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  • in reply to: does anyone need help? #26629
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    good for you! You are being strong for your baby!

    in reply to: does anyone need help? #26498
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    Well you girls have to first decide what you are going to do- take some nice deep breaths because there isn’t much else you can do! You should go see an OB doctor as soon as you can. No You girls CAN do it okay! You’re going to be okay! You should also talk to your parents/ guardians. They need to know either way or another. My mom didn’t take it well- in fact she was very angry with me and she kept asking me how was I going to support a baby and blah blah blah. She really freaked me out! And I was 25! But then I realized that you will always find a way to care for your children. I mean I would do anything so that my children could eat and have clean diapers and all that. And after all that my mom LOVES these kids to death and they have brought such joy and sunshine into our lives. Try not to think of the pregnancy as a horrible thing because it will only make you more upset. This is a new life and now you must do what you can to love and care for it. I don’t agree or disagree with abortion. I mean who am I to judge any one else? We make our own choices and that is what we live for. But I do know that abortion can cause a lot of heartache and wondering and regret. So this needs to be a well thought out choice. But the sooner that your family knows the easier and less scary it will seem. And if they regect you then at least you know ahead of time. I am wishing you the best of luck and I’ll pray for you no matter what you decide.

    in reply to: does anyone need help? #26482
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    well first make sure you are! Did you take a test yet?

    in reply to: i need advice.. #26458
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    The deal is this is your baby! If you think that is what is best for you than it is. But just some advice- I am 29 now I had wo wonderful daugthers back to back, and whn I was pregnant i felt the same way. So just so you know it never gets easier. The weight of the world is on our shoulders to protect and love these children- to give them good lives. So just so you know it is ALWAYS nerve wracking. But the amount of joy you will feel for the rest of that baby’s life is surreal. I remember looking at my baby and saying I AM GOING TO BE A GOOD MOM. And it has been harder than ever. I work full time and so does my boyfriend but we still manage. Little money and time but lots of love. I would give the world again to go back and have my daughters all over again. If you need help I am here you can email me anytime. No pressure though. Good luck whatever your decision is though! Katie

    in reply to: does anyone need help? #26457
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    thanks! I guess even though we are not teens it is still hard. Even with family and friends supporting me being a mom was and still is a challenge! Thanks!

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