I’m 17 years old.
When I was 16, I met my first boyfriend. He was amazing. I was totally smitten. Looking back on it now, I realize how he manipulated me within that month we were together. I was a virgin and within a month, I had gone from only having ever kissed a guy to everything but sex. I kept telling him that I wanted to wait and that I wanted it to be special. Then on the 20th of July, he changed. He took advantage of me. I was so scared and didn’t know what to do. I was frozen all night whilst he lay asleep next to me, showing no remorse for what he had done. In the morning, he left and completely ignored me. I never heard from him again. I was discarded and used like an old tissue and it’s how I felt. I told my mum, thinking she could help me, but she said how she was disappointed that I had let myself into that situation. After that, I lost all my self-respect and didn’t care.
Since that date, I have slept with 4 guys.. 1, I don’t know who he is. Recently, I got a boyfriend, but he means nothing to me. I have been cheating on him with someone who I am falling for. I’m so scared that I will become vulnerable. The guy who I am with behind my boyfriend’s back is 24, but the age gap doesn’t matter to us. When I’m with him, everything feels good. But last week, we had sex and I have suffered a few of the symptoms that have been mentioned. If I’m pregnant, my life will be over. I am so worried.
I saw this website and thought someone might be able to help.
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The father completely denies it now. My mum is saying that if I keep it, she’ll disown me. I’m too young to be walking around London with a baby bump in a matter of weeks. Not to mention my school will kick me out. (It’s a Christian school, by the way.)
I was considering abortion, but I’ve just been looking at the development of the fetus, and I just realized I can’t go through with it. But if I continue, I will be parent-less and besides, I have my WHOLE life ahead of me.
I’m considering adoption, but still, my parents won’t accept that.
Any suggestions?
Days went on, and I became an emotional wreck.
The pain had gotten worse and I had lost fifteen pounds in less than two weeks. I didn’t know if I should blame my doctor for the pain and not doing a Urine test. But whatever. I was about four weeks already, and I wasn’t able to work because no pills, no nothing made the pain ease, and I avoided as many pills as possible. I had to consider abortion. There was so no way I was ready for motherhood. I wasn’t going to fall back on support from the government. I was stuck in a grocery store and I still wasn’t even in college. I wanted to be prepared, to have a nice home, to be able to give my baby anything from my own wallet and love. But I didn’t have nothing. I couldn’t let my baby have nothing.
It broke my heart so much because my first baby was supposed to be my FIRST baby…. and I just didn’t know what to do.
I am 15, almost 16 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I am almost 104% sure I am pregnant.
I told my mom, and she won’t speak to me. She believes I chose my boyfriend over my family because we got back together. When my dad found out we got back together, he hit me. He is an alcoholic, and he doesn’t remember anything from that night. I don’t know what to do. Keep our baby? Get rid of it? I don’t know. It’s ours, something that contains both of us. Both of our blood, our skin, our love. My family would shun me. I know I am only 15. And it would be the hardest thing I’ve ever done. He promised me he’s going to marry me. And be with me forever.
Should I believe him? He’s soo convincing.
Well, let’s start off by saying I am a PROUD MOMMY OF A BEAUTIFUL BABY BOY…..
It all started at 9 pm last night. I went to bed with the man and I kept turning and started crying. The man asked me what was wrong and I told him my stomach was hurting so bad and it felt like knives stabbing through meee! Well, he told me to go take a hot shower and maybe that would help so I did and it got worse. So He took me up to the hospital and they did an ultrasound and said that I was pregnant and I asked how. When we were here a month ago, NOTHING SHOWED UP. The doctor said that I didn’t know I was pregnant and it is common. So I went into my own room and they checked me and SAID MY WATER HAD ALREADY BEEN BROKEN AND THE DOC SAID THAT I WSA HAVING CONTRACTIONS AND I WAS READY TO PUSH SO I SAT THERE AND I PUSHED FOR 8 HOURS AND GUESS WAT IT WAS A BOY!!!
I’M SO HAPPY I GOT MY FAMILY NOW!!! HE IS 2 HOURS OLD AND HE A BIG BIG BABY!
Me and my boyfriend are deep in love. We live together in his parents’ house and he is everything to me. He treats me like a princess and never turns his back on me.
We were very intimate and I decided to make an appointment and go on birth control and went with the Depo Shot. I had asked my doctor a lot of questions and made sure it worked immediately… She told me yes. And I trusted her. I was excited and was so positive that I was safe and couldn’t get pregnant. The Depo drove me crazy and moody. I didn’t get my period for a whole month and then I had it for a whole month. very light. And then it stopped. I was glad and relieved. It had made me so emotional and I would flip out on anyone. 3 months later, I went for my second shot. Confident. My doctor gave me my shot and sent me on my way. And I had noticed she didn’t even do a urine test before to make sure I wasn’t pregnant.
That same day, five hours later, I began feeling intense pain like menstrual cramps but these were different, like much deeper. And I began throwing up everything and the pain was on and off but so bad that I could not sit or stand and it went down to my legs and hips. I didn’t know what was going on, but I did my best to deal with it. Two days later, I began losing a lot of weight and couldn’t eat or drink nothing so I went to the hospital. And in the meantime, I had been wondering for weeks if I was pregnant. My breast had become very full and hard and sore. My sense of smell was so sensitive and the smell of smoke would make me sick. And I remember getting painful cramps when I was at work that would last for a minute then disappear then come back. And I had the idea I was pregnant but was in doubt that I was because I was on birth control. But I had dreams and images of a baby. A baby that I would see deep inside me. And I could see myself holding onto it and crying, but something kept taking it away from me, and it was gone. I would wake up looking for it and tear. And I thought it was just a phase. I talked to my boyfriend about it. And we took a pregnancy test, and to our surprise, it was negative… Then the week after, I had my second Depo shot.
At the hospital, they ran a test on me, and placed me on I.V. They check my blood and Urine. Three hours later, A doctor and a nurse closed the curtains looking serious and told me they had news. I looked at them with such curiosity, like what could it be… “You are pregnant..” And my face went blank. I shook my head in disbelief and just couldn’t believe it. I began questioning and denying it. I had took a test a week ago, it was negative and I was on birth control. How could this be? Me? Pregnant? I couldn’t be? No way? All of it ran through my head.
I was Pregnant.
