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i did, now i burp even more. i felt like i had acid reflux. now when i burp sometimes i do end up puking up all that acid. so thats def a common thing.
ooohh yeah girl, especially if it comes back that fast. thats how fast mine came back, i didnt want to look either, but i just watched to make sure all the pee went across the test, and as soon as it hit the lines they were both turning pink haha. i wouldnt buy another test if you dont want to waste any money, i know theyre expensive, just go to the doc. the sooner you go in and get a test from them the sooner they can start prenatal care. i had cramps too, i was in denial because i felt so much like i was going to start my period. good luck, and keep us all updated 🙂 take care 🙂
well they say you can have a chemical pregnancy also, where your body creates hormones, but the egg never becomes fertilized comppletely, and then you just get your period which can be late. but go to the doctor. if you have insurance then go to a family doctor who also does gyn. then ask her about it when youre alone in the room with them. they wont tell your mom or family. then theyll just schedule a follow up exam or refer you somewhere else, or tell you mom you need to go because youve been having bad bad cramps and they want to make sure youre ok. then make her stay in the waiting room and tell the doctor the truth. thats how i was secretive when i was in h.s. they cant give any info to your mom that you dont agree to. i never had any problems with this trick. just make sure you do get to the doctor to make sure youre ok. take care and good luck 🙂
i am so sorry you had to go through this. how are things going now? i see its been awhile since you posted but i thought i would ask. i think you sound like you would be a good mommy whether theres a father there or not. if you have supportive family and friends you are in safe hands. he should def not be in the relationship if he has that kind of history. even when he says he will change he wont, its a mental problem that they need help with. i am scared the same ways. i always wanted a family and a loving husband to share my life and family with, but sometimes life doesnt work the way we expect. i am lucky to have a boyfriend who doesnt hurt me, and he is coming around to the idea of having a baby. hes been pretty scared, but he’s finally coming around. there are so many guys out there who will love you and your child no matter where you came from. good luck and if you want to talk more feel free. take care!!!
ooh yeah i agree with these girls. nothing is 100%. not birth control, not condoms, not lube. be careful, thats my only advise. take a test if you think you need to.
what did the period look liek because i had one after i got preg for about 2 days, very stretched out and spotty, and it was pink. my boobs were sore too. good luck. try taking a test in a week or more because i waited a week and it was positive. i didnt want to take it too soon so that it wasnt a false negative. good luck and feel free to ask me anything. im not an expert, but i can be supportive 🙂
this is how i am feeling too. my boyfriend was just like this until a few days ago. he hated the idea, wanted me to get rid of it. but two night ago he started out of the blue asking me whos eyes he thought it would have, ears, nose feet, everything. it was so cute, and it made me happy to see after all we had been going through. we have been fighting a lot less because now he sees that we cant change it, we just need to deal with it the best way we can. he knows he needs to help me not be stressed out. hes been helpful with cleaning up my puke so i dont puke from seeing/smelling it, and he has been rubbing my back and tummy more lately. i thought he would never accept it and come around. for a week he didnt even touch me because he was so upset. so he’s come a long way, and your boy will too. if he doesnt then you are better off doing it yourself, considering it might be easier without all the fights and moodiness, which you will have enough of for the both of you!!! haha everyone told me i can do this whether he stays with me or not, so i think you can too. just give him time to come around to the fact. go to the doctor, it’ll help answer your questions. and they should be really nice, or else you need to go somewhere else. they were so good to me at the doctors when i went in to confirm i was preg. they all smiled so big, and congratulated me, and there was so much positive energy, and i really needed it considering how my bf was treating me. i am very scared still too. youre not alone with that. if you need to talk then you can talk to me anytime you need. good luck hun, take care
Lauraa little update from me… i wanted to thank you girls so much. you are all such an inspiration. your words and advise have gotten me able to let ym boyfriend know i want to keep this baby whether he helps me or not. i want him there, but i told him it was his decision, i wasnt going to MAKE him stay. his mom wants us to keep it in the family, and i know my mom would say the same thing. the best option really is to keep this baby, or else our family will have to adopt it, and i know that would cause more problems than us keeping it. i dont want to let my family down again. i havent finished college, and my bf thinks i wont be able to. i told him about all the stong women on here who didnt have to give up their dreams. i will show him. i will show my family. i will show everyone!!!! i am not going to let this get me down. i need to step up and make this work. i am going to give my baby the best i can, no matter how hard it will be. thanks again ladies!!! much love, Laura
congratulations… i know its hard, and sometime the government and laws dont make it any easier. well i hate to say this, but i guess depending on what state you are in, there is a possiblility he will be on the sex offender list and jailed for some time. you might need to find out about that. i live in michigan, and i know people who that happened to. thats all i know about that. im just suggesting you look into that before you think everything will work out perfectly. good luck hun!!! 🙂
