I was on my way home on the bus, and I was having serious abdominal pain. I was so scared. and more when I felt like blood was coming from down there.
When I got to the actual bus station, I called my dad and he sent my stepmom. I was on the phone and I was crying and scared. I remember saying to myself, my baby, oh my baby is going to die and it’s all my fault I let what they were saying at home get to me. I should have been stronger and he would be OK. When my stepmom got there and took me to the ER, they took some tests. And gave me some medicine for the pain. it wasn’t blood but it was very thick mucus. and I was still freakin’ out and she wasn’t being supportive. She just kept saying you lost the baby. And I was so mad, I couldn’t believe that. She wasn’t comforting but so cold to me especially when I am there crying. My ex-friend had called me on the ride to the ER and I told her I was on my way to the hospital and she pretty much arrived at the same time did. She held my hand got me to smile, even though the medication pretty much took over me. I slept a lil which was good. My dad finally got there and I said hi and he let me and her be. The nurse came in and said that as far as the could tell everything was OK. And I was OK to go home with some antibiotics for a UTI that the had found. All I remember hearing was that my baby was OK, and I felt OK a sign of relief.
My stepmom and my dad’s sister weren’t very excited that the baby was OK but I didn’t care cuz it was there that it was clear I was the protector of my lil baby…
Dear my little sugarplum.
Mummy and Daddy still miss you, baby. We love you so much, no one will ever take your place.
It’s mummy’s 17th next month. I’m getting a tattoo- for you. So you will forever be with me. If you could see it when it’s done, I think you’d like it. I have drawn it out and everything. Daddy likes it 🙂
Mummy is struggling a lot with everything lately, but I try to carry on- I like to think you are watching me sometimes so I want to make you proud. Baby- I never stop thinking about it. Not even for one second! Like I said in my last letter, you will always be Mummy and Daddy’s little baby, our first child!
I love you so much baby! forever and always.
Love
Mummy and Daddy
xxxx
Hey, I really need your help.
I came off the jab on March the 10th and have been having unprotected sex. On the 8th of April, I got my period and it ended on the 14th of April.
I since have had unprotected sex on the 15th, 16th, 17th, and 19th of April. I haven’t taken a pregnancy test yet but I have had some kind of side effects like cramps in my tummy, really sore breasts that have gone really hard even around my nipples, it feels like a round ball inside my nipples, I’ve been really tired since sleeping twice a day. Feeling sick in the morning not wanting to eat and sometimes getting it throughout the day. I have had a whole lot of discharge and a bit of spotting and lower back pains. I really don’t know what to think I really have been trying for one and I just don’t want to get my hopes up just yet. That’s why I really need your help do you think I’m pregnant?
Please reply.
Hi, I’m 24 and have 2 wonderful children already. I fell pregnant 9 months ago and chose to have it terminated, with very much regret.
Since then I have been very poorly with lots of blood loss lasting 3 weeks at a time and stopping for a week then starting again. I attended many hospital appointments and had many tests but doctors found nothing, or so they said. I’m now 6 weeks pregnant, I think as my bleeding stopped. So I tested and it was positive. However, since finding out, I have started bleeding again. I was sent once more for an ultrasound this week to try and find out what is causing this and work out when I conceived, etc. only to find out that I have two sacks in my uterus, but it’s not a twin pregnancy. There was a lot of whispering going on between the doctors and all I was told was that in one sack there was a baby and a heartbeat and in the other, it was blood. It seems this other sack has been inside me for a while and the doctors had missed it, which has been making me poorly.
This is why I’m so frightened. All I’ve been told is I’m going to miscarry within two weeks because my real pregnancy is in the wrong place. But why did they miss this other sack? Surely, if it was a twin pregnancy, they would have said, but they didn’t so they are clearly hiding something. Please help me. I don’t understand what is going on.
I’ve been on and off with my ex for 3 years now, and a week ago, I have found out that I am pregnant. I am about 7-9 weeks now, and at first, him and I were ok but then he told his parents, who are going to support my choice either way but this is a decision between me and the ex. I’ve already been threatened by a couple of people including his sister, and wanting me to get an abortion. With all that drama, he changed his mind too. He’s told me he isn’t going to love me anymore if I keep it, and that he is going to go to the military. So he could support it but either way, he wants nothing to do with me. He told me that he’s obviously not ready and he doesn’t think I am either.
But this is something that isn’t planned. He and I both know that and of course, we aren’t going to be ready, right? This guy has everything given to him, he has never had to face a problem because of his actions. It has always been about him, and his wants and needs. Now me, on the other hand, I no longer live at home, and I am now currently unemployed, and pretty much have nothing. Last year, I went through depression because of this guy, and I’ve thought over my choices and I thought if I got an abortion yeah, Id still be living with him but only cause he feels guilty. So I know where I’d be staying, but I feel like I’m going to lose lack of motivation of getting on my feet. Cause this is huge. If I get rid of this baby, then what? I feel like I wont go anywhere, and I have nothing going on in my life so I obviously don’t see anything for me. Either way, I know the father is not going to be in my life the way I want him to be or to love me that way that I’d like and I’m having a hard time wrapping my head around that.
But the twist is I have found a place that I could go to about 30 minutes away, where I’d have my own room, and I would be given a doctor that they have worked with over the past 17 years, and there I’d be required to work or be in school least 20 hours a week. And I’d learn basic skills like cooking, and I’d have a counselor to talk to and know my options about everything, and I think it would be great. If I were to have the baby, I would have a lot more to give than I would without this help. And I feel it would get me on my feet. Just I don’t think I am ready to have a kid. It’s a huge commitment, and it’s going to be with me the rest of my life, and its going to be a struggle with child support with the dad, and I can’t rely on him to be there in the future. He’s not faithful, I know he would move on with his life. And I just don’t know what to do and I’m completely lost and I need help. I feel this is too big for my head to handle.
I am Christian, and I don’t believe in abortion, and I feel like I’d be losing my faith. Just I wish there was a way I could talk the father into realizing that things would be okay, or to even appreciate my choice if I were to keep it. I’ve given up my mind, body, and heart for this guy just what more do I have to give. I try to think of what would be right for the baby’s life, and that would mean to go to that house. But I think about my life and I just don’t even know what to think about myself. And all it would do for the father is freedom and him to not learn from anything, and to continue living life, and flousing around with other girls for who knows how long, and I mean he calls me selfish, but am I being selfish? I think he is, cause he is thinking bout his life, even though he says it’d be the best for both of us. He’s still thinking more about himself than me, and I think it is more self centered around him. Just, am I wrong to keep the baby?
Either way I feel I’m doing something horribly wrong, SOMEONE JUST HELP ME FAST! If I go with abortion, he wants me to go NEXT WEEK. So please just help me come to my senses. Thank you for your time.
Hi, I am 25 years old. I have a 1-year-old daughter and I just had a son. He is 4 months old.
And now I am pregnant again and it’s not by my son’s father and I am scared and I don’t want to have this one because I am living with my mom, a single parent. I do work, still struggling. My son’s father, we was tryin to work it out but he would go and tell my homegirl about our problems. He is 20 years old. And this one thata I am pregnant from now, he wants to put me in a house. He loves kids and he is 33 years old, that’s a man. But my main concern is that I just had a baby.
What should I do, keep it?
