 and we got back together. He wants the baby, but I don’t know if I love him and I would be trapped with him if I have the baby. He’s already got another child and he wants me to look after the child as well as mine once I get a place of my own. But that would be waaay too much for me to cope with. I can barely come to terms with looking after my own child. I don’t agree with abortion. Every time I think about aborting my baby, I feel like crying so much. I don’t know if I can live with myself aborting my own baby, but I also feel like it’s my only choice.

I really need some advice from someone desperately as I’ve booked an abortion appointment on Saturday but I still don’t know what to do.

Baby dust

Baby Dustbabydust 

Wanting, hoping, waiting, and praying.
To have a little one to call our own.
Getting tired of trying and failing.
Just want to make our house a home.
When is it going to be our turn for a baby?
There is this emptiness in completing our family,
This is really driving us crazy!
Maybe one day it will be our time for joy,
Until then we must stay strong and keep hoping
Please pray for us and sprinkle that baby dust upon us!