Radical

video cam girl f1cea64142f2be96df29b4df792b4640Radical change came in the '60's and '70's. These decades saw many, many, good changes—the Civil Rights movement, for one, which gave dignity and equality to black Americans. As for sexuality and relationships, perhaps some fresh air needed to be let into the bedroom, where, in the "I Love Lucy" show, Lucy and Ricki slept in different beds. This was the world of appearances, and it's no wonder that both men and women felt a little rebellious, growing out their hair and burning their bras! (more…)

What Women want: What men want.

couple013 cr f1cea64142f2be96df29b4df792b4640He says he loves you? What's to stop him from taking your special gift and dumping you? What's to prove to you that he loves you and not just your body? Nothing. Guys have honey soaked tongues, they'll swear on the stars and heavens that they worship you and tomorrow you'll find them worshiping the girl next door! (more…)

A Good Guy?

 

poofy hairWhile definitely not an authority on men, like you, I am looking in the daytime with a flashlight for a good one. I’ll admit it, I am single, and would not mind finding a quality guy, but at the same time, I’m picky. Not just any man is up to my standards, and there are qualifications he has to meet. For me, I would rather not date at all than go out with a loser. Why waste my time and effort on someone who is not worth it, just to be able to say, “I was on a date this Friday.” Some women derive satisfaction from being able to say this. It boosts their self esteem when they are asked out my multiple men, but not me. I will take one good one over a whole pile of losers.

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Finding Prince Charming

mom kissing baby blueYou kinda have to feel sorry for the guys sometimes, because they have so much to live up to with the whole “Prince Charming” thing, you need to have realistic expectations for any relationship you get into. Here’s something you have to remember- Guys are clueless! Maybe not all the time, but sometimes, they don’t understand why it’s important to remember certain dates or why it ticks us off when they go off somewhere with boys and why we don’t just sit down and watch the game with them instead of pouting that they aren’t listening to us.

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Blessed Are The Barren Black

 

sitting on a logHey — I’ve just finished reading an article on Planned Parenthood’s roots. Like many of the young people today I wasn’t very interested in what happened in the 1920’s; unless it was in a super romantic movie about some soldier and his love separated because of a war or something

For me having grown up in a fast changing world, history belonged in text books in school. Dealing with an issue began with dealing with it here and now, as it is, and not as it was. So when I read this piece, in my mind the name “Planned Parenthood” stopped being just about “abortion” it became associated with something that for a black person like me, I found alarming… it became “Black ” population control.

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A Froggie Or A Prince

 

looking up at skyWomen were not designed to be alone, we were designed to love and be loved. It gives us drive and purpose in life.

When I was a child, I read stories about Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Snow White, Rapunzel, and all the rest of those super-lucky and super-perfect babes that got Prince Charming, and I knew, that I knew, that I knew that one day I would find a Prince and live happily ever after.

Well… Prince C has still not come to carry me off into the sunset. But that’s not going to ruffle my feathers, because… well, he’s supposed to come along! He has to. He must! It’s how the story ends!

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