Hi, I’m kinda new to this.
I lost a baby last June, tough huh? It would have been due around about now. and now I’m late, which I never am. I took a pregnancy test and it said negative and I thought maybe it’s too early to tell. When I lost my baby, it was the only thing I wanted more than anything. Now it’s scaring me more than the first time, probably because I’m scared it will happen again. I’ve always wanted to be a mum more than anything.
So scared. :/
I was 18 when I found out I was pregnant… I will be 19 when my baby comes into this world…
Telling my mom and other fam about my pregnancy was tough, but what made it worse was that no one seemed to care about what I wanted. All that mattered to them was that I should get an abortion… All I heard was it’s going to be hard, you can’t do it… Whether I had my baby or not, life was still going to be hard. A baby wasn’t a major setback for me… It actually motivated me to want to achieve more than I had planned to in life… I love the fact that I will be a mom in 2 months and I don’t regret a thing nor do I think this was a mistake… All of my fam now wants to be supportive but I’m still iffy about the whole thing…
I feel that they shoulda been there from day one. Yea, it was a lot to take in, but they acted more like kids than mature adults!!!!!
Okay so, I need some advice on what to do and think.
I’m 14, going to be 15 in April, and I have a very bright future, but I am worried that I have become pregnant. My boobs have been hurting, which could be from going to the gym. I’ve been feeling nauseated and blotted almost nonstop. I’ve been getting horrible cramps mostly in the morning. And been more tired than usual. I’m on medication birth control, mood stabilization, and ADHD. I stopped taking all of them on Wednesday since birth control made me start my period and the other medication can cause birth defects, and if I am pregnant, I want the best for my baby. I have talked to my boyfriend about it and we both decided abortion is not the answer for us if I am. I want to tell my mom about it, but then my mom will just become angry at me and him so I haven’t said anything really to any of my family members. This scares me badly because this could mess up a lot of my future plans. But I would do anything for my kid. It would be too soon to take an over-the-counter test and to go to the doctor’s. My mom would have to know because she is my doctor.
Please give me some advice or something. I’m going insane over this!!!
Hi, and I turned 14 in November. I have had my period on a 28-day cycle for the past 4 months and was on birth control, but after having my period on the 26th till the 1st, and then having unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 3rd and 5th.
Do you think it’s possible I might become pregnant?
I woke up this morning… And the first thought I had (more like a reminder) was, “You’re still pregnant.”
First, the happy thoughts set in: I’m gonna be a mom, I’m gonna be happy, My boyfriend and I are gonna be good parents. I can still go to college. We can do this.
Then, I think about my mom: She’s going to ridicule me. She won’t believe I can do this. She’ll blame me for everything, like always. She’s going to hurt me. My family will have nothing positive to say.
I still can’t tell her… How long am I gonna wait? I don’t know. I could never tell her anything. Even if I had a field trip at school, I had to gather strength for that. She just scares me…
I cry when I look in the mirror. I feel bad for myself. Look at her, she’s so lost in this world.
My best friend (who’s two months pregnant) tells me that in the end, the baby belongs to me and my boyfriend. Not my mom or my family. And that I shouldn’t let them stop me from being happy.
But it’s not just my life that will be affected, my mom and my siblings. My mom always said she always had to make changes because of me. Well, doesn’t that happen when you’re a parent? You have to make lifestyle changes, for better or for worse.
I just hope I can look back on this all this one day and say, “If I had to live it all over again, I wouldn’t wouldn’t change anything for the world.”
Hey, just a little bit about myself. I’m 16. My little boy is called Harry Lewis.
I’m a single mom and I had Harry just after my 15th Birthday. He is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. I have only recently broken up with his dad about 2 months ago after I found out about him cheating and things and the only way I’ve been able to get through it is with Harry.
When Harry was born, I was really ill. I thought I’d never love him, that he’d ruined my life, and that I wish I’d aborted him while I had the chance. His dad had left me for a while just after we’d slept together. I told him I might be pregnant, but I tested too early at 4 weeks and it said negative so we thought I was okay. At about 10 weeks, I started getting really tired and was taking days off school for massive headaches. It was a throwaway comment from my mom that made me think I could be pregnant. When it turned out that I was, I was terrified. I was 14. How was I meant to be a parent?
My boyfriend told me straight away that I was having an abortion. I told him to stuff it, It was my baby. Then he left me and that’s why I went ill. I refused to have an abortion because it was what he wanted. Then when he was born, I looked into his eyes and I fell in love with my little boy. To this day, I don’t know how I managed to be so upset about him. I wouldn’t change my little boy for the world.
I’m 16 now and Harry has just gone 18 months. Our lives have changed a lot. I want to be a midwife when I go to university, to help other mums have their babies. That may have to be put on hold though for the moment because I think I may be pregnant again and to be honest, I’m terrified. I’ve worked hard to get where I am now and I think another baby could ruin that. I’m two days late with this period and my last one wasn’t exactly normal either.
Abortion isn’t an option for me now as it wasn’t back when I had Harry, but I am terrified and to be honest, I’m glad I’ve found this site x
