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Well, you have got to see them, and you know they are alive, and I promise that “things won’t just go back to normal” if you treminate. You heard their heartbeats, and you’re not crazy. Your’re just a young lady that has just learned she is pregnant with twins! You are at a site where you will find love, support, and will make true friends that will be there for you. I just can’t help but congratulate you! You CAN do this. I really hope you will email me and let me know how you are doing.
With love, ChristyI think anything is possible. It may only take him seeing the sonogram. I know it must be hard. I noticed that you said you could give the baby life, I can tell you that is a beautiful thing. My husband and I are going through the adoption process, and any woman that gives a child a chance at life, even though you may not be able to give the baby all that you want, is a true hero. Please reconsider abortion. If you want to be in your child’s life, there is always open adoption. If that is a route you are thinking of, I can tell you that the adoptive couple should be willing and ready to open their entire life up to you, and readily pay for any and all of you expenses. If you want any info on the process, I’ll be happy to share with you all things we have been through during our process. In the mean time, try to stay strong.
ChristyHi,
Well, it seems you are trying, but (this is not legal aadvice, in any way)if you are under the age of majority and you have not been emancipated, if you leave, your mother could file a report that you are a run away. This is a tough one; just because you are pregnant doesn’t mean you can leave her “care”. When you asked for emancipation before you were pregnant at the time? That may make a difference to the judge. I wish you the best. I live in TN, and I only know the emancipation (or lack thereof)laws are pretty tough to navigate. If you want to chat, just send me an email. I have a friend in Michigan, and I’ll ask her if she can get any info on emancipation for me.Well, an inspiration you are! The concern and love you show for your baby is just wonderful. Stay strong in your resolve, and don’t ever be afraid to ask for a little halp along this journey.
you really need to take a pregnancy test, hun. All the symptoms sound like you mat be pregnant, but if you’re not you need to see a doc about the symptoms you are having.
Let us know how you are.
ChristyI am so sorry that you are going through this. If you would like to talk you can leave me a message in my guest book. I know you must be scared. You do have a choice, and if adoption is you choice, that’s great. You should be able to make your own decision about this. If you decide adoption is the way you want to go, the adoptive couple should handle all expenses. My husband and I are just starting the process of adopting a baby, and your well-being should be paramount!
I don’t know how long it usually takes, but we are hoping not too long. I will keep you in thought and prayer.
ChristyHi, my name is Christy and I have not given a baby up for adoption, but my husband and I are starting the process of adopting a child. The only thing I can tell you is that each mother we have met are doing it for that exact reason; giving their child what they can’t at this time, and they know they are giving their child a chance at a great, secure life with a couple that will love him/her. I don’t know if that helps or not, but I think you are looking out for your child and what is best. You, and all the other wonderful women that are willing to do this act of extreme love for their child, are wonderful people. If you ever want to talk, you can leave me a message in my profile.
Many, Many Blessings,
ChristyI am so sorry about your situation, and I know you must be scared! Do you want to keep the baby? You do have alternatives. If you are not ready, for whatever the reason, to take care of the baby, but also do not want to have an abortion, you may want to consider adoption. I know you must be spinning as to what the best option is, but I also think you are so mature to know what lies ahead. If you are worried about finances, and you decide to go with the option of adoption, the couple should pay for ALL expenses. You could even do an open adoption so that you could stay in contact with the adoptive parents, if you wanted. I had an abortion many years ago, and now wish I had given someone that longed for a child, the chance to adopt my child. I can’t have children, so I may be a little biased on abortion, but if you ever need to talk, you can always leave me a message in my profile. I wish you the very best on this journey, and hope you find peace with any decision you make. Go with your heart, and don’t let anyone push you in to abortion if that is not what you want. My husband and I are going through the process of either surrogacy or adoption, and the ladies that are giving the gift of a child that I have met are truly a hero!
Many, Many Blessings
Christy
