Hey… I need some advice…
Well, I have been having some pain on my boobs and I get really sleepy. I sometimes have some pain like if they were craps. I got my period but it was late. I had to get it on the 24th but I got it on the 30th.
And it would be good to read what you have to say.
Well, a lot has happened lately :/
A while back, I was pregnant with my fiancé’s baby, but he was in Israel and he was not supporting me at all and was abusive. So I broke up with him and aborted my baby. I dated many guys, but I never had sex with anyone again until I met my boyfriend. We have been dating for about three weeks now and we decided to have sex last night… Well unknowingly, the condom happened to slip off and we didn’t realize it until after. Now I am afraid I may be pregnant once again. He is a really sweet guy and I love him and I can’t picture him abandoning me, but he is veryyyy scared and so am I. I also came to the realization a few weeks ago that aborting my first baby was a mistake and I am now regretting it so I am definitely keeping this one… IF I’m even pregnant!
Life is scary and I hope I don’t have to go through this at 17, but no matter what I will deal with this and think positive 🙂
Hi everyone,
I’m 19 years old. I work most of the time. I don’t really have a social life, but when I do I make the best of it.
I’ve been engaged for almost 2 years and we’ve been together for almost 4. I love my fiancé so much
and just want to say I miss him a lot and I love StandUpGirl.
Keep it up!
I am 19, and for the last 2/3 weeks, I and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby…
Last week, I had to go to the doctor because I was getting very bad pains around my stomach, lower back, and side. And my breasts are very sore and one is larger than the other. The doctor said it was normal, but I am still not sure because nothing like that ever happened before and now am waiting on the blood tests to come back.
The pain is gone now, but my breasts are still the same and get sharp pains every so often, and now I am also getting cramps like I was getting my period but no sign of my period…
I do not feel like myself. I am very tired, eating more, have tender/heavy breasts, frequent headaches, and some pain…
I am very confused and, to be honest, a little scared. I have no idea what is going on with my body…
Somebody, please help…
To my Baby Angel,
Mommy and Daddy love you so much. We were so sad to hear that you left us. You are in a better place now though. A place where there is no pain, sadness, or bad. A place with only good. I couldn’t have given you all that down here, so I guess you are better off where you are anyway. A lot changed in the short time that you have left us. Mommy and grandma are a lot closer now and don’t fight as much as we used to. And Mommy is now living with Daddy to help me get out of this depression. School is the hardest for me. Everyone stares at my belly a lot more than before you left. There are crazy rumors going around about what happened. But they are starting to go away. Anyway, the reason I’m writing you this letter, Braden, is to tell you that you are missed lots, and will never be forgotten. Not a day goes by that Mommy and Daddy don’t talk about you. You are our garden angel now, watching over us, keeping us safe, and leading us down the right paths. And know that if I could go back and change things, I would. I will see you again someday in heaven.
Love, Your Mommy and Daddy
I heard about that 15-year-old girl who was pregnant and died of a heart attack today. She lost her baby and her life. Her fiancée lost as he put it ‘His world’. She was one of us StandUpGirls, she kept her baby. It was a little girl they were going to call Tia.
So now, here’s me. Upset that I’ve just lost my baby, but after hearing that story, I actually feel disappointed in myself, disappointed that I’m grieving for a baby I didn’t even know about. That girl, like many of us, had her whole life to lead. She was excited, making plans, and then her life and baby were snatched from her. It’s her family that should be grieving, not mine.
The loss of any life is terrible, but this one has particularly gotten to me. I don’t know if it’s because she shares the same name and age as my baby sister.
We had planned a baby but not yet- We had baby names
Jaia Madison Rochellea Jacobs
Cole Joshua Sterling Jacobs
And now I want another baby- But am I being selfish towards Gem Gem for having another baby close to her age?
I have so many questions, but no answers to help.
