I was 15 when I found out that I was pregnant.
I had just met my boyfriend a month ago and now we find out I’m pregnant. I was happy but at the same time, scared, and guilty for feeling happy because my boyfriend didn’t want to keep the baby at all. He wanted me to have an abortion. I told my mom the next day and she was sad, she cried for months, but she got used to it. My boyfriend told me to do whatever I wanted and to this day, he still holds my baby girl Miya over my head, telling me I ruined his life, he had no say, but those are only on the bad days. We have been together 1 year and 1 month. Our daughter is 4 months old, she was born 2 months early on May 14th, 3 days after I turned 16. I had to get a C-section too.
I am so very happy that I didn’t get an abortion. I don’t know what would have happened. I don’t believe in it though, taking someone else’s life is murder, and I would not suggest it. Adoption is always an option, but I would only recommend it to those who have no support and don’t wanna put life on this earth in a bad situation. I love my baby girl. She is wonderful. When I see that smile on her face, that just lights up my day. Sure, my boyfriend and I fight. Well, that’s what mostly every couple does. Yeah, even the most happily married. We aren’t married yet but we are getting there. We are engaged, I’m getting my GED and going to college next year to become a pharmacy technician. It will only take a year to a year in a half and I will be 19 or 20 by the time I have my first career and it will be wonderful. Miya will be 3 or 4, probably in preschool or so, and I will be thinking about maybe another baby, if my boyfriend and I are settled down and financially secure. We thought maybe this time, we could plan the pregnancy and maybe it would be a boy.
It is hard being a teen mom. I’m not saying it’s easy but I wouldn’t do anything different if I could. Miya is my life and I love her so very much. I just hope teens make the right decision. It isn’t always about what’s right for them. Its about what’s right for that baby, for the one you’re are carrying inside your tummy. Its the wonderful feeling, to see them smile, and the wonderful feeling to touch your tummy when they kick. I would not change it for the world.
Thank you. I hope people comment and talk to me. Thanks for listening or reading.
Okay…. So ever since I found out I am pregnant. *it was only like five days ago lol.* But ever since then, I have been asking my parents what they thought about my boyfriend C… I already kinda knew what the answers were gonna be though 🙁 They obviously don’t like him…But when my mom called me this morning. Somehow, we got on the topic of C….and she said one of the most hurtful things ever
….She said she wished I would love anybody but C]…Gosh, I just wanna cry… She doesn’t even know I am pregnant yet…. I don’t know what to do…Like I can get through the fact that she doesn’t like him… But it sounds like she just really HATES him… I don’t get it…She told me she thinks I picked a relationship that I deep down know is gonna fail…What’s up with that lol…I don’t know how she is gonna deal with me being pregnant with his child… But I guess she will just have to get over it… I hate saying that or even thinking it but it’s gonna have to happen. I really do love C sooooooo much! I wish she could go back to trying to like him like she said she was gonna do a while back… Now it feels as if she has just given up….
Sheesh it’s gonna be intense in that delivery room lol…..
For the past 12 hours, I’ve been suffering from cramps in the lower of my stomach and back and it’s crippling me. I’m about 6 weeks pregnant and I’m not sure what’s happening or what to do. Have any of you ladies got any advice?
I’m soo scared and don’t know where to turn. x
Hi, I’m new.
I was forced to have an abortion at age 15. Me and my boyfriend had been together for a while. And like many of you ladies, after I had the abortion, my boyfriend came clean and admitted he would have loved to have been a dad. That was 18 months ago. I’ve just found out that I’m 6 weeks pregnant again and the same things have happened all over again…. Our families are pressuring us for an abortion and because of the money situation, my now fiancée and I are struggling with what we should choose.
Life or abortion?
Let me start by saying, the doctor told me I couldn’t get pregnant.
I was hurt, so was my fiancé. We didn’t try to get pregnant, we decided we would in a few years. Three months after my doctor told me I couldn’t get pregnant, I started getting signs, I ignored them but my fiancé and friends didn’t. Everyone kept telling me I needed to take a test because I was having mood swings, gained a little weight in my lower stomach, and getting sick. I didn’t have a period because of the fact that I ‘wasn’t’ supposed to be able to have children. I hadn’t had a period for over six months. So not having my period was normal for me.
Finally, after being told over and over again to take a test, I did at about two in the morning. In just a few seconds, it said: “pregnant”. I dropped to the floor and started crying. I never thought I would get pregnant. I had so many emotions. I was scared, mad, upset, and happy. Finding out I was pregnant was scary for me. I was scared to tell my mother, but I knew I had too.
When I was at my friends, getting ready to go tell my mom, I got a text from my little brother telling me that one of my close friends had died in a car wreck. On top of having to tell my mother, I had to deal with the loss of my close friend. I couldn’t stop crying for over two hours. Finally I went to my mothers to tell her and my dad. I told my mom and she seemed upset but okay with it. But I was to scared to tell my dad so she did, he didn’t seem mad at all.
The next day I went to a clinic to see how far along I was. I looked at the screen as I saw the baby in me. I was over four weeks, and I had a baby inside of me, my baby. They told me about my options. Abortion was completely out, and adoption was something I went through, so I couldn’t put my child through it. So my fiancé and I said we’re keeping it for sure. We was both very excited, and couldn’t wait to meet out little one. My mom was even excited.
I am four and a half months pregnant today, and get to find out what I am having in a little over two weeks. My fiancé and I are getting married in a few months. I had to quit going to public schools because my life, and my baby’s life was being threatened. It’s hard for me, I stay sick all the time. But everything I am going through will all be worth while in the end. I love my life, my fiancé and our baby.
Hey girls! I am 18 years old. I actually joined this site in like tenth grade…and now it is the fall of my freshman year in college. Well actually, I am planning on doing online classes with an accredited online college called Penn Foster to get my AA in business management….but a few weeks ago, I had unprotected sex… I’m supposed to be on my period now… Do you think I am…
I’m pretty much terrified because I am currently unemployed. I own a couple cows and calves, but that can only last for like what? One doctor visit lol. Anyways, I’m really scared that I am…Any suggestions on what to do? I’m thinking I should just wait it out this week, and if no period comes, then I will take a pregnancy test…but Idk…I’m really impatient when it comes to things like this…I’m usually a really patient person… Maybe it’s just nerves, you know?…
Well, please get back to me…Somebody…Because I’m really freaking out!
