I had a miscarriage 2 years ago… & it’s been the hardest thing I ever had to deal with…
I’m still TRYING to get over it now…I’ve been doing well for a while until my foster sister had a baby… Every single time I see that little girl, I get so upset. But at the same time, I’m always holding her and changing her… I even felt a little weird for wishing she was mine. This is bringing up old pain…
Idk what to do.
I don’t know if I should be writing this on the blog, but this site is about pregnancy and terminations as I like to call it.
I have to let it off my chest otherwise I’m gonna rip! For all you young teens out there who have had terminations, I know exactly what you are going through. While not many people around don’t really have a clue. I have had 2. My first one was at the age of 14 and the 2nd was at 16, only last year in March. Last year was the one that scarred me the most as I was in love with my boyfriend at the time and was 12 weeks along. I was 8 weeks gone when I had my first one. I really hate myself for it and don’t know how to live with it.
I would really like to hear other girls’ stories and try and support them as well as myself.
So, I just joined this website today looking for some nice people to chat and relate to. I’ve been on this site before looking at all the different stories and comments and it seems like everyone is so nice and supportive. So I decided to become a member today, so hello everyone!
My situation:
Actually, there are 2.
The first one is, that I am dating this amazing guy. He would do everything and anything for me, he’s funny and smart, and he is truly amazing. We have almost been dating for a year now. Then there is my ex, the first serious boyfriend I ever had. We dated for about 3 years and he is the one I lost my virginity to. After we broke up, we were both really hurt and upset which led to not talking for bout half a year. We started talking again about 3 or 4 months ago, and every time we hang out, I feel that special connection that only me and him will ever share. Every time we are together, it is like we never stopped dating. I don’t know what to do, I feel that my heart lies with both guys. I’m really confused and any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Number 2 – I’m supposed to be on my period and it is MIA. I’m kind of freaking out.. 🙁
Wow! Seems like I’ve been gone forever.
Life has been so hectic…My boyfriend and I are doing very well. Well, we were until he found out that I was considering going to the army. He’s very upset and doesn’t want me to go. I’m confused. I love him, but I also need to think of my future… The whole situation just sucks. He asked me to marry him and stay, but to be completely honest, I’m terrified of that. Yes, I love him and would love to spend the rest of my life with him. But I’m afraid that I’ll find a way to mess things up, especially since I’m not quite ready for marriage yet… He even tried to get me pregnant so that I couldn’t go to the army… That really almost broke us up. He knew how hard it was for me to get over the miscarriage of my and my ex-boyfriend’s baby. But he sincerely apologized and worked to gain my trust back.
I just don’t know what to do…
I found out on Feb 1st that I was pregnant!!
I’ve been freaking out since. I have so many questions, but no one to turn to. Haven’t told my parents yet cuz I’m a little scared of the way they’ll react! My Boyfriend and I have decided to keep the baby. So now that we took care of that, what do I do? I’m really confused and scared… IF ANYONE HAS SOME ADVICE ON TELLING MY PARENTS, THAT WOULD HELP!!
Thanks, I’ll be glad to keep you posted. I really need the help!
I’m 18. I was forced to have an abortion and I regret it more than anything in this world.
I can’t study or do anything because I believe that I was meant to have this baby. I have a 23-year-old fiancé, and he has a job. He is a cooking chef. I want to ask him to try again and I know he will say yes. The thing is, if I decide to have a child now, I know I will be more than happy, but I will have no studies (I am an artist, a writer, and I have diplomas in singing so I’m sure I can find a job in that). Also, I will have to leave France and go to another country to raise my child as my fiancé cannot get a job in Paris so easily (it’s practically impossible). I know, and I feel it in my heart that this is the life I want, the life I need, but I’m still so scared to leave my family behind and everything. I’m so scared of making the wrong decision.
Can someone please give me their advice? I have no one to talk to :'( Please help me…
