I am 20 years old and live in London, UK. It may sound really stupid, but since about 14-15, I have wanted a big family and that starts with a baby at an early age.

Now I’m 20, I feel as though I don’t have much time to start a family. I know that my mum will be supportive of me having a baby because she’s already told me that she would like more grandchildren (the sooner the better), but I have no boyfriend and I’m verging on the edge of agoraphobia (hate going outside). I’ve looked into a private sperm donor but this is proving harder than I first thought. That’s how desperate I am. I’ve even started collecting baby clothes and toys so that I am partially prepared but no one knows this.  I need to know what to do.

Please, please help me.