Lately, I have been worried but pretty much excited that I might be pregnant.
I know how hard it will be and I am not expecting this to be easy either. I’ve talked about it with my boyfriend and he told his father that I might be pregnant. His father demanded to speak to me and so he was telling me how he was ready to support me, my boyfriend, and the baby.
But the problem is that I feel that he is scared up to a certain point and that he feels obligated to do this. I would want him to talk to me about it but he keeps on telling me how he is unsure of what he feels. He tells me that if I want it then he wants it too but I want to know how HE personally feels about it.
What should I do?
Not looking to bore you but to encourage you in your walks, decisions, and thoughts.
I recently found out that my barely 16-year-old daughter is pregnant. She is 29 weeks along, due on Feb. 25th… I won’t lie. I couldn’t say much when she told me 4 weeks ago, but nevertheless, I share with an open heart that I am so THANKFUL that she came forth. We will be delivering a baby boy!!! Never did I think God would have taken me so literally at my word when at 16, I had an abortion ’cause the “boy really loved me and I had to choose between the baby and him”.
I was a runaway at the time and chose him, but I know I have received forgiveness from myself and from God. When I turned 25, I met a young teen who was pregnant and her parents kicked her out. We took her in for a time, she was able to move in with her grandmother. I remember telling God I wanted nothing more than to help young pregnant teens not have to go through my experience and provide a safe haven and environment where they could rest and be loved. Now I face that here within the walls of my family… My daughter is expecting. I Celebrate more than focusing on the error, she has chosen Life…
Yes, it will be a challenge I know, but nothing ever happens without a reason and purpose… I am also very thankful for this site. I hope that many will find support and love through this site…. You are Precious and Special.
At my 30-week scan, the doctor noticed my placenta was disintegrating before its supposed to. Not much to be worried about, but enough to have him induce me in 6 weeks.
Monday morning, I woke up with strong contractions, 10 minutes apart. I was rushed to the doctor’s office by my mom. The doctor told me to go to the hospital. By the time I was admitted into a room and set up to be monitored, I was 3 minutes apart and 1 cm dilated. They gave me a hydrating drip, the contractions stopped completely, and I was only a fingertip dilated. So was fortunate enough to be sent home, and not have to be there till the delivery.
I’m nervous and exited =]
Yay 6 more weeks until Baby Madison will be born
Hey everyone. Ya, well, I thought I was pregnant, but I found out that I am not and it is very depressing because I have already lost one child.
I was 14 and I was pregnant. I went to the doctor to hear my baby’s heartbeat but they couldn’t find it. So I was sent for an ultrasound and found out that I wasn’t going to be able to have the baby because I had what you call a molar pregnancy. They told me that it was no one’s fault but that the baby was not able to grow and that I had a chance of getting cancer. So I had to lose my baby and that is very sad. It would have been born August 28 of this year. And I still long for my loss.
So now it has been about a year and I really thought that I was pregnant, but I was 2 weeks late, but it didn’t turn out that way… I will be 16 soon and I wanna try and have a baby, but my boyfriend isn’t ready. We don’t use protection but only the pull out method and I wanna be pregnant…..
So everyone hope for the best… and this is to all you girls that is pregnant. I beg you to not have an abortion. You will regret it for the rest of your life. A child is a gift and you have to treat it they way you would want to be treated…. Always remember that if you’re pregnant, your life will not be over. It’s only the start of something new….
This is a really good website for young parents.
I am only 18 and am expecting my first baby on the 31st, so not too long now. And I am really excited, although it’s not all been easy. My mum kicked me out when she found out. I never wanted to have children… and all that, and it is really tough to cope with. For some more than others, I guess but why dwell on it? Having children is the most rewarding thing ever. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be here, would we? Our parents love us no matter what may of happened in the past, so it can’t be all bad. I just wish people would see the positive side to having children, whether they were planned or not. And no matter what age you are, if you’re mature enough to have sex in the first place, then you should be mature enough to cope with whatever else may happen too, or am I way off the mark with this?
Be positive; it makes life so much better! Fair play, I am very scared but I would not change having a baby for the world.
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So I’m sad. I just found out that at about 12 weeks of your pregnancy or around there your baby will sometimes silently cry.
That broke my heart because it’s like you can’t do anything about it cuz you don’t know when they are crying and you can’t comfort them. That made me so so sad cuz it’s like I can’t comfort my baby! But my boyfriend said that the baby is comforted because this is the closest your child will ever be to you because my baby is actually inside of me.
Ya, anyways, I thought that was sad. I still haven’t told my parents yet. I will soon. I just need to be ready and I’m not yet. But soon.
