Hey girls! Just to let you know that I have not deserted you all.
My computer’s broken down so I can’t get online as often as I used to, but please, please, PLEASE keep in touch! Love you all!! Xx
Oh and congrats to my girl who just got pregnant after trying for a while…PROOF that my baby dust works!!! Mwah!!!
I started dating my boyfriend 2 months before I decided to have sex. I was 14 and I found out I was pregnant two days before my 15th birthday.
I was so scared to tell my mom about it and I didn’t know what to do. After I had the baby, my boyfriend and I started to fight off and on all the time and we never did that before. I’m scared that we are falling apart. He is also leaving on the 8th of Jan for 6 months to basic training. I don’t know if I’m going to be able to take care of my daughter while he is gone. My mom doesn’t really have the money to help. She barely has enough money to support her, my sister, her son, and me, never the less another child. She won’t let me get a job. She tells me that I need to focus on my school work.
I don’t know how I’m going to be able to do it or even if I can.
Hey reader, I am 17 y/o. I am 13 weeks pregnant. I am lost about my situation and I am very scared.
I love my baby’s father despite his desire to want to leave me. I feel betrayed by him. His mom helps a lot. She is ready to be a grandmother for now. I don’t know how to tell my parents that I am pregnant, but my mommy has asked once or twice before.
My aunt knows though. She had her first when she was 18. She is part of the reason that I am scared because she keeps telling me that it is tough.
So I’m thinking I’m pregnant… I don’t want to take the test because I know what it will say… I’m almost 19 years old.
This can’t be happening now. I play sports in college and my parents are going to be so disappointed in me… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years now and he and his just moved to Minneapolis, MN (I live in Knoxville, Tennessee). That’s OH MY GOD far. I’m really close with his family and I’ve gone up there a few times, lived there for a month during Christmas break. I know he’ll support me; we’ve talked about getting married and me coming to live there permanently, but I don’t know if I can handle all this.
I’m going to keep my baby but I’ve never had to deal with anything like this… I haven’t gotten my period all of December. I’ve been bloated for a good 3 weeks now. I don’t throw up but I get nauseous. I have to walk away from strong smells, my boobs feel so heavy, and they hurt so bad. I can’t stand to have any pressure on my stomach. I normally weigh 105 pounds (and have for 2 years now) and all the sudden, I’m 109, I have horrible cravings, & I eat like a cow… and I’m so moody! Does it sound like I’m pregnant or what?!
Happy New Year to me… 🙁
Advice //help…please…
DEAR BECKY,
I AM 19 YEARS OLD AND I AM I THINK 8 OR 9 WEEKS PREG. MY SITUATION IS THAT I WANT THIS BABY MORE THAN ANYTHING I REALLY DO BUT I HAVE RECENTLY LOST MY HOME AND MY JOB! I HAVE NO MONEY, NO CAR. I AM NOT IN COLLEGE EVEN THOUGH I WANT TO BE. I HAVE NO FAMILY HERE IN VA WITH ME AND I GOT MY GRANDMA TO SAY THAT I CAN LIVE IN HER RV IN FL BUT IF I DO THAT, THEN THE BABY’S FATHER CAN’T SEE ME BECAUSE HE IS BLACK AND I AM WHITE!!! I LOVE THE BABY’S FATHER MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF BUT THAT SITUATION MAKES THIS EVEN MORE DIFFICULT BECAUSE HE RECENTLY LOST HIS JOB TOO AND HIS HOME!! (WE WERE LIVING TOGETHER AS FRIENDS OF 5 OR 6 YEARS AND STARTED SLEEPING TOGETHER!) HE IS IN SCHOOL AND IS ALMOST DONE AND DOESN’T WANT TO SETTLE DOWN YET. HE SAYS IN THE FUTURE, MAYBE WHEN WE HAVE OUR LIVES TOGETHER AND FATE BRINGS US BACK… WHICH IT ALWAYS HAS… BUT I CAN’T DO THIS ALONE AND MY SITUATION IS HORRIBLE!!!
I WANT THE BABY BUT AT THE SAME TIME, I AM THINKING ABOUT HOW I GREW UP WITHOUT MY DAD AND A MOM WHO WAS SINGLE AND NEVER THERE FOR ME AND TO THIS DAY STILL ISN’T BUT TRRIES IN SMALL WAYS TO BE THERE….AND I HATED MY LIFE!@!!!! EVERYTHING ALWAYS GOES BAD FOR ME BECAUSE OF MY DECISIONS AND I THINK AT THE TIME IT’S A GOOD DECISION BUT THEN AS TIME GOES BY AND THINGS GET EVEN WORSE, THAT IN FACT IT WAS A BAD DECISION!!! MY FAMILY THINKS AN ABORTION IS THE BEST THING FOR THE FATHER, THE BABY, AND FOR I AND THE FATHER IS NOW KIND OF AGREEING ON THAT. BUT I KNOW HOW I AM GOING TO FEEL AFTERWARDS AND I KNOW THAT IN MY HEART I REALLY DON’T WANT AN ABORTION. BUT AT THE SAME TIME, IT DOES SEEM LIKE IT’S THE RIGHT THING TO DO BECAUSE I WON’T GIVE IT UP FOR ADOPTION. I’M SORRY BUT I CAN’T DO THAT!!! THAT IS MY BABY AND IF I CARRY IT AND GIVE IT LIFE, IT WILL STAY WITH ME BUT I DON’T THINK IT IS FAIR TO BRING A LIFE INTO MY LIFE WHEN MY LIFE IS NOT GOING WELL AT ALL!!!!
I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO AND EVEYONE I TALK TO IS SET TO ONE OPINION OR THE OTHER AND NO ONE IS NEUTRAL AND ABLE TO HELP BASED ON WHAT IS RIGHT FOR ME AND THE BABY RATHER THAN JUST THEIR OWN OPINION!!! I NEED HELP FROM SOMEONE WHO WONT JUDGE ME OR THE SITUATION BASED ON WHAT THEY BELIEVE BUT WHAT WOULD BE RIGHT FOR ME AND THE CHILD AND FOR THE FATHER ALSO!!! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!! I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ON MY LIVING SITUATION AND THAT IS THE HARDEST THING CONSIDERING THAT I HAVE NO JOB MONEY OR CAR!!!!! I AM NOT STABLE YET BUT I REALLY WANT TO BE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!!
PLEASE HELP?????!!!!
I know I haven’t wrote in a while, but a lot has happened, and one is pregnancy and I’m basically being forced to have an abortion.
What should I do? The father doesn’t want it.
