bf is pressuring an abortion…

by | 2009 | Real Stories

i'm 18, my bf is 22. i found out yesterday that i'm 6wks pregnant. we have been together for a little over 3 years. he is the love of my life. we have been living together for about a year and a half. right now we are living with his mom because my bf doesn't […]

i'm 18, my bf is 22. i found out yesterday that i'm 6wks pregnant. we have been together for a little over 3 years. he is the love of my life. we have been living together for about a year and a half. right now we are living with his mom because my bf doesn't have a job… i work 40hrs a week with two min. paying jobs. my boyfriend has beeen pressuring me "to take care of it" ;. he doesn't think we are ready for a baby and i understand it wasn't plannned. i do not believe in abortion unless it is necessary. i have alot of co worker's supports on keeping my baby and helping me out. but it is very difficult withoutt my boyfriend's support. he's saying i'm ruining our lives if i keep it. he says i'll have to move out and find a place to live and take care of the baby on my own and he wants nothing to do with me.

i'm scared. me and my bf always talked about our future together and having a family and now it has come and he won't accept it. i don't want to lose him but i cannot kill our baby.  i don't know what to do. i need his support. i don't want to be a single mom. i feel like he is letting me and our baby down:'(

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