19 Years old ,6 weeks pregnant… ok now what??

I found out on Feb 1st that I was pregnant!!

I’ve been freaking out since. I have so many questions, but no one to turn to. Haven’t told my parents yet cuz I’m a little scared of the way they’ll react! My Boyfriend and I have decided to keep the baby. So now that we took care of that, what do I do? I’m really confused and scared… IF ANYONE HAS SOME ADVICE ON TELLING MY PARENTS, THAT WOULD HELP!!

Thanks, I’ll be glad to keep you posted. I really need the help!

I don’t know what to do! Please help me :'(

I’m 18. I was forced to have an abortion and I regret it more than anything in this world.

I can’t study or do anything because I believe that I was meant to have this baby. I have a 23-year-old fiancé, and he has a job. He is a cooking chef. I want to ask him to try again and I know he will say yes. The thing is, if I decide to have a child now, I know I will be more than happy, but I will have no studies (I am an artist, a writer, and I have diplomas in singing so I’m sure I can find a job in that). Also, I will have to leave France and go to another country to raise my child as my fiancé cannot get a job in Paris so easily (it’s practically impossible). I know, and I feel it in my heart that this is the life I want, the life I need, but I’m still so scared to leave my family behind and everything. I’m so scared of making the wrong decision.

Can someone please give me their advice? I have no one to talk to :'( Please help me…

uhmmm :S

Honestly, I have no idea what’s going on…

I have a feeling I could have a huge problem here, but part of me says it’s just coincidence…I dunno what to think anymore and there is no way in hell I’m asking an adult some questions… Part of me wants to be right… And the other part wants it to be coincidence just so I don’t have to face talking to my mum….

Uh-oh… I dunno what to do :s

This is Hard to Admit

Well, I am not sure how I am going to explain how i am feeling right now, but I am going to try my best.

They call me Honeybee at school because I am usually very hyper and fun. Lately not so much. I had sex with a guy for the first time two weeks ago and I have missed my period. Yes, we used protection but things were going on before we put on the condom. It is very hard to explain. I automatically flipped thinking I might be pregnant.

I felt horrible and was constantly crying. I ended up telling my parents. Which I thought was the better option than trying to hide this. My dad wanted to rip the kid’s face off and my mom was upset with my choice, but they both took it pretty well from what I can see.

The boy didn’t know and my mom decided to go and talk to this guy’s parents about it all. To my amazement, his mom blamed the whole thing on me and said she begged him not to sleep with me. Like he was a little angel apparently. This guy is no angel though. He has cheated on his ex-girlfriends, nearly knocked up a girl before me, and slept with a few others. How was I any different?

When he got home, his parents told him what had happened and he freaked out at me for not telling him sooner. How was I supposed to tell him anything when he stopped talking to me and would never look at me?

I am scared and confused and I feel like if I am not pregnant I will look like an idiot for thinking I was… Please help me.

I have a secret

I had an abortion about 4 years ago. Nobody knows except my mom and my boyfriend. I was too ashamed to tell anyone else but reading everybody’s stories gave me the strength to tell mine.

I was 14. My boyfriend (who I’m still with) and I had a bad relationship. He would cheat on me and date other girls then I would take him back. I have always suffered from depression and the things he was doing to me drove me crazy. It felt like I couldn’t breathe without him. He was my everything, the only person I had. My mom was hooked on pills, my father was never around, and my sisters did their own thing. I cut myself a lot. It helped me deal with the pain. We were sexually active. We used condoms most of the time, but I guess one time we didn’t. And I got pregnant. It was May and the last day of school and he broke up with me for a girl he always cheated on me with and I knew he did, but I didn’t care as long as I had him. Well, when I got home, my mom was at work and it was just me and my little sister, who was 12 at the time. I was so devastated. I didn’t know I was pregnant yet. I ran to my room, took sleeping pills, and cut my wrists BAD!! Blood was everywhere. I passed out. My little sis came in and saw what I had done and she couldn’t wake me up, so she called 911. The ambulance came, brought me to the hospital, and they stitched me up. Luckily, no serious damage was done. My mom came up there with my aunt and cousin. My mom was so scared and upset. I felt so bad for doing this to her, but I didn’t want to live anymore. It wasn’t just him that hurt me. It was everything. I felt like I was drowning in a black hole with no escape.

They told my mom I had to go to a mental hospital. They kept me on suicide watch in a padded room and straight-jacket for the first 2 days then I was put in a room. They had me on so many different meds; 1 for depression, 1 for bipolar, and some other ones that made me a zombie. I remember some things, but not all. My mom and sisters came to visit me and it made my mom sick seeing me so zoned out. I couldn’t hold my niece cause I was weak and shaking. I was in there for 8 days. I had no pregnancy symptoms that I noticed, so being pregnant never crossed my mind. The day before I left, they gave me a pee test to make sure all my meds were in my system and I guess they had done a pregnancy test cause they told me and my mom when I was leaving that I was pregnant.

My mom didn’t know we were having sex. My mom hated him. They took me off the meds except for my antidepressants and bipolar meds. They said it wouldn’t hurt the baby. I was so out of it that it didn’t even register to me that I was having a baby. When I got home, my mom called him and told him I was out of the hospital and I was pregnant. He didn’t care. He was running around having fun while I suffered. My mom and I went to the doctor and I was 12 weeks pregnant. We talked and I decided I couldn’t have a baby. I just got out of a mental hospital and was severely underweight (80 pounds) and depressed plus I thought that the baby was hurt already from all the meds. May 27th was the day I decided to kill my child. My mom called and set up an appointment. I was so numb on the way there. My mom cried and cried. She didn’t want me to go through this, but we had no other choice. My mom was a single mother working like a man to support 3 daughters plus my niece. We had no money or even a place to put the baby. We got there and I filled out paperwork and they brought me back there and did an ultrasound. I was 13 weeks pregnant. The doctor came in and asked me if I was ready. I said yes. I was still numb. They gave me pain meds and laid me on the table and sucked my baby out of me. It hurt. God, it hurt. I cried and told them to stop, but it was too late. My baby was gone.

I see her. In my mind, it was a girl. I saw my dead, bloody baby in a bowl. That was when it hit me. They gave me more pain pills and I left. The ride back was horrible. My mom tried to comfort me, but I was in hysterics. What had I done??? I killed my baby, my innocent child who didn’t ask to be born. She didn’t deserve what I had done to her because i was too selfish and depressed. I slept for days. I finally called my boyfriend and told him. He cried and apologized for making me do this. We talked for a while and decided to give it another chance. We have been together for 5 years now and I have given birth to 3 boys. Cameron is 2 and a half, Ethan (who I gave up) is 1 and a half, and Kaiden is 7 months. I wanted a girl so bad, but i know that I killed my little girl. I still suffer from major depression and think about her every day. I named her Promise Leigh. I have never shared this horrible part of my life with anyone. I hope this story helps people.

Aborting my baby was the worst thing I’ve ever done, even though I thought it was the best thing at the time and I will regret it till the day I die. I would give anything to have her back. I am very lucky that God gave me another chance to be a mother to my 2 sons. If you’re thinking of abortion, think again. You will regret it.