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A Story of Hope, Courage, and New Beginnings

Greetings from South Africa: A story received from one of our affiliated pregnancy centres touched me so much that I wanted to share it with you, as it captures the essence of hope and love that we strive to nurture in our community.




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Lesson About Her Unborn Baby’s Life

A pregnant girl not ready for parenthood, struggles to reconcile that her life will change forever. She resorts to ending her pregnancy. Her mother makes one last desperate plead to save the unborn baby’s life.




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I’m Pregnant Conversation with my Parents

Telling your parents “I’m pregnant” can be a challenging conversation but approaching it with preparation can make it easier. Here are some points to help you have the conversation. StandUpGirl has resources to guide your pregnancy journey.




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More Real Stories

Juno’s Story

The movie Juno is a StandUpGirl story... one that is humorous and smart though less moving than Bella.  Roger Ebert said; "...It is so very rare to...

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The Ghost of Christmas Past

What does it mean to be black, young, and pregnant?  How much more out of control can life get.  Nick Cannon's rap poem to his mother in 1979 (as...

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xmas blues maybe?

I don't know what is wrong with me lately. I just don't feel myself. I just don't feel happy. I don't have it bad though. I have a lil girl and I...

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confuzed

I am a teen that's confuzed and wants a baby. What should I do...??

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Why Iam “Lonely_girl”

My story is almost the same as everyone else on here. I had an abortion when I was 15, and scared with no choice. I lived with my mother, no father....

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happy but really scared

OK, so me and my Boyfriend tried for a baby this month. Now, my period was due yesterday. Me and my friend were joking about me being pregnant so I...

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My story so far..

Well...I guess I should probably start from the beginning, so here goes... About three months ago, I found out I was pregnant after taking a spare...

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scared

Yeah, so there is this statistic I read that some big percentage of girls that become teen moms at an early age have another child within 24 months...

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relief

I went into the emergency room on Friday for extreme stomach pain. They did an ultrasound and I saw my baby for the first time and heard its...

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trying to get pregnant

Hi, I'm trying to get pregnant. I had a stabbing pain in my lower left side just below my hip. Is this ovulation? ( Dec 9) I've been having mild...

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A toast

Once upon a time there lived a man who really believed in God. And one day, there was a flood in his city. So when the water was gushing down, he...

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Just got here

Hi! Well, I just found this site and thought it was amazing, to find so many girls with similar life struggles. It's nice to chat with someone that...

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Brand New Concept

As you probably gathered from my other (slightly poetic and aloof) blog entry: my cousin aborted the baby. She has said (or so I heard) that it was...

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They rise and they fall…

If you look at it in terms of living through it, in terms of living through it on the edge and under pressure, 9 months is a very long time... Just...

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2 years ago

I have a little girl who is 2 years old named Jaymie Lee. I became pregnant at the young age of 15 and let me tell you, things did not go to...

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A mom’s Fears

Lately, I have been worried but pretty much excited that I might be pregnant. I know how hard it will be and I am not expecting this to be easy...

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Life can be so peculiar

Not looking to bore you but to encourage you in your walks, decisions, and thoughts. I recently found out that my barely 16-year-old daughter is...

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31 weeks and 4 days.

At my 30-week scan, the doctor noticed my placenta was disintegrating before its supposed to. Not much to be worried about, but enough to have him...

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I wanna have a baby

Hey everyone. Ya, well, I thought I was pregnant, but I found out that I am not and it is very depressing because I have already lost one child. I...

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happy!!

This is a really good website for young parents. I am only 18 and am expecting my first baby on the 31st, so not too long now. And I am really...

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sad.

So I'm sad. I just found out that at about 12 weeks of your pregnancy or around there your baby will sometimes silently cry. That broke my heart...

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im a new prego

Hi, I'm 17 years old and just found out I'm 3 weeks and 4 months pregnant. My mom kicked me out and I have no place to go. My boyfriend doesn't even...

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