Getting married

My fiancé and I have been doing premarital counseling.

Sunday, November 07, we got to finally set a real date for our wedding. It’s soon, December 13. I’m nervous and super excited. There is so much to plan and little time to do it in. Everyone keeps saying I am too young to get married but I know with him by my side, I can do it. People keep saying we will just get divorced within the next year, and it hurts that people don’t have faith in us. We haven’t been together for years and years, but we have been together for quite a while. We want to get married because we are in love, and couldn’t imagine life without each other, but we’re also having a baby boy in March. Everything is happening so fast, but it seems like everything is great. My fiance’s family and I still don’t get along the best, but I am trying so hard for him. His dad wants to take my fiancé and I out to dinner the day before Thanksgiving, so we’re going to go and hopefully have a good time.

Pregnant again

Hi, I’m 23. I have a 1-year-old son and just found out I’m pregnant with my second child. I was a little excited when I found out but now I’m a lil undecided and scared… I’m still with my fiancé’ (and baby father). If anyone wanna chat or give me some advice, or just if they have gone or going through something similar, leave a message thanks 🙂

I am desparate for a baby

I am 20 years old and live in London, UK. It may sound really stupid, but since about 14-15, I have wanted a big family and that starts with a baby at an early age.

Now I’m 20, I feel as though I don’t have much time to start a family. I know that my mum will be supportive of me having a baby because she’s already told me that she would like more grandchildren (the sooner the better), but I have no boyfriend and I’m verging on the edge of agoraphobia (hate going outside). I’ve looked into a private sperm donor but this is proving harder than I first thought. That’s how desperate I am. I’ve even started collecting baby clothes and toys so that I am partially prepared but no one knows this.  I need to know what to do.

Please, please help me.

First Decision

I’m 17 years old, turning 18 in March.

I just found out that I am 7 weeks pregnant. The father is 16 years old and in an open relationship with one of my best friends. This isn’t the first time he’s gotten me pregnant. Last time, he said he would be there for me but as soon as I took the pregnancy test, he ran. He said he wanted nothing to do with me or the baby. I ended up not carrying to term and me and him became friends again. We talked about what happened not too long ago and he said that he regretted leaving me. But I’m not sure if I believe him. After all, words are just words. I haven’t told him yet that I’m pregnant. I’m afraid of his reaction. A part of me doesn’t want to tell him at all. But I know that he deserves to know. I’m considering giving him an option to be a part of it’s life or not. Cause if he can’t handle it, it’s only going to cause me problems.

I’d like opinions, please.

My Hard Decision

Hi, I’m 19 years old… I’m here cuz I’m in a bad situation.

My fiancé is wanting n forcing me 2 get an abortion… But that is not what I want. I want 2 keep my baby so bad. 4 years ago, when I was 15, I got pregnant n had 2 make a decision, 2 either get an abortion or move out n raise the baby on my own.. But I chose 2 get an abortion 2 make my family happy, but u can’t imagine how much I regret that decision… I really wish I would have kept the baby cuz I wouldn’t have been so depressed n badly wanting a baby!

I just want him 2 realize that me getting an abortion again would really break my heart, n I don’t think I would ever 4give him 4 this…

Im confused

Well, I just found out that I am pregnant and I really didn’t have a reaction at first considering who I was pregnant by. This is my story.

I am a college student and I was havin’ a good time here up until the beginning of this year. It all started with me finding out that my roommate/friend had been stealing money out of my account, $1405 to be exact over a period of a month. I should of sent her to jail or even beat her up but I had another idea in mind. Well, when she finally admitted she stole the money after being threatened with 11 felony charges, she picked up and moved out without telling anyone, not even her boyfriend which she left here. To make a long story short, I took matters in my own hands and decided 2 sleep with him as a little taste of revenge. It was supposed to be a one-time thing but somehow, I started falling for him and he told me the same thing and we became “boy/girlfriend”. After she found out we were 2gether, she did everything possible 2 cause me drama and he was acting as if he wanted her back. Soon after the girl got him, but in jail, and 3 weeks later, I found out I’m pregnant. It was hard telling my ex, who I was still trying 2 get back with that I was pregnant and he took it really bad he even called my parents and put it on Facebook but I can’t get mad at him. I broke his heart so many times but I still love him and want 2 be with him. My parents don’t want me 2 keep it. They say it will ruin my life and I’m not ready for the responsibilities. But I can’t get an abortion. I already had one b4 with my x and I always think about it. I used 2 try 2 get pregnant, just 2 somehow erase the mistake with the first one. I told the baby daddy I was pregnant and he wants me 2 keep it, but he is in jail and I know he is still in love with her. What am I 2 do? And plus I really miss my ex, right, and he will never speak 2 me if I have dis baby!! It’s a crazy situation and I just don’t know what’s best cuz the dad wants to be there, but he is in jail for who knows how long and my parents will cut me off and I will probably have 2 drop out of school.

I feel like my life is over!!! What do I do?