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I know exactly how you feel. I miscarried almost a year ago at 8 weeks, and I am almost 11 weeks right now. I was so terrified of losing this baby, and getting past 8 weeks felt like an eternity. I don’t get to hear the heartbeat until Oct 26th, and my first ultrasound isn’t until about a week after that, november first. I told my mom and most of her family knows, but I’m not telling my dad or my hubby’s family until after we know the baby is okay. If you ever want to talk about anything, write on my wall . it is really scary, and you don’t have to go through any of it by yourself. Anything you want to ask, I’m an open book.
My fiance & I have been trying for almost 6 months with no luck because (I’m guessing) my periods are also irregular. They’re starting to regulate now, though.
My advice is get a test, or just go straight to the doctor and have them do a blood test. Good luck 🙂It’s the same for me. I’ve missed my Feb & June periods altogether, and my cycle is FINALLY settling back to normal now. The hormones form the pregnancy can make your cycles screwy, and having a miscarriage will do it as well. 🙂
Hey hunny, what’s your family life like? Do you have a good relationship with your parents? Have you told anyone else yet? Do you have supportive people in your life that will help you through this process, whatever you decide? You’re not a loser because you got pregnant. Accidents happen every day! Also, would you want to choose parenting if it were possible? Because you shouldn’t choose adoption unless you are completely, totally, a million and one percent sure that it is right for BOTH you and the baby. Use optionline.com to see where the closest crisis pregnancy center is, and make an appointment there with them. They can help you figure out what will be best for you and the baby in the long run. You’re really young, but you CAN do it. I only say this because I don’t want you to make a decision you’ll regret and struggle with all your life. And that can happen so easily if you have any doubts about your choice. You’re still early along, so do some thinking, and check your resources. There are programs that can assist you in graduating and eventually becoming independent, as well as helping you make the transition from teen to mother.
Also, sorry I asked so many questions. But the more I know about you & your situation – the better I will be able to help you <3
