So a couple of days ago, I found out that I couldn’t have kids… I am 19 years old and this was a huge surprise. Not that I am planning on having kids just yet, but one day I did want kids… Anyway, I am dating this guy and he has a kid, a year and six month-old boy… This is great. The only problem is his baby mama… She is, ugg, I can’t even describe her… She cares more bout her drug of choice than the baby… This drives me crazy because, for one, this little boy deserves so much better, and secondly, I can’t believe God gave her a baby. It pisses me off that I can’t have kids and she already has a beautiful baby boy that she takes for granted… I don’t get why God chose a mom like that for a wonderful child like this little innocent boy instead of one who knows how to take care of him and who cares and shows him every day that she cares. It drives me absolutely crazy that she gets to have this little boy and that she’s going to lose him because she’s so stupid that she can’t see what’s right in front of her… See I grew up in a home that was broken and where there were always drugs and lots of drinking. It was horrible! I was put into foster care and then taken out and then thrown back in several times and that was hell! At the age of 10, I was finally put into foster care permanently. I was bounced from home to home… It’s no way to grow up and I really don’t want that to happen to that little boy, I know my boyfriend and his mom wouldn’t let that happen, but that little boy deserves so much better and it makes me mad and sad that I can’t do anything to help… I would do anything to be able to have kids and it kills me that there are people out there who are so dense and self-centered that they can’t see what’s right in front of them, till it’s too late…
What will actually happen when I lose my virginity? I heard so many different things…..Is it true that I will bleed? Will the guy notice if I bleed??
I am seeking some advice on how to cope with the overwhelming stress of having a constantly sick child. My daughter has severe asthma and has been constantly struggling to breathe since she was about 15 months old. She is now 3 1/2 years old and in the last 4 months, things have gotten progressively worse. She has had pneumonia twice in the last 3 months and is now on 2 new medications to help with her breathing. I am a single mother so having a supportive partner isn’t really available at the moment. I have a little boy who is 5 1/2 and currently in Kindergarten. He is in good health and has been such a trooper when it comes to me taking care of his sister but I do feel bad that he is missing out on getting attention from time to time when things are bad with her. Has anyone been through anything similar? How have you handled the situation? Thank you!!
When I was 16 years old, I had my beautiful little boy with a guy I loved with all my heart. About 2 months after our son was born, he took off. He wasn’t ready to “grow up”. My son will be 2 in February, and his dad started coming back around again in September. We reunited and tried to work out our relationship again. Needless to say, I couldn’t let go of our past, and I couldn’t allow myself to accept the way he treated me so horribly. I left, only to find out I’m pregnant with his child, again. I’m now 18. He nearly cost me my job, so I’m on a probation period of no more than 15 hours a week, and only getting minimum wage. My son’s father came to me today and told me he lost his job. That also means no child support. I was receiving about 400$ a month in child support. I have nowhere near enough money to support myself, plus two children. I forgot to mention that I live with my parents. My mother told me I have to be out on my own before the second baby is born. I cannot afford that either. I’m not sure what to do. I don’t think that I could ever really consider abortion, but I do think that maybe adoption is the right choice in this situation, although, I am not sure I could bear the pain of giving a child away to perfect strangers. I am not sure what to do. I have absolutely no support at all. I have no friends. I have very little family. I have no one. My ex was so controlling that he was all I had, and now that I left him I am left with nothing and no one. I don’t know what to do. Someone please help with some advice?
I have been dating my same boyfriend for three years now and this isn’t our first pregnancy. Our first year together, I got pregnant and was forced into an abortion by my parents and him as well. Anyway, now a few years later, I was actively taking birth control for three months and realized I didn’t get a period.
I’m not sure how many weeks I am pregnant yet I still have to go to the OBGYN this week. My parents, my boyfriend’s parents, and my boyfriend are all strongly pushing me to have another abortion. But I always promised myself, I would never go through that pain again. It changed me as a person and I regretted it so much. My boyfriend says he will back me 100% on my decision, but he really isn’t ready for a kid yet. He is 19 as well. We both work part-time jobs and attend a community college. Our jobs do not provide us with any benefits though. My Mom and Dad said I have to move out and live on my own and start paying for everything on my own… The baby, a place to live, car insurance, phone bills, etc. I really don’t know what to do with this situation. I know I want to keep the baby.. but I don’t know, if I can handle the responsibility, especially with no support from any family or with finances. I have a feeling my parents will help me out and are just trying to scare me right now, but they are pushing me and telling me I don’t have a choice and making me so stressed out. I don’t know if I should listen to my gut and do what I think is right and struggle alone. Or if I should get an abortion and do what I never wanted to do ever again. Please help with advice. Thank you.
OK. So, I’m 15. I had unprotected sex on November 2nd. He didn’t cum in me and I got my period the next day. It’s now December 18th. I usually get my period on the 3rd, so I’m late. Is there any way I could be pregnant?
