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No one will ever judge you for your decision or at least they shouldn’t. I don’t think you should have an abortion. If he tries to attack you again, call the police and file a restraining order, this will also build a case against him as being abusive. You need to think of your childs safety. I think you should think hard about what what you want to do with your life the child and your future then go to your aunt explain that you are pregnant and what you have decided to do and ask for her support. I would say also finnish your studies. When I was in second year my son was born and I took him to lectures with me for about a year and just put him in a routine where he would sleep at those times. Explain to your aunt how you will need support and help with the baby so you can finnish your degree and support your child. Taking control of your situation may show her how you are now ready to be a mom. I hope it works out for you. Good Luck!
My first 8weeks of pregnancy were so painful, before I knew I was pregnant I thought I was dying, even when I had labour pains it wasn’t as bad as those early pregnancy pains(and labour pains were BAD). The doctor told me that some people just have really intense pregnancies but just hope it goes away and it did. I didn’t get any of the other “regular” symptoms like naseau. Hopefully yours is just like this and it will go away. Sometimes I would put frozen vegies on my lower back untill it got so cold it went numb and then you can’t feel the pain but sometimes it was at the front and that sucked cause I thought the cold may hurt the baby so I didn’t do it.
I was brought up by my mom only and I can tell you when I was a kid I was really happy. We had very little money but my mom loved me (and now I save heaps because I don’t eat chocolate). Eventually after 24years my dad finally contacted me(a 1 line email). As long as you love her that is all that matters. She will have a perfect life.
I think try natural, you are young, so it may be a bit quicker. My first born was 4hours. It is painful to no end but that afternoon I was ready to leave the hospital. If it does get really bad or you do get scared you can always opt in for drugs.
I don’t know your story but my story started with me falling pregnant while I was on the pill. Whoever says contraception reduces pregnancy should come to a playgroup. Almost every mum in my playgroup(about 25) have fallen pregnant while on hormonal contraceptives, some even 2 or 3 times. I hope you don’t feel too terrified for long because whatever the outcome I’m sure you will handle it great.
