Help, I’m a 14-year-old girl who hasn’t even started high school and doesn’t even have a life that’s in order and I’m pregnant.
I used to be a party girl. I used to be a girl who didn’t care for consequences but now I have to care. A friend told me to do an abortion, but I can’t live with the thought of me killing my baby or even losing it. My ex-boyfriend or my baby daddy said to do an abortion. He doesn’t want anything to do with the baby and it’s a good thing too because he’s the worst and I don’t want my baby around anybody who likes the daddy. Well, now that I’m going to be a mommy. I have to start doing mommy things and I have no clue what to do. I was one of those girls who thought “it would never happen to me” and never thought bout it. I need help.
How do I raise a child when I’m only a child myself?
Help im a 14 year old girl who hasn’t even started high school and doesn’t even have a life thats in order and im pregnet. I used to be a party girl. I used to be a girl who didn’t care for conqueses but now i have to care. A friend told me to do an aportion but i can’t live with the thought of me killing my baby or even loosing it. My ex boyfriend or my baby daddy said to do an aportion he doesn’t want anything to do with the baby and its a good think to because he’s the worst and i don’t my baby around anybody who like the daddy. WEll now that im gong to be a mommy i have to start doing mommy things and i have no clue what to do. I was one of those girls that thought “it would never happen to me” and never thought bout it. I need help. How to be raise a child when im only a child myself
So I had an abortion, 14th of April, I was just under 18 weeks at the time.
It was probably the hardest thing I’ve ever done, and I didn’t get a lot of support from my friends. I didn’t want to tell my boyfriend as I wouldn’t want to lose him over it. Sometimes it hurts so bad I cry, I wish I could hold my baby just once. I’m trying to stay strong and sort my life out so I can raise a baby properly, I know it wasn’t the right time to have my baby right now, but it still hurts sometimes. My baby would have been born this month.
It would be nice to talk to people who have gone through the same as me 🙂
Two weeks ago a friend asked me, ” Is love supposed to hurt?” I didn’t know whether or not to say yes, or no.
Because when you’re in love, different things hurt, make you cry, and make you think negatively. But, after a couple of days of thinking, I came to find out that love doesn’t really hurt. The reason a person will think love hurts is because of the things that they do that have to deal with love and they assume it is the cause of their hurt and tears. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you back will hurt you and have you thinking that by you being in love with this person, love is the reason you’re hurting, but it’s not. You are the reason, on the other hand, because you let you’re self fall too hard for someone who you have never spoken a word to or made eye contact with. If you are already in love and are still hurting, and blaming love, it is because of the mistakes, broken promises, and all the lies that your relationship has been built upon.
So, whether or not you’re in love, don’t blame love for all your tears and sorrow. Blame yourself.
I really do love him. I can’t help myself to forget him… What should I do? Just to forget these damn feelings.
it’s been a month since we broke up, but I still love him that much. I hate myself for giving him so much love even though he doesn’t deserve it… So much pain is not enough to explain what I feel right now… All I want to do is to forget the memories he left to me… But how? If all the things I do are the mirror of his memories…
Now, I know that life is not fair sometimes you’re on top.. but often times, you’re at the bottom…
i dont know what you need help with so how can i help you you have to open up and share the issue with me you dont have to worry about me judging you or anything i know youprolly read my story and yes iam not perfect no is but iam a good listner and a good friend so if you feel iam so who you can trust then give me the chance to help you i’ll try to help you with all my ability and thats a promise .. let me know when ur ready to talk im here ~cocoa~
