I was 17 then when I knew I was pregnant.
I was afraid at first. I didn’t know what to do. I had to think of the worst things that would happen to me… I kept my baby until 4 months| do wear supporters, anything just to hide him. It even came to my mind to abort him, just for me to be free, and live life again as normal… But maybe it was not meant to be done… December 23, I bought some abortion materials, everything was ready that time… But guess what, I woke up Dec. 24, the aborting med hadn’t been drunk yet… So I told myself I would do it tonight, forgive me God, but I have to do this… Right after my thoughts sank into me, my aunt came rushing to the house and asked my mom to talk about something serious… I was very nervous at that time, and then blast!!!! Mom knew everything… Everyone knew about my situation… Mother did not beat me but she did not talk to me for almost a year. That was painful though!!! But I have to accept it. It’s my price…
And now I am a successful young mom. Even though I haven’t done with college yet, I can say I can take care of my baby’s needs…
Well, I am 19 in May, living in Australia
I have been with my man (now fiancé) since I was 15 and a half. He is 22 now.
8 months ago, I got pregnant but had an abortion… I have regretted it every day since and I can’t even sleep at night, knowing what I did…
Anyway, my man is absolutely WONDERFUL, the type that is always there for me no matter what. He said that if I want another baby, then we can start a family whenever I want.
I know I want this more then anything. I know it will be hard – I have been working in childcare for the past 2 years. I feel like I’m ready for this, even though I am so young. Well, I’m just wondering what everyone’s advice is on this.
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Hi guys,
I found out last week that I am 5 weeks pregnant. I had a miscarriage 8 months ago and was devasted, so when I found out I was pregnant again, I was over the moon. I thought my partner would be too but he isn’t. He has told me that he doesn’t want our baby, that he isn’t ready for that commitment and he wants me to get an abortion. I know that I should, that it isn’t fair to bring up a child without a father, and me not being able to give that child the best I can out of life, but why is it so hard to even think about killing it? I don’t want to get rid of my baby, but I don’t want it to have no father figure around. Please help me?
I am already in love with my child, and either way I choose, it’s going to be devastating.
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Yesterday, 1-18, I had an ultrasound. I’m 21 weeks and 6 days today.
I was in there for an hour, looking at all my baby’s organs to make sure everything is functioning right, and thankfully, my baby is perfectly healthy. And of course, my baby is a very active little one so we didn’t get to find out what it was until the last 5 minutes of the ultrasound, and low and behold, it was a little baby girl.
I’m naming her Ava Faith and I can’t wait to meet her.
When I went to the doctor last month for my appointment, they told me that my placenta is a bit low but it’s nothing to worry about.
For the past couple of weeks, I have had almost like stomach pains at the bottom of my stomach and today it is just extremely sore! It doesn’t pain or anything now, but it is just really really sore and I can’t walk properly! When I stand up, I can’t stand up straight or walk immediately, I have to wait a while and then walk…Could it be that my placenta is low? But they said it is nothing to worry about! I’m sure if it was serious, they would have said something to me?
Please help, as I have no idea what it could be? I need to know ASAP. It’s really painful and I can hardly walk!
I was thinking I should maybe go to the hospital and find out what it could be. Because they did say that if anything is wrong, then I must go.
I went to the doctor’s every day this week but Thursday! I had 2 US and 3 stress tests.
This time, all his stress tests were good, thank God! And my fluid went from 7 to 8.5. He had a growth scan this week too. I’ll remind you that at 34.4 weeks, AJ was 3lbs 14 oz. I went on Friday to my regular OB, not the special doctor I see, and they did a growth scan. AJ came up as 3lbs 13oz at 35.5 weeks. I asked them how could that be. They said it’s human error and he didn’t lose weight but they don’t think he gained any either. I don’t get it. I have been eating and eating. I gained 3 1/2 more pounds but AJ didn’t grow and I don’t know why. I’m starting to get worried. The past 2 weeks before this, he gained over 5 oz a week. Now, he didn’t gain any. They said when I go back for my growth scan on Thursday this week, they will measure him and talk to me about options but they didn’t go any further into it.
IDK. I’m just really worried.
