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Adoption Over Abortion

If My Little Voice Could Speak By: Shelbea Riddle -An Adopted High School Senior 10 little fingers 10 little toes I am so cute. But nobody knows. Only God, Who fearfully and wonderfully made me. He knows. He knows I am perfect. If I could have just One breath, One...

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The Love Behind Adoption

Dear Becky- We adopted our one and only boy almost eight years ago. His birth mom chose us out of so many wonderful families. There are no words to describe this amazing, most awesome experience. The birth mom asked if I wanted to watch our son be born. Of course I...

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One Day At A Time

Dear Becky- I'm so confused and don't know what to do. I think I'm a month pregnant as I have been experiencing a lot of pregnancy symptoms. I haven't told my boyfriend, as we are experiencing major problems and he is with another woman. I'm not ready to be a parent...

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I Know How You Feel

Hi, I know exactly how you feel. I was 31 when i became pregnant. It was an unplanned pregnancy as I had been saving myself for my husband, but that person was not to be my husband and I have a beautiful baby girl.  This pregnancy was through rape..this hurt me so so...

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I’m 19 Pregnant And Not Married! Help!

Dear Becky- I just found out that I am pregnant. I'm 19, not married, and on top of that I just got a position at school that I worked really hard for. I made a big mistake and I feel by being pregnant I'm letting the whole school down. I keep debating on keeping the...

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We Just Got Caught

It was the last day of school my freshman year of high school. My mom was a teacher so we had the whole house to ourselves for half of the day. My boyfriend and I had been together since the 8th grade and had always had it bad for each other.In our second grade year...

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Leave It To A Guy To Blame The Girl

Becky -- Before I was married, when I was much younger and much more liberal in my thinking and deeds,I was very pro-choice.I thought the whole idea of being pro-life was archaic thinking, that in a world already wrought with so much anguish and despair, why could I...

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Is That A Bad Thing Or Good?

Dear Becky, I'm not normally one to ask for help but right now I'm so confused and very not sure what to do. In December, two years ago, I aborted a baby to make my bf at the time happy. He told me we would be together and he would never leave me. I was wrong. Last...

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Scared Nonetheless!

I just found your blog, and I wanted to share my story with you. I was living in Mexico teaching English when I found out I was pregnant. I was 30 years old, so not a young girl, but I was scared nonetheless. My boyfriend and I started making plans to get married...

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I Respect All Of You

Hi Becky, It has been over a year since I first emailed you about being pregnant to my friend and he wanted nothing to do with it. Even though I have been through the hard struggle of dealing with abortion or pregnancy and choosing to keep my son Noah Jay who is now 8...

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School And A Baby!

Dear Becky- I am a junior in high school, popular, cheerleader. I live with my mom and she has always supported me in everything I do. My dad on the other hand, just married his 6th wife and, as usual, his children get booted out and the new wife and her family will...

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I want To Help!

Hello, I know it may not be Becky who gets this, so to whoever gets it :), I have had an account on this site for a long time and first off I want to say thank you for all the help and support this site has given me. I could never begin to explain how happy I am that...

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