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Well I told her, I sat her down, and dropped the bomb, she looked and me and said "You’ve got to be joking" and walked away. Its been about a month now. She doesn’t say a single word to me. The only reason why I know she hasn’t forgoten about me is due to all of my family members coming back and telling me all the "pleasant" things that she has to say about me. She thinks I got pregnant purposely, which is in everyways ridiculous, and she thinks i’m not having an abortion to hurt her. I am currently in the process of packing all of my things, and moving to my dads house. (sigh) Sometimes, it’s just what you’ve got to do.
I’m having similar issues with my baby’s father. when i told him, I planned to get an abortion he was more than cool with that. But when i decided that I couldn’t possibly do that to my child, the arguments, and the fights just blew up and became our day to day conversation. To be quite honest i dont give a damn if he doesn’t want any type of relationship with me (he "tried" to accuse me of trying to trap him, but don’t worry he was SHUT DOWN) the fact is he’s going to have a relationship with my child because in the end thats what matters, and thats who really matters. So i really don’t think you should go through the process of having him out of her life, i understand that right now he may be a jerk, but he’s still young, he can still change. Unless you fear for her and your safety while around him, don’t do it.
Lots of love,
Amanda;)
