Well, my best friend had an abortion nearly two weeks ago and I didn’t make too much of an effort to stop it …
Yes, I told her that it wasn’t her only option and that she’d have support from me and our other friends… But I never told her about the ugly stuff, the sleepless nights, the nightmares, the longing for another baby…. I said I’d support her even if she went through with her decision to terminate. And, I did support her, even told her to take along earphones to shut out the sound of the machines…. Did I enable her? Did I help her along, even though I knew what kind of hell she would go through afterwards?
I don’t blame myself…. but I could have made her think twice. I could have changed her mind and saved an innocent life.
Now, she’s struggling to sleep…. thinking constantly and regretting it… I could have warned her and I didn’t.
What kind of friend am I? Here, I type to strangers, trying to save them from the pain ….. and I couldn’t help her
xoxox
Within 2 months, I will be a mother.
I believe in the saying” Life’s what you make it”. I would like to write my experiences and feelings during these days while I’m carrying out this baby and by the time, she’ll go out of my womb. I do really expect the unexpected. Even though I’m 14, too young to be a mother, I will stand my obligation and responsibility to become a great mom for my daughter.
Yay! I’m happy to say that my son is now 20 months old… And I will be having another son in 4 more monthz! Lol.. woo hoo! 2 days b4 Oaariki’s birthday, I will be due!
This is my fourth pregnancy and also my fourth child’s father.
I had sex with a guy on the first day. I am now 5 weeks pregnant and we have only been together a month. He asked if I was pregnant with a smile on his face… I told him yes. Then he said he didn’t want a baby and told me he would help me with the abortion. I told him I wasn’t having an abortion. I haven’t heard from him since then. I know why this happened. Last year, my child’s father ran me over with his truck while I was pregnant and I told myself I would never forgive him. God, I’m sorry for saying that I now forgive him. I now know what it feels like to need forgiveness. I am scheduled for an abortion Monday…
God, please forgive me. I’m in school. I have 3 kids. I have no help. I’m only 22. This is almost too much to bear… Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned.
I’m 18, my boyfriend is 22. I found out yesterday that I’m 6 weeks pregnant. We have been together for a little over 3 years. He is the love of my life. We have been living together for about a year and a half. right now we are living with his mom because my bf doesn’t have a job… I work 40 hours a week with two minimum-paying jobs. My boyfriend has beeen pressuring me “to take care of it” ;. He doesn’t think we are ready for a baby and I understand it wasn’t planned. I do not believe in abortion unless it is necessary. I have a lot of co worker’s supports on keeping my baby and helping me out. But it is very difficult without my boyfriend’s support. He’s saying I’m ruining our lives if I keep it. He says I’ll have to move out and find a place to live and take care of the baby on my own and he wants nothing to do with me.
I’m scared. Me and my boyfriend always talked about our future together and having a family and now it has come and he won’t accept it. I don’t want to lose him but I cannot kill our baby. I don’t know what to do. I need his support. I don’t want to be a single mom. I feel like he is letting me and our baby down. :'(
It was the most wonderful day ever. Me and my fiancé were going to attend a party at a friend’s house. This was an Indian festival celebrated in our city. We decided to arrange a party at our friend’s house, because her parents were out of station. Now BOOZE is a must at most parties. So as it goes, we all drank a lot and went to rest at our rooms, which led us to having sex.
The days that followed, we did not suspect pregnancy. Since everything was going well. Until after one week, when the test proved positive did I feel being 17 and pregnant. Meant my world would come crashing down.
