Featured Sister’s Letters

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Valentine’s Day And Sex

    Let’s just be honest, there is a lot of pressure to have sex on Valentine’s Day.  It is a holiday of love, but love can mean so many...

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Drawing the Line

  Some people have been wondering what I mean by "unspoken set of rules." In my last column, I mentioned that having a set of rules for yourself...

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Whose Baby?

Whose baby? "Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but...

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I’m Childless At 42…

I'm childless at 42 and haunted by the baby I aborted at 18 Setting out from my home in sleepy Devon, I catch the bus into the nearest big town,...

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Invisible Mother

I'm not one to get excited by forwarded e-mail.  But this one came from a dear friend, so I read it.  And right off the bat, I was hooked.  I...

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Christmas After The Choice

It's that time of year again. But as the whole world seems to be dizzy with decorating, spending and cooking up a storm, there are others who...

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You Can Love Him Now

 I recently had a bout with Lyme disease.  I was visiting my best friend in California and we decided to go hiking in the woods.  Later that...

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