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hey gurl well i’m happy for ya, i know it can be scary and stuff but you are at the right place. So have you and your bf figured things out yet? we could chat sometime if ya like. I’m up for talking.
later
I def. agree with Julie!
-Guys get jealous when they see ex-gf’s with a new guy. He may just be trying to "get u back" just to prove that he is better than Matt, for guys it is all about the pursuit…. right now Glenn enjoys you because he can’t have you but when he gets you e won’t be so excited.
-Matt knew your situation and loved you anyway – WOW. He is obviously responsible if he didn’t cause your pain but still wanted to take the responsibility that Glenn didn’t want to mess with.
-Which man would you rather your son be like? A guy who hits the road running when life gets tough, a guy who becomes a father and doesn’t take responsibility, a guy who uses drugs and sex as a way of escape?
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-A guy who becomes a daddy to a boy without a father, a man who faces responsibility head on, a man who looks beyond the mistakes of others and forgives.He will become like one of these men, Matt has been the only dad to your son. Of course Glenn was ur first love so its hard, but your son will not resent his dad Matt, instead he will love him more. Glenn doesn’t deserve to be Conner’s dad.
Here is a song that I heard of and thought of you:
[b]When a single mom goes out on a date with somebody new
It always winds up feeling more like a job interview
My momma used to wonder if she’d ever meet someone
Who wouldn’t find out about me and then turn around and runI met the man I call my dad when I was five years old
He took my mom out to a movie and for once I got to go
A few months later I remember lying there in bed
I overheard him pop the question and prayed that she’d say yesAnd then all of a sudden
Oh, it seemed so strange to me
How we went from something’s missing
To a family
Lookin’ back all I can say
About all the things he did for me
Is I hope I’m at least half the dad
That he didn’t have to beI met the girl that’s now my wife about three years ago
We had the perfect marriage but we wanted somethin’ more
Now here I stand surrounded by our family and friends
Crowded ’round the nursery window as they bring the baby inAnd now all of a sudden
Oh, it seemed so strange to me
How we’ve gone from something’s missing
To a family
Lookin’ through the glass I think about the man
That’s standin’ next to me
And I hope I’m at least half the dad
That he didn’t have to beLookin’ back all I can say
About all the things he did for me
Is I hope I’m at least half the dad
That he didn’t have to be
Yeah, I hope I’m at least half the dad
That he didn’t have to be
Because he didn’t have to be
You know he didn’t have to be
[/b]Hey Brooke,
I know it must be really hard on you to figure out what to do. I could tell you what I think you should do but it really comes down to what you think is right. I hope that if you do decide that you don’t want another baby that you will give it up for adoption. I know there are alot of people looking to become parents right now! Not all of them are crazy either lol!! I am learning alot about it cuz my sister is trying to adopt a baby doing an open adoption. It is so hard to get matched with a baby and so you having a baby could give someone such an amazing gift!!!!!I am sorry ur husband is being a dick, I know you want emotional support right now, if ya ever wanna chat or talk. Get at me!
You didn’t screw anything up. I’m a "good church girl" too and even we make mistakes! I hope that you don’t get on urself too much bout it! If ya need someone to talk to, I am here! 🙂 Your parents will love you no matter what and they’ll forgive you and ya know what – they’ll love the baby just as much as they love you!!!
