Hey, I have decided to keep my baby and not get an abortion.
I have thought about this a lot and I won’t be able to get myself to do it and I don’t want to do something that I could regret for the rest of my life. I still haven’t told my mum that I am pregnant, but I still have a while before I start to show so I have time to prepare myself for it. But I have told my closest friends and they have already started buying baby clothes for me.
I am feeling much better about this now……
I’m not trying to sound rude, but for those who WANT a baby and you’re still in school, you are KRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!
BABY”s are a precious gift but they are EXPENSIVE and you need a job and SUPPORT!!!!!!!!!!!! And an education. A baby is not just for looks. You have to wake up early in the morning. You have to feed them first, get them ready, then think about yourself…
It’s really hard work for those who are trying to get pregnant on PURPOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
THINK FIRST BEFORE YOU OPEN YOUR LEGS!!!!…
Hey everyone. I’m 15 years old.
My boyfriend is a little bit older than me so my mother doesn’t approve of us being together and thinks we’ve broken up. But now I think I’m pregnant, but I can’t tell my mum. But I don’t want to have an abortion.
I don’t know what to do 🙁
I’m a 20-year-old graduating college student. My documents for migrating to the US are in process.
One night, I got a chance to tell my whole family that I’m 4 months pregnant. I actually knew it before, but I didn’t just tell them right away because I don’t have a job so what will happen to my studies? Who will pay my monthly tuition fee? Who will give me an allowance weekly? Who will support me with those financial needs? That was the FIRST thing that came to my mind. The SECOND thing that came to my mind was to have an abortion right away, taking abortion meds, but I came to the point where I didn’t want to do it even though I already bought abortion meds for P3,000 /$300.
As time went by, I noticed that my tummy was getting bigger and bigger and I couldn’t hide it anymore. Some people were telling me that I’m getting big and I just ignored them as I couldn’t tell them that I’m pregnant since my family didn’t know about it.
My boyfriend and I decided to tell them that I’m pregnant and I thought telling them my situation would make me feel okay, comfortable, less worried. But after telling them, all I can feel is EMPTINESS and nothing more. I thought they would understand me since I’ll be graduating in college, but all I can feel is their REGRET, that I should be more careful because I have ambitions in life and now I’ll be graduating in college, I should not do that because of my petition. But my point is its not the END of my life, its actually the START… I can still prove to them that I can still STAND UP on my own. My boyfriend is always here to support all my needs.
Since I told them that I’m pregnant, I cry every night and my relationship with my family is not doing good right now. Still hoping that everything will be okay.
You know what guys, here in Philippines, its really a big deal when you got pregnant at the wrong age like me. Your family will make you suffer for your mistake.
The first story of my being pregnant.
SO TODAY IS REALLY NOT A GOOD DAY.
LATELY, I’VE BEEN FEELING SO SCARED AND CONFUSED. I’M SCARED BECAUSE I’M DOING THIS WHOLE PREGNANCY WITHOUT THE HELP OF THE FATHER. I’M CONFUSED BECAUSE I THOUGHT HE WAS BETTER THAN THIS. THEN TO LEAVE ME ALONE TO DO THIS ALONE. I’M NOT ASKING FOR HIM TO BE WITH ME, BUT JUST TO BE HERE TO SUPPORT ME. I’M MORE SAD AT THE FACT THAT I COULDN’T TELL FAKE FROM REAL. I JUST CAN’T BELIEVE HE STATED HE COULDN’T DO THIS, THAT HE’S NOT READY FOR ANOTHER BABY. BUT I’M MORE SAD FOR MY BABY BECAUSE HE’S MADE IT CLEAR HE ONLY WANTS HIS 2-YEAR-OLD. BUT I’M THANKFUL TO HAVE MY FAMILY.
AM I WRONG FOR FEELING LIKE THIS?
So I recently found out I am pregnant, 9 weeks to be exact.
It’s kind of crazy that me getting into an accident is how I would find out I am pregnant. When I was told by one of the ER nurses, I wasn’t shocked because it didn’t hit me at the time. I told the guy that same night. I was hoping he would’ve been supportive, but he freaked. He wants me to get an abortion because he’s not ready to be a dad again. Him and I were never really together, just two good friends who enjoyed each other’s company, I guess you could say. I can honestly say we are no longer good friends or friends at all. I was for an abortion mainly because kids terrify me, but once I saw my baby during an ultrasound, everything changed.
Personally, I believe the father of my baby hates me because I wouldn’t get an abortion. We no longer talk, mainly because I thought he was my friend, but some of the stuff he’s said have been so hurtful that I don’t want my baby around that. Who knows, he could have said hurtful things because he’s scared and in shock. But it’s not fair if he’s scared or whatever because I’m the one carrying the baby and never made any harsh statements to him about this whole situation. I’m scared because I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m going to be raising this child as a single parent. He says he doesn’t want another baby so I basically made the choice and told him that I don’t expect anything from him. I’m just thankful that I have my family by my side and that’s all that matters. Lately though, I been sad thinking how someone who once said they cared and would always be there can just turn their back on something they help made. Somedays, I cry all day because I’m hurt at the reality of how fake people could be.
I’m just confused and sad about my situation, but I want to be happy…
