I’m 15, turning 16 at the start of next year…
I’ve been going out with my boyfriend, who has just turned 16, for a while now, and we both want kids… But recently, he told me that he wants one now, and I thought it over. And to be honest, I agree… But I know that I shouldn’t…
I just don’t know what to do…
I’m relieved the charges have been dropped with my baby dad is a druggie. He has a new place just down the street. We are getting ready for the baby! We still don’t know the sex of the baby yet, Its gonna be a surprise :). Tuesday was Brandon and I first prenatal class together and even though June 9th he promised me he would quit smoking weed, He came over baked as hell. I’m pretty upset that he hasn’t quit yet, he’s going to be a dad in a month and I’m not sure if he gets my point, I don’t want my baby being around someone under the influence like I was when I was just a baby. If he doesn’t quit now I don’t see him quitting when the baby comes, which I’m really worried about. Thing’s have been going really good lately next to the drugs. But when is he going to see that he’s going to be a father when the day comes? is it going to be to late to quit , since pot releases stress, I’m hoping he doesn’t flake out on me when he gets frustrated. I’m seeing it as if he doesn’t quit now and get it out of his system so he doesn’t crave it before the baby comes, He won’t seem so depended on weed to calm him down. I want the baby and I to be the one he run’s to when he’s down or frustrated..
I’m 15 years old and my boyfriend and I have been together our ENTIRE sophomore school year.
We had sex once and it was my first time. Luckily, I didn’t become pregnant then because he hates condoms. In May, we had sex again and this time I’m pregnant!!! We both didn’t handle it well, but we know that we have to get ready no matter what. Now school is over and I’m ONE month pregnant. All I could think about is that our junior year would be HECKTIC. Then my boyfriend comes to me and say he’s going to another school next year. I cry every night, even though no one knows.
Now the main thing on my mind is going throughout the year alone with all eyes on me.
When I first found out I was pregnant, I was amazed and shocked considering I was only 16 =S.
My heart dropped when the first thing my mum said was to get an abortion. I was devastated….. Having emotional thoughts of what I was going to do was just crazy. I constantly thought of having an abortion but I just couldn’t do it….. I told my partner who I was with at the time, her dad… He walked out of my life and said you know what you have gotta do =S So when I was pregnant, I had no support. I got kicked out of home at 12 weeks into the pregnancy so… I was by myself with only some friends beside me…… My life changed completely….. And when I was due and had baby Isabella, my mum and the rest of my friends, the rest of my family who abandoned me when I was pregnant, came back to me when she was born and realized that I saved a life. I had my baby. It’s not my baby’s fault I fell pregnant. She’s innocent. I said it was my fault, my mistake, but she’s not a mistake. If she were to be called that, she was a damn good one……. I would never have given Isabella up. She is my world and I wouldn’t change that at all. Just don’t let something go if you’re going to regret letting your little one go… Because i thought about it and there was no way i could get rid of the little person growing inside of me … =)
And now i get to hold my little baby girl everyday and ….. She’s just always going to be the best thing that has ever happened to me xx
20 weeks today~ I decided to name my baby girl Noalie Alisa. She moves a lot now. I’m just waiting to see her foot poke out lol.
I’ve come so far, from telling my mom and having my so-called family yell and talk bad about me behind my back. Man, it was all worth it. I know every girl is scared to tell their parents but ask the girls who have. I bet you they’ll say it was worth the trouble. As far as school, I’m lucky because I graduate in May! But I gotta find daycare, which is expensive for babies. Daycare is my real concern for my baby. I will not drop out, that is not an option. I have a friend who dropped out in 10th grade (she failed, she was supposed to be in 11th with me). She’s pregnant, but she’s not doing anything about her education. She relies solely on her boyfriend who also dropped out! She even expects him to get a good job. She doesn’t wanna work at all, that’s what she told me. You cannot be like that. You have to support your baby. And baby stuff is not cheap! After i graduate, I’m going to work. I wanna make sure we can have everything.
Ahh, just 20 more weeks to go…
Well, I’m 16 and I’m having a baby. I’m only 9 weeks along, but everything is changing.
I’m always feeling sick and tired and I’m always mad lol. I found out that I was pregnant 2 weeks ago. I didn’t really expect to be pregnant because my periods are irregular and me and my boyfriend were safe. But one day, I arrived at school and started to feel really sick. So I ran to the bathroom and puked. After that, I was very worried so I talked to my boyfriend and he didn’t believe me. The next day, my mom started to notice that I’ve been feeling really sick and tired. So she asked me if I was pregnant and I started to cry ( that was a dead give way lol). My mom brought me a pregnancy test and it came out positive. I was soooooooo scared. I didn’t know what to do. I am an honor roll student, school was my life. I never miss days of school and I’m only a junior. I told my boyfriend and he was a little scared but he straight out told me that he wanted to keep the baby. That he will take care of me and our soon-to-be baby. He has a job and works all the time now. His mom at first wasn’t very happy and she told me to get a abortion. At the time, I was already considering it, because i never wanted kids. But my mom doesn’t believe in that so she wouldn’t let me get one. I thought it over and decided that this baby isn’t going to ruin my life. I can still go to school and I can still go to collage. It will be tough, but I can do it. So I made my decision to keep the little baby that is growing inside me.
I know this is going to be very hard because my sister was pregnant at 16 and I have seen how hard it was for her, but she made it through alive and so can I.
