It was 7/22. My boyfriend came over for a visit and we had sex. The condom broke and now I’m 16 and about 2 weeks pregnant.
My Boyfriend is supportive of my decision but wants me to get an abortion. See, if his parents find out, they’ll cut off all communication with me or send him to Africa until he’s 18. We’re both so scared. This is my second time being pregnant, the first time I had an abortion and I COULD NEVER EVER! do that again. I felt horrible and tried to commit suicide, I just couldn’t take it. I don’t want to do this without him. I haven’t told my parents yet. I’m afraid of how they’ll react, what they’ll do. They made me get an abortion last time and I just can’t do that again. This child deserves a chance at life Abortion and adoption just aren’t options for me. I’m not sure if I should just tell them and have my boyfriend sent away and have them make me get an abortion again or wait until they notice and it is too late for them to make me get an abortion. The only problem is that I’m diabetic and being pregnant without medical help is a bit dangerous.
I’m not sure what to do, PLEASE HELP!
I am 18 years old from the island of St. Lucia in the Caribbean.
Last year in December, I found out I was 6 weeks pregnant. I was devastated, afraid, confused, and broken. But despite my news, I knew there was another human inside me, maybe feeling the same way. Not knowing what her/his future holds and at that point, I knew that this was my decision I had to face, and I had to do the right thing, which was to give life.
Now I’m 39 weeks pregnant today, the 3rd of August. with a baby girl. And although it hasn’t been easy, she has been the best thing that has ever happened to me. I made the right choice for both of us. And I just couldn’t do it without the support of my mom, who has been by my side the whole time as, my doctor, my sister, my best friend, my boyfriend and best friend, who has help me all the way, and my aunts, who check on me all the time. My obgyn and his secretary ‘aunty sicky’.
They have been my support system through the end and in time to come.
Hi everyone… I’m 16… My boyfriend is 21… We’ve been together for almost a year…and now, last July 27, we had sex and then boom…I think I’m pregnant??
What should I do?? I’m a graduating student in high school… My mom and dad have plans to buy me a car during grad.. My room is renovated… My gosh!!!! All things happen so fast… My boyfriend knows all of this…and he said he’s ready…but I’m really confused!!!! I want to experience college, lyf, and etc…. Will I abort this one or not?? Help…I need your advice…I’ve been sleepless for almost a week… I’m planning to have pregnancy test this Sunday….
Please..huhuhuhu
In My case, I was 18 when I fell pregnant, my partner was 19.
I had only been with him a couple of weeks before I fell pregnant but didn’t actually find out till I was nearly 3 months gone. I was due to start my 3rd and final year at college… I was a mix of emotions… He was over the moon, was so excited to be a dad. Me, on the other hand, had doubts. (My sister fell pregnant at 16 with my nephew, and my mum made me promise her I would never fall pregnant whilst I was in school and still a teen.) Anyway, I told my mum first… through a text as I was too scared to tell her face to face… I then went home and we spoke about it… She told me to have an abortion, said it was going to ruin my life, said it would be the worst mistake ever. I told my nan and she told me she would disown me. We told my partner’s mum and dad and they were shocked but very supportive. Last to find out was my grandad, and after the way my nan had reacted, I was terrified!! but my grandad was Sooo supportive… Said as long as my partner looked after me, he doesn’t mind.
Anyway, I decided to prove my Family wrong.. I went back to college whilst pregnant ,and was working up until I was 8.1/2 months gone. Half way through my college year, I took 2 months out to give birth to a beautiful little Girl, who is now 18 months. I also went back to college, finished off my final year with top marks.. and after my 9 months maternity leave, I went back to work, and am still working now. I am still with my boyfriend and have been for 2.1/2 years now…and I’ve never been happier!!
Also… my family Love her, and wouldn’t change her for the world!!
Right now, I’m a little happy… Today, I went on 3 sites to see when my period was due and it said July 23. As of today, I’m 8 days late.
Today, when I was at my boyfriend’s aunt’s house and it felt like I was cramping so I came home cause I thought it was starting but when I got home, there was nothing there. So I wonder what that was all about. But if I am pregnant, I don’t know what I’m going to do. I’m 15 years old, but I used to want a baby, but then I did some thinking and I changed my mind. I don’t think I’m stable enough, yet maybe in a few years. So I’m going to wait a little longer.
If I don’t have my period, I’m going to take a home test.
Okay well, I’m 6 months pregnant.
I had been friends with this guy for four years and we were really close. After him and his son’s mom’s split in September, we decided to date and we hit it off great. (After 4 years of friendship, you would think you would know someone.) When we got together, I was still a virgin, and I took every precaution to keep it that way. One night, we ended up gettin’ drunk and he got me into bed cause I was feeling really sick. And one thing led to another and we had sex, but safe sex. Time went on and we continued to sleep with each other, but because I was on the pill, he stopped using a condom (stupid idea)! In March, I had gone in to see my ob-gyn for a checkup and came out finding out that I was 8 weeks pregnant. I texted (at the time) my boyfriend and he was really excited and just kept tellin’ me everything would work out. Well, we decided in March to get married and raise our family together. (We have had a very bumpy relationship.)
So the night before I was supposed to move in with him and two days before we were supposed to get married, he and i get into a fight and he broke off the marriage/engagement and went back to his ex girlfriend. Three weeks went by and he came to see me and wanted to work things out for us and for our child, so we started talkin and ended up gettin’ back together (even after all the things he said to me during that three weeks.) Well, I didn’t feel right and we broke up to give me time to think but continued to talk and see each other. During this break up, an old boyfriend came back into the picture and we went out for a movie and dinner as friends and ended up gettin’ back together. My heart was torn between my baby’s father and my first true love. So I went back and forth but chose to be with the second guy and my baby’s father has not liked that at all. He and I don’t talk at this time. He has chosen that she is not his and that he wants no part of her life as of now.
My boyfriend now is such an amazing guy and loves me to death. Our feelings have never gone away for each other and now they have grown stronger. He is a father to his son and has decided to take on the responsibility of being a father to my daughter. We have talked about marriage and having children together. When the news hit the surface about us getting married, my ex (aka baby daddy) decided he wanted to be a part of my life and my daughter’s life. My boyfriend has taken care of all the stress for me even though its caused him a lot of stress. He told my ex that he needed to back off and leave me alone. My ex then decided he didn’t want anything to do with us again and we haven’t talked since.
At 17, no teenager should be going through pregnancy or abuse but it happens to a lot of us. I’m very thankful that i am with a guy that can love my daughter as his own because she does deserve better than a deadbeat father that doesn’t care.
