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i am in the exact same situation. me and my ex were together for 2 years and shortly after breaking up with him i got pregnant with my boyfriend now. and lately its been so hard, hes just on my mind and its pushing me away from my boyfriend now. i just donno what to do, its so confusing. like i know what i wanna do, but then again i know what i should do…i donno if you have any good advise that worked for you, but if you do could you please help me out?
hey girl, i dont think thats wrong for you to feel that way at all…i just found out last week that im pregnant. i was so scared when the test was positive, but i was really only scared to tell my boyfriend. but he actually was really good about it and im soo happy to be having a baby. congrats! 🙂
THANK YOU!
A FEW NEW CHANGES. I DID TALK TO A FRIEND, SO TO SPEAK (AN EX FRIEND’S SISTER). ONLY BECAUSE SHE HAS HAD AN ABORTION AND AT THAT POINT- THAT WAS WHAT HE WAS HINTING TO. SHE REFUSED TO TALK TO ME ABOUT THAT AS AN OPTION. REQUESTED TO CALL ME BACK AND A FEW MINUTES LATER HER MOM AND HER THREE WAY CALLED. OFFERING THIER FULL 100% EMOTIONAL SUPPORT EVEN THOUGH THEY LIVE OUT OF STATE. BASICALLY TELLING ME THAT GOD DID NOT ALLOW ME TO SURVIVE ALL I HAD BEEN THROUGH THIS PAST YEAR AND ALLOW ME TO BECOME PREGNANT FOR NOTHING! SO WHAT COULD I SAY TO THAT? LOL-THEY ARE RIGHT! HUSBAND HAS BEEN VERY CAUTIOUS IN TALKING ABOUT THIS AT ALL, BUT DEFINATELY DOES NOT WANT TO TERMINATE IT.
SO, I GUESS WE ARE BOTH AGREEING TO START THIS JOURNEY AND TRY TO HANDLE THINGS AS THEY COME? WE ARE JUST TERRIFIED OF HOW/WHERE WE ARE GOING TO FIND ANOTHER HOUSE THAT WE CAN AFFORD AND TRYING TO KEEP THINGS SILENT UNTIL WE GET OUR DUCKS IN ORDER. BUT I GUESS GOD WILL PROVIDE A WAY FOR THAT TOO?!
I STILL NEED LOTS OF SUPPORT. SO I’LL BE CHECKING IN.WOW! MEG, THANK YOU FOR SHARRING THAT. I DON’T KNOW IF IT HELPED THAT GIRL, BUT IT HELPED ME! I’M OLDER WITH CHILDREN FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE. VERY ABUSIVE ONE. THEN MY CURRENT HUBBY WAS MY “KNIGHT IN SHINNING ARMOUR”. BUT MY KNIGHT TURNED OUT TO BE THE DARK KNIGHT. HIS FAMILY HATES ME BECAUSE OF THINGS HE HAS DONE, BUT I GET MADE OUT TO BE THE BAD GUY. WE HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER ALREADY. HE HAS ANOTHER CHILD THAT HE HASN’T SEEN FOR YEARS AND I JUST FOUND OUT I’M PREGNANT (2 + HPT). WE DO NOT GET ALONG. OUR HOUSE IS ALREADY MORE THAN WE CAN AFFORD AND TOO SMALL. HE WASN’T SUPPORTIVE AT ALL WITH OUR OTHER CHILD. HAVING THIS BABY DOES NOT MAKE ANY SENSE, BUT THE THOUGHT OF TERMINATING IT IS HORRIFYING TO ME. I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO. MY FAMILY DISOWNED ME SEVERAL YEARS AGO. MY OTHER CHLDREN’S FATHER IS ALWAS CREATING PROBLEMS. SOMEONE I THOUGHT WAS MY BFF BETRAYED ME- SO HERE I AM. ALONE….
THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY. I AM SURE WITH THE BIRTH OF YOUR NEPHEW, THIS WILL BE A TOUGH TIME WATCHING HIM GROW UP. BUT WHAT IS DONE IS DONE. PERHAPS YOU CAN TURN THAT SADNESS INTO AN EXTRA SPECIAL BOND WITH YOUR NEPHEW? I JUST RECENTLY FOUND OUT I WAS PREGNANT AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I’M GOING TO DO. HUSBAND AND ALL OTHER FACTORS ARE LEANING TOWARDS TERMINATION, BUT I JUST DON’T KNOW IF I CAN GO THROUGH THAT?
YOU SHOULD GO BACK TO YOUR DR THAT YOU HAD YOUR PROCEDURE THROUGH AND THEY CAN GIVE YOU A CONFIDENTIAL NOTE. IF YOUR PARENTS DO NOT KNOW, THEN PERHAPS YOU CAN TALK WITH YOUR SCHOOL NURSE? DEFINATELY DO NOT RISK PARTICIPATING IN PHYSICAL ACTIVITY. THE RISKS ARE TOO DANGEROUS. IF NOT, MAYBE A “SPRAINED” ANKLE COMES UP?
