help me… am afraid,,

Help me answer the questions on my mind.

Is it safe to have sex, 6 days after menstruation? Could I get pregnant? My last menstruation started on January 9 and ended on January 14. I had intercourse on January 20. We didn’t use condoms. We used the withdrawal method.

I am so afraid… Please do help me…I asked my boyfriend he said it was safe, coz he pulled out before he ejaculated, near to my navel. I’m just afraid. Is there a possibility that I can be pregnant? And what shall I do not to get pregnant and have my period next month?

Thanks a lot. Your advice will be a great help to my problem.

Update

My son Kieran Xavier was born on the 22 of November, 6 weeks premature; 5 pound 5 ounces.

We all thought we were going to lose him. He was in the hospital for just over 4 weeks and we had nothing but problems with the special care nursery staff. They almost dropped him, his head was hit on the humidity crib, left in dirty nappies for hours, missed out on feeds, and my milk was dried up due to stress. I had to put him on formula. Now we have him home, he is thriving. His last weigh-in two weeks ago was 8 pounds 9 ounces. His father came to see him once, only to say he still didn’t think he was his and that he wanted nothing to do with him. We are currently fighting for a court order for a DNA test and for his dad to sign the birth certificate and for child support.

I am in a happy relationship now and my partner loves my son as much as he does me

I THINK AM PREG!!!

Hey… I need some advice…

Well, I have been having some pain on my boobs and I get really sleepy. I sometimes have some pain like if they were craps. I got my period but it was late. I had to get it on the 24th but I got it on the 30th.

And it would be good to read what you have to say.

Not this again!

Well, a lot has happened lately :/

A while back, I was pregnant with my fiancé’s baby, but he was in Israel and he was not supporting me at all and was abusive. So I broke up with him and aborted my baby. I dated many guys, but I never had sex with anyone again until I met my boyfriend. We have been dating for about three weeks now and we decided to have sex last night… Well unknowingly, the condom happened to slip off and we didn’t realize it until after. Now I am afraid I may be pregnant once again. He is a really sweet guy and I love him and I can’t picture him abandoning me, but he is veryyyy scared and so am I. I also came to the realization a few weeks ago that aborting my first baby was a mistake and I am now regretting it so I am definitely keeping this one… IF I’m even pregnant!

Life is scary and I hope I don’t have to go through this at 17, but no matter what I will deal with this and think positive 🙂

BABYGIRL

Hi everyone,

I’m 19 years old. I work most of the time. I don’t really have a social life, but when I do I make the best of it.
I’ve been engaged for almost 2 years and we’ve been together for almost 4.  I love my fiancé so much
and just want to say I miss him a lot and I love StandUpGirl.

Keep it up!

Pregnancy

I am 19, and for the last 2/3 weeks, I and my boyfriend have been trying for a baby…

Last week, I had to go to the doctor because I was getting very bad pains around my stomach, lower back, and side. And my breasts are very sore and one is larger than the other. The doctor said it was normal, but I am still not sure because nothing like that ever happened before and now am waiting on the blood tests to come back.
The pain is gone now, but my breasts are still the same and get sharp pains every so often, and now I am also getting cramps like I was getting my period but no sign of my period… 
I do not feel like myself. I am very tired, eating more, have tender/heavy breasts, frequent headaches, and some pain…
I am very confused and, to be honest, a little scared. I have no idea what is going on with my body…

Somebody, please help…