Hey girls!! I’m 17. My husband is 20. We have been together for 4 years…
From the time I was 15, all I wanted was to be a mom. Doctors told me it was impossible… In Dec, I got pregnant. I lost my baby at week 3. It was bad and it hurt so I drank to help with the pain. In Feb, I stopped drinking because I missed my period. Well, I took the test and it said negative. Well on my brother’s birthday in March, I still had not had it. So I took 5 pregnancy tests. They all said yes. So I was scared that I would lose that baby too. I went to the doctor. Everything was good. The baby was growing and everything… Things got better for me till I was 4 months pregnant. My husband lost his job. My mom moved out… I felt alone… When I was 5 months along, he found another job… Then I was put on bed rest since I have a high-risk pregnancy. I am now 6 and a half months pregnant. My son is my everything… He will be born Dec 1. I have to have a c-section… I spend the weekend with my mom and her new husband!! My husband and I are very lucky that we were able to get pregnant because all the doctors said it was impossible…
Tell me your story or what you think of mine. I really want other teen moms to talk to. So let’s talk.
I’m 19. I am in college. I’m a medical student.
All that’s great, right? Here’s the kicker. I’m 6 months pregnant. I got pregnant from rape. My boyfriend is on the older side, and my dad is sooo tripping. lol. What can I do? I love this baby so much already!
I am having a little girl. Due November 23rd.
dear baby,
its me, your mommy. im sorry that i did such a horrible thing to you. i knew that you and me were connected the moment i saw that little blue plus sign. i remember everytime me and daddy would fight, i would cry, and i knew you cried with me because my stomach hurt. and when i would laugh, you laughed with me because my stomach had butterflies. i know you hate your daddy, because he didnt want you. i wanted you, you know i did. but i was being pressured and you know your mommys not good under pressure like your daddy is. sometimes, when i get stomach cramps, or i get nascious, or i take a long soothing nap, i still think you’re in my tummy, waiting to surprise me each day. i wanted to see you at the clinic, when they did that ultrasound. i wanted to know if you were mommys little boy, or girl. you would’ve been Audrianna or Daniella, or Malik or Caden or Skyler. me and you would’ve been the best of friends. we would’ve had so much fun, me watching you grow each week, devolping fingers and toes. who would you look like: me or daddy? how would you sound when you laughed or cried? how would you hold my finger. i wonder every day about those things and i cant stand what i did to you because i know it hurt. but it also hurt me. i just want to let you that i love you, i love you soooooo much i cant describe it. when im 24 or 25 or 26, we’ll meet someday, and you’ll open your little eyes and i’ll smile at your cute face. i miss you and i havent forgotten you. im sorry. i am.
Love, Mommy.
I need everyone’s thoughts on this because I can’t take a pregnancy test until at least the beginning of September. So if you could, comment on this or something and let me know whether you think I might be pregnant or not, please? Because I wanna make sure if you guys think I am that I stop doing all the bad things, yeah know?
I’m 15 and the boy is 18 🙂
Alright, so here’s the story: Me and this guy started talking around 2 years ago because my mom’s best friend’s son was best friends with him. Okay, that’s confusing, hahaha. But then last summer, we finally hung out, mostly alone, and ended up just talking about stuff & we ended up kissing.
Since then, we talked off and on.
This past May, he was at my friend’s birthday party. He’s her cousin, and we ended up leaving the party for a bit to go talk about stuff. We decided that we both felt something big every time we hung out. The only thing is… He has a girlfriend, but he’s only with her because she’s 21 :/ but still.
Anyway, one night we were partying together along with all our friends and went swimming in the river & he asked me to stay at his house with our two other friends. Obviously, I said yes. When we got to his house, we showered together & yeah, you know the rest 😛
After neither of us could sleep, but our 2 friends were already asleep when we got outa the shower, so we just sat there and talked for literally 4 hours straight 🙂
This summer, we were always together and had been having sex (unprotected since I’m on birth control). At the end of July, right before I got grounded (I just got off), we had sex, unprotected like always, but I hadn’t been taking my birth control for a week because I forgot it when we all went camping.
So now I’ve missed my period, kinda. I’ve had light spotting.
and I’ve also:
- Had nausea/stomach pain, usually at night
- Been nauseous when I smelled certain foods, even my usual favorites.
- Been peeing a ton
- Had breast tenderness, like its sore to wear a bra
- Had heartburn I think
21 weeks
It’s been a while since my last update. Bubby has been kicking since the 15th week and I found out last week that I’m having a baby boy. Things still haven’t improved between my baby’s dad and me, but I am starting to get used to the fact that we will never get back together, despite the fact that he says he loves me. He has had nothing to do with Bub at all, hasn’t helped with stuff for Bub and the nursery, and is still telling people that it isn’t his baby. I have had to pay for all of the things I have gotten for the baby, had to do cleaning and shopping, and he has been no help at all. He expects me to do everything. I seriously doubt we will be living in the same house for much longer. I have decided to call our son Kieran Xavier. He is so gorgeous. At the ultrasound last week, he was kicking the scanning wand away and hiding from the cameras. And he flashed Nathaniel to show him he was a boy! Morning sickness still hasn’t passed so looks like it is something I will have to put up with. Along with back, rib, and stomach pain, major hormone changes, high blood pressure, and prenatal depression. I really can’t wait until it is time for Kieran to be born. But things aren’t easy. I am finding it hard to find baby items that I need and there are only 4 and a half months left. Plus I still have to finish planning my baby shower which is about 2 and a half months away. I still haven’t even found a new house and I have to start doing that soon if I am going to have a place for me and Kieran to live when he is born. He really is everything to me and I am so glad there was never serious doubt as to whether or not I would keep him.
My life has changed so much, but I believe it is for the better because he has given me so much purpose
Is this really how it feels?
It’s been 1 month since that abortion… I miss her with everything I am. I know I was too early to find out the sex of my baby, but I’m certain it’s a girl. My life has been sooooo rough since then. My ex-boyfriend running my life telling my boyfriend now a whole bunch of crap. My parents the other night got so drunk and hit me and my sister, and my boyfriend took me to his house (Thank God). DCFS might take me and my sister away… I don’t want that to happen. School has started and I have NO FRIENDS in my classes so I sit in the back of class, wondering, thinking about my baby. Since my friend has also gone through the same thing, we asked our social worker to put her in my classes since her reading teacher is pregnant. I honestly can’t take the struggle here at home. I can’t take the struggle in class… Is this it? Is this how it feels to suffocate?
Times like these, I wish I had my baby back…
