Well, my name is [redacted], and I am pregnant once again. I am having a boy and I am due August 28th. I already have a 4-year-old daughter. I am only 18.
Both of my kids have the same dad, but he isn’t in the picture anymore. We dated in high school and I got pregnant. He left school and I didn’t see him again till November. I moved in with him. He has never seen our son and he has only seen an ultrasound for this baby. When I moved in with him, at first it was great. Then, slowly over the 6 1/2 months we were together, it became hell. He would throw the furniture around and break my things, yell at me, tell me I was worthless, etc. I put up with it cause I didn’t have anywhere to go. He kicked me out and I now live with my sister. It is hard living here cause my room is very small and the baby’s stuff has to be in my room. I am trying to save my money to get me my own place but I only make $75 a week cause I’m a live-in nanny for my sister 🙁
I have been living here for almost 2 months now and every day I grow more and more depressed that I won’t make it. I am stressed all the time due to my kids’ father who won’t leave me alone. He calls and texts me all the time and won’t leave me alone on Facebook either. He has never paid me anything for either of the kids. He claims that he wants me back and that things have changed. That he isn’t the same and all he wants is me, even though he is dating some girl. Yet he calls and texts saying he loves me and only me. My sister’s kid that I watch is 10 months old and is in everything. Plus I’m trying to work things out with my family and it just seems that no one really wants me. I know this stress is bad for the baby and I try not to be stressed, but nothing seems to work. The harder I try, the harder I fall it seems.
Idk how many blogs I’ve written on other sites. No one ever comments back and I really need someone to talk to. Since I have moved, I have really no friends and my sis works all the time, and I really get no time to myself. Plus I’m worried that when the baby comes I won’t be able to take care of my sister’s kid and my baby at the same time and if that happens I will lose my income and won’t be able to save back for anything I need or for the baby.
Plz I need someone to talk to.
I am pretty sure I am a few weeks into pregnancy. I am nineteen years old. My fiancé is in the United States Marine Corps. We recently solved a lot of problems in our relationship and spent a few weeks together while we were fixing our relationship. During that time, I had unprotected sex. I cannot use birth control because I get blood clots and most other methods are not safe because I have a blood disorder. I am also highly allergic to spermicide and latex and even the non-latex or spermicidal condoms irritate me. I have been suffering from nausea, frequent urination, breast pain, and headaches for about a week. I am really nervous because we are still at a point where we aren’t ready to settle down with a family. His career in the Marines has only just begun and I am not ready to get married. We didn’t want to be like the other military couples and get married and have kids at a young age. This is throwing a major dent in my plan. I don’t want to get an abortion despite the risks of my pregnancy because of my medical condition. I would look into adoption though. I told my mom and my step mom but telling anyone else would be difficult. My fiancé is absolutely a basket case about everything, but he is trying to stay calm and be my anchor on rough seas.
I am taking my test in the morning. I’m so scared.
Any advice? Anything?
Hi everyone. My name is Brittany. I’m 22 with three kids and the fourth on the way. I wanted to share my story with you all. I hope it can help some.
I got pregnant with my daughter when I was 16. Yes, I was scared and had a lot of emotions running through my head. Not only were my own thoughts getting in the way, but that of some of my family and friends. I told my boyfriend at the time and he was scared but excited at the same time. Not long after I found out he left and went to Mexico. My mother and friends were all telling me that he wasn’t going to come back and to abort the baby because it was mixed race and I was too young. After a week of him being gone, I started to believe everyone and was thinking about giving her up for adoption. I’m pro-life so that was my way out. Three weeks had passed and he came back and picked me straight up from my mom’s house. We are now married and have been for 5 years.
The point of me telling you all this is because people will say things and talk, but in the end, it is your choice and not theirs. Stay strong and do what you think is best for you. You are your own person and no one can take your free will away from you. Stay strong and keep your heads up. Things will seem bad at that point, but with every rainfall there will be a rainbow 🙂
So a couple of days ago, I found out that I couldn’t have kids… I am 19 years old and this was a huge surprise. Not that I am planning on having kids just yet, but one day I did want kids… Anyway, I am dating this guy and he has a kid, a year and six month-old boy… This is great. The only problem is his baby mama… She is, ugg, I can’t even describe her… She cares more bout her drug of choice than the baby… This drives me crazy because, for one, this little boy deserves so much better, and secondly, I can’t believe God gave her a baby. It pisses me off that I can’t have kids and she already has a beautiful baby boy that she takes for granted… I don’t get why God chose a mom like that for a wonderful child like this little innocent boy instead of one who knows how to take care of him and who cares and shows him every day that she cares. It drives me absolutely crazy that she gets to have this little boy and that she’s going to lose him because she’s so stupid that she can’t see what’s right in front of her… See I grew up in a home that was broken and where there were always drugs and lots of drinking. It was horrible! I was put into foster care and then taken out and then thrown back in several times and that was hell! At the age of 10, I was finally put into foster care permanently. I was bounced from home to home… It’s no way to grow up and I really don’t want that to happen to that little boy, I know my boyfriend and his mom wouldn’t let that happen, but that little boy deserves so much better and it makes me mad and sad that I can’t do anything to help… I would do anything to be able to have kids and it kills me that there are people out there who are so dense and self-centered that they can’t see what’s right in front of them, till it’s too late…
What will actually happen when I lose my virginity? I heard so many different things…..Is it true that I will bleed? Will the guy notice if I bleed??
I am seeking some advice on how to cope with the overwhelming stress of having a constantly sick child. My daughter has severe asthma and has been constantly struggling to breathe since she was about 15 months old. She is now 3 1/2 years old and in the last 4 months, things have gotten progressively worse. She has had pneumonia twice in the last 3 months and is now on 2 new medications to help with her breathing. I am a single mother so having a supportive partner isn’t really available at the moment. I have a little boy who is 5 1/2 and currently in Kindergarten. He is in good health and has been such a trooper when it comes to me taking care of his sister but I do feel bad that he is missing out on getting attention from time to time when things are bad with her. Has anyone been through anything similar? How have you handled the situation? Thank you!!
