Soon, I’ll get my diploma and face the real world. Can’t believe that soon I’ll be a mother. My boyfriend and I decided to keep our baby. He told me that he will never run away and he will be glad to face the consequences because I’m the mother of his child. Actually, like what I’ve said, he trapped me. He knows that the moment that I graduated from our school, our communication will be less and he’s afraid of losing me so he got me pregnant. Let’s just say that it’s his assurance of having me in his life…
Somehow I’m glad because he will not run. Actually, he’s a varsity of track and field, he’s really a runner.. hahaha… He’s a little bit popular in our school and there’re many rumors about him. My friends told me that he’s a two-timer and a cheater… Sometimes, I have a hard time sleeping thinking of us, on what will happen to our baby and if he’ll be loyal to me…
Its like I’m also scared of losing him or the thoughts of cheating always makes me wonder. We have several fights about some girls in our school. Its like I always suspect him of cheating without that hard proof but then deep inside, there’s a premonition that tells me that he soon he’ll cheat or he’s cheating on me but then I have no hard proof..
Please give me advice, am I just jealous because I’m pregnant? Or I’m just insecure?
Anyway, my parents still didn’t know that I’m pregnant but then they knew my boyfriend… I don’t know how to tell it to my mom. Sometimes, I’m thinking of Abortion but knowing that it is a crime, I know I can’t do it…
So I had a child when I was 17 and she is now 7 months old and I’m 18 but something has happened, I am prego again.
My fiancé is so amazing but can I really handle it all? I am so overwhelmed and scared. How do you know if it is the right thing to do? How will you ever know if you’re doing the right thing?! I wanna be an amazing mom, I want to be there all the time, but I am losing confidence due to being so nervous.
Advice on if I should have the baby or just a good word helps!
If I could only see your face baby, I would rest a while.
If I could only see your gummy toothless smile.
If I could only hold you while your tears fall,
and you wail with a deafening call.
If I could only be your mother one more time.
If I could only wipe your face when you have face paint made of food.
If I could only teach you how to tell the bad from the good.
If I could only hold you high and call you my special little child.
If I could only hold those little hands a while.
If I could only be your mother one more time.
You left before we had a life together,
you left before we had met one another.
I would give my everything and anything I could possibly do,
I would find everything I had and give it straight to you,
if I could only be your mother one more time.
Okay so. I’m pregnant with nowhere to turn. I have nothing. Sometimes I get so emotional I can’t even think straight.
I want to keep my baby. My heart tells me it will all be alright. Then I start thinking. I don’t have a job. I haven’t finished my education. I have nothing to offer a baby. I don’t want my child to suffer. I was unsure I was pregnant for a while until I was brought to the hospital for alcohol poisoning. Blood tests showed I was pregnant. I don’t want my baby to have birth defects & know it’s my fault. I know who the father is but we have nothing to do with each other. I never want us to either. So that creates another problem for me. I haven’t told anyone except my friends. I don’t know how I’d ever tell my mother. 🙁 Or any of my family.
Suggestions are greatly appreciated!
So, I am 17 years old and recently found out I am around.. 4 weeks pregnant?
I have always been against abortion and never really understood it until I got pregnant. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and we did not plan this at all. I really do not know what to do because I feel as though I already love this baby so much, but at the same time, I am not ready for the responsibility. I am not ready to go to school, work, and come take care of my baby every single day 24/7. I am worried that having this baby is going to tear my relationship apart and we are going to end up miserable and I am terrified to tell my parents. At the same time, I am worried about my emotional state if I do decide to abort. I am really torn between my choices and I really need advice.. every single day I think about what I should do…
I just want to make the right decision. Please!!
Hello ladies…
This is the second pregnancy that I am entering… I would like to start off and say that it’s scary being a teen mom because you don’t think that you will be able to take care of your baby but you’re wrong. There is always help that you can get! My first pregnancy, I was 17 almost 18 and I made a mistake. I just broke up with my boyfriend of two years and went to a party and well what do you know two weeks later, I found out I was pregnant. I thought about keeping the baby so hard and I knew I could do it but the father was a complete jerk! He made my life a living hell… So I went to the abortion clinic and got an abortion. I felt so alone and soo horrible like I was a murderer. I was too stupid and immature to understand.
Now at 19- almost 20, I am pregnant with my little boy Desmond, and I am super excited again. It was not planned but me and my boyfriend are super excited to raise our little boy….. Even though we don’t live together, we know that we can give this baby all the love and nurture he needs…. Don’t let anyone make your decision look inside yourself and you will find the answers ….
Your parents and/or boyfriend will come around. They just need time to think about what you told them.
xoxoxox
