Jerseygrl81

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  • in reply to: Pregnant #12440
    Jerseygrl81
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    Everyone is different and our bodies all react differently to pregnancy. They list symptoms of pregnancy, but these are common symptom and you may or may not have them.
    Get used to going to the bathroom constantly. It is like that during your first and third trimester. More so in the third. You can always ask your doctor if you are concernend about a symptom you may be feeling.

    in reply to: HELP #12439
    Jerseygrl81
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    Hi honey, my name is Breanne and I am very new here, but I would like to help you.Now, I am 25 years old, and I just had my first baby about 5 months ago. Even though I am 25, I was so scared to tell my parents that I was pregnant. I am not married, but I am with the baby’s father. And my parents are old fashioned and think you should be married and all that stuff.
    I waited until I was probably 4-5 months pregnant before I told them. And I told my mother first ( she was the easier of the two;)
    Then I left it up to her to tell my father. I didnt call the house for almost a month bc I was so scared he would flip out.
    Both of my parents were really upset and disappointed in me. Well, let me tell you something. Everything changes when the baby is born. They are so happy and they actually thanked me for having her. Now, I was into some pretty bad stuff before I got pregnant, and this baby pretty much saved my life and opened my eyes.

    How old are you?
    Your parents will most likely be upset. They WILL get over it, trust me. There is nothing that can be done, and they can not change what has already happened. So, be brave, and yes, tell them.
    You cant just wait until you are huge and really far along, or wait for them to say something about the way you are gaining weight and eating. I dont know how close you are to your mom, but I am sure that she will "know" that something is up, even if you do not tell her. Moms know these things, I dont know how, but they do.
    Take the first step and show that you are responsible, by sitting them down and telling them what is going on, and what your plans are for you and this baby. I am sure they will feel a little better knowing that you are responsible enough to plan your future from this point as a result of having a baby. It is not going to be easy and they will most likely flip out. But you need to tell them. Especially if you are under 18, and still live with them.
    Good Luck with this, and Congratulations onthe baby!:)
    If you need anything pelase let me know.

    Breanne

    in reply to: Confused #12438
    Jerseygrl81
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    Did your doctor do a blood test? That is the only way that you can be 110% sure that you are pregnant. Also you wouldnt feel twitches until you were at least 4 months pregnant. Unless you are extremely thin, then you may feel something at 3 months, But it is not common to feel any kind of fetal movement until you are at least 4-5 months pregnant.

    Go back to your doctor and request a blood test.
    Good Luck

    bre

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