A few months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. We didn’t talk to each other for days. He started being friends with all my closest friends, knowing that it would destroy me inside, but unfortunately for him the little “stunt” he tried to pull didn’t work, or at least I’m trying convince myself that it didn’t get to me that much, not really sure about my emotions at that time because I was hurt and yet angry at him and everyone that was close to him. We were planning a family together and even got engaged for 8 months, but I broke off the engagement when I found out that he was playing “daddy” with his other girlfriend’s son.
On March the 26th, my friend and I decided to go out for some drinks- but when we got to the restaurant, I just felt like having a mango juice. But after a few sips, I started throwing up. I didn’t understand what was going on because I loved mango juice and I’ve never thrown up after drinking it. I decided to go back to my flat because I was miserable and disgusted because my ex boyfriend-Fiancé was also there.
The next day, I went to the chemist and bought a pregnancy test and it tested positive. I thought maybe it was just a mistake. I bought another one and it also test positive and that’s when I realized my life has changed! I WAS PREGNANT!!!
My friend told my ex-boyfriend and he told me to abort the baby because he couldn’t afford to have a kid with a b**** like me. That really broke my heart and I wanted to get an abortion asap but I couldn’t. I just couldn’t kill an innocent soul just to please someone who probably doesn’t even care about me. Besides that, I am a Christian.
Out of all the bad things that I went through in my previous relationship, at least I got something good out of it. Some thing that makes me smile and something that is definitely worth living for, MY BUNDLE OF JOY!!!
I love my baby girl to bits and nothing in this world will ever change that. i am 18 weeks pregnant now and its been the greatest 18 weeks of my life, despite all the morning sicknesses and other horrible first trimester symptoms.
I’ll be graduating in 2013 if all goes well and I’m doing all of this because of Angel. I want what’s best for her, like any mother would. Even though sometimes I get lonely and wish her father was around to share these wonderful moments with him, but that doesn’t bother me anymore. It’s his loss and not mine.
Knowing that there is a life growing inside of you makes you look at life differently. It makes you appreciate the things that you thought they don’t matter, while in actual fact, they do matter even though we choose to ignore them.
I am proud to say I didn’t let anyone bring me down about this pregnancy and that I didn’t abort this lil angel inside of me.
To all the girls out there, don’t let anyone get to you because you pregnant and vulnerable. Bringing a new life in this world is the most wonderful thing one could ever experience. Listen to your heart and do what is right for you and your baby.
XOXOXO
Hi everyone.
To begin, I’m here because I’m 17 and pregnant and also the other board I was on had too much drama, and the stress wasn’t good for the baby, I’m 2 months and 5 days pregnant. My baby is due on January 8, I have a lot of emotions spinning, but I felt I was ready to have sex so I’m ready to be a mother. I’m not too scared, but I’m not too happy. I have a little bump but I’m afraid of what people will say when I start to get bigger. Only my baby’s father and his mom, my mom, my mom’s best friend forever and my big sis know. So it’ll be a surprise for everyone else, to be honest, I’m nowhere near close to being prepared for this baby, but I’m ready to accept my little one and the responsibilities that come along with it.
Is there anyone out there that can relate to me?
Well, I love this song. It kind of reminds me about myself, and a lot of you StandUpGirls on here xo. I can’t help but cry every time I hear it!
I hope you never lose your sense of wonder. You get your fill to eat But always keep that hunger.
May you never take one single breath for granted. God forbid love ever leave you empty-handed.
I hope you still feel small. When you stand by the ocean, Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens.
Promise me you’ll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance. I hope you dance.
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance. Never settle for the path of least resistance.
Living might mean taking chances but they’re worth taking. Lovin’ might be a mistake But it’s worth making.
Don’t let some hell bent heart leave you bitter. When you come close to selling out Reconsider.
Give the heavens above More than just a passing glance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance
I hope you still feel small when you stand by the ocean. Whenever one door closes, I hope one more opens.
Promise me you’ll give faith a fighting chance
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance, Dance. I hope you dance
xoxoxoxo
Hello everyone!!
I am so glad I found this website. The moment I stepped in here, I was so amazed how open the people are here to share their true life stories. I have read a lot of them. Some are sharing their success stories that are truly encouraging and enlightening. Though others may state how painful they have been through, however, those are still very important lessons that I can learn personally. I really salute how strong you guys are and how have you been an inspiration to many despite the gender.
Hope this website can reach many more of the people around the globe. I am certain that through this website, young or old, men or women, will have an open mind to come up with a sound decision of their lives, most likely of those related to pregnancy.
I would definitely want to refer to my friends about this new place on the web to hang on!
P.S. Please me up as your friends. 🙂
It is been a week now since I found out that I am pregnant. The only person who knows about my pregnancy is my boyfriend. Though he is not with me now, he keeps on updating me about my health. He loves me that much. My problem is how to tell it to my parents. I am now a graduating student and I guess my parents will be in shock if they would know about my situation. I am still planning to continue my studies though I am having my baby with me. I am also the eldest child of my parents and I am just 19. I don’t have any regrets in my mind and I don’t care what will my friends and classmates say about me when they find out about this. Surely, they won’t understand me. But what they don’t know too is having this baby completes me.
Hi, I’m 26 years old…
I am always anxious about the unknown and I have this need to do well @ everything… work, varsity….and it has made me develop into this career-controlling person. However, putting a bit of a damper, or should I say slow social side…Anyway, what I’m writing about is probably very cynical seeing that I am 26 years old…I am in a relationship with a guy I simply adore and recently we had sex for the first time… i have been on the pill for a long time before and we for our first time used a condom as I am one to always wanna be overcautious bout everything…However, since then I have been driving myself into agony wondering if I was responsible enough as the last thing I want to do is fall pregnant>>Yes, I’m a bit of a late bloomer and don’t know much bout sex…However, I took it in my stride to Google for as much info as possible and I was amazed by all the mixed info I have received….Is it possible for me to still fall pregnant after taking two kinds of precautionary measures? I have been having cramps and all these funny feelings since then…Could it be I’m overanalyzing?? I thought I was ready by preparing myself with precautionary measures but now I just feel a bit stupid being 26 and not knowing much…I have amazing friends I’m sure I could ask but speaking to strangers is sometimes easier and much more comforting
Any feedback on my concern bout pregnancy will be much appreciated
Thanks in advance
