hi hun im 23 married and im 18wks pregnant with my first baby. my husband would never lay a finger on me and if he did id be outer there straight away if your boyfriend has hit you he doesnt love you and he cant love that baby either. you need to put yourself and the baby first and there is loads of single mothers out there who cope but you cant let him hit you what if he hurts the baby that baby is your flesh and blood.