Featured Sister’s Letters

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Drawing the Line

  Some people have been wondering what I mean by "unspoken set of rules." In my last column, I mentioned that having a set of rules for yourself...

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Are You Sexting?

Sexting Why do women sext more than men?  And why are women more willing to expose their bodies than men are?  It seems really unfair to be the...

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You Can Love Him Now

 I recently had a bout with Lyme disease.  I was visiting my best friend in California and we decided to go hiking in the woods.  Later that...

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Whose Baby?

Whose baby? "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but...

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A Good Guy?

  While definitely not an authority on men, like you, I am looking in the daytime with a flashlight for a good one. I’ll admit it, I am single,...

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Throwin’ Em Away

Just one look at what my three-person household produces, from one recycling day to the next, astonishes me. Even though I try to keep the...

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Christmas After The Choice

It's that time of year again. But as the whole world seems to be dizzy with decorating, spending and cooking up a storm, there are others who...

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