haley

heygirl whats up you and i have almost the same exact situation. im almost 12 weeks due in march also and when i found out that i was pregnant i thought that the father would be excited because he had talked about it before but when i told him he was shocked and he denied it and said it wasnt his and that i should get an abortion and just get rid of it but when he found out that i decided to have this child he was furious we fought everyday for almost a month and he said he wasnt going to be there then we just broke up i was devasted because i wanted my child to have his father there but i didnt have a say in it he had his mind set on leaving and there was nothing i could do…. but now i realized dont dwell on it because you never know who is out there im not saying to give up on him but hey i spent too much time feeling sorry that i missed the most amazing guy. well now him and i are dating and the first thing i told him before we started was that i was pregnant and he was excited and was asking me if he could be there for my child because he knew the father and what was going on. im not telling you to drop this guy but if he is still the way he is in a bit then just dont stress about it stress can cuse problems to o your child and now you dont want that do you?? keep me updated

hey yeah this is a hard decision but its yours… if you decide to keep the baby trust me its hard my sister had a baby when she was 17 and now she cherishes her beautiful baby boy which iss now 10 months she tells me that it was the hardest decision but she knew it was the right one and that when she had him she was all alone the father left her… she says its hard but she said she would never go back in a heartbeat, that that baby makes her life worth living for!!! and now im two months pregnant and im only 16 i will be 17 in two months but still i know the father is still a little shaky on what to do but i do know hes going back to mexico so it will be just me but im not letting that change my decision… im not going to kill my child just because he is not going to be there….. girl there are places out there that will help you with whatever for instants W.I.C. lovely program… but its YOUR choice no one elses yours and yours only… the best to you keep us updated