I’m 18 and I’m unsure if I’m pregnant or not.
I haven’t had my menstrual cycle in 2 months. A week after I missed my cycle, I went to the doctor and they said I was not pregnant but the doctor said it takes a while to know. So the doctor said come back in 2-3 weeks, but a week after that, I bought a pregnancy test from the store and it said I was not pregnant. I’ve been sleeping a lot and I’ve been having cramps also. I don’t know what to do… My boyfriend believes I’m pregnant because he’s eating a lot more and he’s always sleeping like me. If I am pregnant, I’m keeping my child…
What do you all think about my situation? Do you all think I’m pregnant or something else is wrong?????
Hey, I’m only 15 and 6 months pregnant with my first baby boy.
During my first three months, I got morning sickness like normal or actually, I always got sick at night. Then at the end of my three months, it stopped. But here recently, I have been getting sick all the time. I can barely eat at times. Sometimes, it’s nothing but blood that comes up. I have been to the emergency room twice in the last three weeks and they tell me that it’s normal to just deal with it. They checked the baby’s heartbeat and everything with him was good.
I’m not sure what else to do. Somebody please help.
Hey everybody, what’s up? I’m 15 yrs. old and Tuesday, July the 3rd, I will be 6 months pregnant. My due date is October the 18th. I’m having a little boy.
I never thought I’d be the next pregnant teenage girl but I took that risk. Even before I found out that I was pregnant, I didn’t think that I was when I found out. I was shocked and terrified all at once. At first, my aunt was the only one that supported me but as the months passed, my mom and family slowwly came around. However, it’s still hard because I know that they are a little disappointed in me. They always said I’d be the one to do something with my life. I know I can still achieve all my dreams if I try but they don’t think so. For one, I’ve already been kicked out of two schools because they didn’t allow pregnancy. The father to my baby left me when I was barely a month. I never thought he’d stay but it still breaks my heart to know that I am carrying his baby inside me and he doesn’t even care. I cry a lot. I feel so empty and alone. I’m ashamed of myself and the pregnancy. I thought the days would get easier but they only get harder. Somedays I think to myself, please, am I really ready to raise a baby.
So what’s your story? Please tell me I’m not the only one that feels this way?????????????
If I can help one person, I will be happy! Please don’t do it.
I was forced by my parents to have an abortion when I was 15. I will never be the same person. There will always be a hole in my soul. I am now married with 3 children- and I still grieve the loss. If only I would have stood up to them as many brave girls did on this website. If you are not able to care for the baby and give it a good home—adoption is the best alternative. At least you will know in your heart that your baby is in a good place. I have a friend that opted to give her child away at 16 (in secret). After 25 years, her son sought her out and met his 3 siblings. She said the hole in her heart has been mended. I will never get that chance. I can only hope that I will be forgiven.
I look at my children now and wonder what my baby would have been like. I have had multiple miscarriages throughout my life- and I often wonder if this was my punishment. Also- I do not have any girls. Was this aborted baby a girl? Was that my chance? I will never know- and will never stop thinking about it.
I sometimes think I should talk to someone about my guilty feelings- and feelings of loss. But what will it help? What is done is done- and it cannot be taken back. I will have to live with my decision for the rest of my life. I also will live with ill feelings towards my parents for the rest of my life- which I really hate. They are good people- and I’m sure they hate the decision they made also. I don’t know- because it was never talked about again. It is the “dirty secret” in our closet.
So- please- think long and hard about what is right for you. Because if you decide to have an abortion- the decision does not fade away after it is complete. It haunts you.
My daughter’s name is Olivia Karen Ezmeralda. She is 9 months. She was born on Sept 26.
That was the best day ever. She was 8 pounds 3 ounces and 21 1/4 inches long. She was also a week early.
So no good news for another month. I sit here and wonder if I will ever have the right to conceive.
It burns my heart constantly to think there’s a possibility it may never happen. But something has changed inside me. The burning has stopped being the result of an intense relentless yearning to feel my baby inside of me, to hold him, to kiss him, to watch him, be born and grow. It has now become a burning at the thought of it NEVER happening for me. It is no longer a question of now Now NOW!! I have questioned myself and am halted at the answers… How would I be able to handle being somebody’s mother right now? Will he really be that great Dad of my visions right now or am I just fantasizing? Will I be that great mother? How will I handle the isolation? I’m lonely now at times… What about being lonely and having a little person demand of me all the time? Money? Will we survive it? How will we handle the stresses? Are we good for a baby? Is a baby good for us right now? There are so many things I would want to be to my child and children, there’s so many things I myself want to experience within the act of having a baby. But I have to ask myself if my realism is being tinted rose. I don’t know and I guess you can’t know until your baby arrives and there’s no way back. Ever. But I don’t want it to be a ‘too late, you’re stuck with it’ situation. Is there healing we both need to do before we create another? Do wounded people make faulted parents?
There are parts of me that believe my failure to conceive so far is serving as a wakeup call a reflective moment in my life. There are more parts that see it as a punishment for a crime I didn’t commit or can’t remember. Is conception a scientific equation or a blessing from God. And how does He decide who and when they should be blessed? Is it right that the girl who has had 12 abortions was able to conceive after 5 only to kill another 7? Is it right that a incestuous peodiphillic beast is able to have seven children with his daughter? How is it fair that these people are ‘blessed’ with children and my fiancé and I are not? Are we undeserving or are we being given time to fix ourselves? Who ever heals and forgets completely pains from the past….whether the one they love inflicted them or not?
I see no sense in this failed plight. I see no sense in the fact it ever sailed. I will never know when the time is right. I will never know when I am healed. I will never know if i can or cannot conceive. I will never be decided in whether he will turn out to be that great Father-Husband. I will never know if I will be that great Mother-Wife. Not until it happens and since we have waited a year…. There is no more pain in waiting some more.
