Okay, so I am new to this. I am 16 years old. I am from the UK. However, I live in the Middle East.
Around two years ago, I had an abortion. I actually had no clue I was pregnant. I thought it was just irregular periods. Then I woke up one night from severe pains, I was in tears. I could barely breathe. My parents drove me to the hospital. They told me I was pregnant. I was in utter shock. I couldn’t believe it. I had the ultrasound done. They told me I was nearly 5 months along! I burst into tears. My parents were with me. That was the first time I’ve seen my dad cry in his life. I felt so guilty. So I had to stay in hospital for a week because they could not work out why I had pain. They never did work that out. About a week after, my dad and boyfriend told me to get an abortion. I was lonely. Scared. Confused. So I listened to them. It was the biggest mistake of my life. I will never forget about it. I cry nearly every night. I have even cut myself over it, I am so lost.
It comforts me to hear other people have been through the same thing 🙂
Hey. Well, a little bit about me. I’m almost 20. My birthday is July 5th. I have 4 children and am pregnant again!!
I have been married for 3 years to my amazing husband, who is the father of 3 of my kids and has adopted my oldest son, who is the result of a rape. I was raped once before, at 15, and I also got pregnant. But at 15, I couldn’t have a baby, didn’t want one, and had an abortion. At 16, when I got raped and pregnant again, my brother asked me to please have the baby, and give it to him and his husband to raise. I fell in love with my son and kept him. I met my husband, who is a police detective when I turned in the man who had raped me. We were married less than a year later and I had our twins less than a year after that.
Our children are Kayden, 4, Katricia and Logan, 3, and Dylan, 7 months. I’m about 2 months pregnant.
right, when i was 13 all my friends had lost their virginity already so when i reached 15 and still hadent i thought i was weird and different. but i met a boy he was amazing, kind and really fit and i feel for him and eventually it happened but then a few weeks later i felt abit weird and didnt think nothing of it but then a few more weeks past and i decided to go and find out and they told me i was 6 weeks pregnant i was so shocked this couldnt of been happening to me of all people.
so i told the boy and he shouted and said he would have nothing to do with it and that he never even loved me and told me he only used me for one thing. i felt so alone my mum and dad disowned me i had no-one, nothing. it was so hard comeing to the decision of abortion but i finally had the medical abortion when i was 8 weeks pregnant this was the hardest time of my life, i cried and cried.
but that wasnt the end of it the abortion was horrible i mean horrible, and now i do think to myself could i have done it and kept the baby but i think i done what was best for the baby i had nothing to offer the baby. its 2 months on and i still cry and i have still never heard from the boy till this day :'( but these things are for the best . i was 15 and pregnant and i didnt take the easy way i took the best way.
i wanted to know if there was a possibility in my boyfriend getting in any type of trouble with the law if our baby is born after he turns 18 and he already enpregnated me before ? and im also 16 years old
Hello everyone.
This morning, I found out that all of my coworkers not only learned that I am pregnant, but that I am getting an abortion as well.
I’ve been pregnant for about 2.5 months now, with no options but to wait. You see, I live and work currently in the middle of nowhere, Oklahoma. The nearest town with any kind of help is Oklahoma City, but with no car, and not enough time to get there to take care of this, I had to wait for the opportunity to return home to Michigan and take care of it here.
Since February, I’ve kept this quiet, until recently when I had to explain my situation to my boss. I had only told one other person, who had not told anyone else. We’re close and respect each other far too much to spread each others’ personal lives around.
But the boss told his other half, who swore to me not a world would be spoken.
And yet, the entire crew now knows of my situation.
I’ve never felt so betrayed in my life.
Something so serious, so PERSONAL… And it’s all over the workplace now.
My friend is telling me to just keep my chin up and don’t worry about what people think or say, but when you assume you have friends and find out they just talk about you when you’re not around… It’s hard to push aside.
I want to get pregnant again, more than anything in this world. I don’t know if I should do it or not…Help?
In my heart, I know it’s going to be alright if I get pregnant again… But I cant decide…
