Hi, I fell pregnant when I was 20 years old and had only been with my boyfriend for about 4 months.
So, quite a shock to us both, but we were happy and decided to keep the baby. Everything was going great, no problems at all. I had my dating scan and everything was fine. My pregnancy progressed and I bonded with my baby. I was so happy to know that I was soon going to be a mam. When it came to my 20-week scan, I found out I was having a girl. I was so overjoyed that I left the hospital with a picture of my baby and went to tell all my family the good news. They were so happy.
But then 3 days later, I experienced some really bad pain and bleeding. I knew that wasn’t good. So I went to the hospital to get checked out. They monitored my baby’s heartbeat and it was strong. I thought that had got to be a good sign. Then the doctor come and checked me and told me and my partner that I was having a miscarriage and there was little chance of my baby girl surviving. Within that moment, my life fell apart. I didn’t know what to do. I just had to go through the normal labour. It was awful. 4 hours later, my baby was born. I looked at the midwife, hopeful, waiting for my baby to cry. She, she never did. They took my baby away. A few hours later, I went to see my baby girl. She was perfect. We named her Amygrace.
In time, we had her funeral, the worst day of our life. I will never forget our little angel. Last year, I fell pregnant again. Never been so scared, but I’m happy to say. I went full term and had a beautiful healthy baby boy. He is 5 month old now and is doing fantastic. We will tell him about his big sister some day and love her just as much as we do.
What am I going to do now?
I am 15 years old and I’m 6 weeks pregnant. What do I do now? I don’t know the first thing about babies! I know I want to keep it, but I don’t know how I’m supposed to take care of it. I can’t work because I’m not old enough, but I can’t expect my mom to buy everything and support it, because she’s not the parent, I am.
My boyfriend wants this baby so badly. He says he will stick by me through it all. But I’m scared.
So everything was going good, finally accepted and gained the courage to do this whole single-parent thing.
A couple of days ago, the FOB called me to see how I was doing. I was kind of relieved he called, thinking we could be civil toward one another. I was TOTALLY WRONG. So he tells me he let HIS OTHER BABY’S MAMMA KNOW I WAS EXPECTING. I was MAD because he TOLD her because I feel IT IS NONE OF HER BUSINESS and also, HE SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO ME FIRST. He said she had a right to know regardless if him and I talked about it first.
AM I WRONG FOR BEING COMPLETELY PISSED OFF? FIRST OFF, HE SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO ME FIRST. SECOND, WHY IS HE TELLING PEOPLE ABOUT ME BEING PREGNANT WHEN HE STATED HIMSELF HE DIDN’T WANT ANOTHER BABY AND BASICALLY DOESN’T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH IT? THEN HE TELLS ME THAT HE’LL LET ME KNOW IN THE FUTURE IF HE’S GOING TO BE THERE FOR THE BABY. HE IS CONFUSING ME BECAUSE ONE MINUTE, HE IS FREAKING OUT, ASKING ME TO GET AN ABORTION. THEN THE NEXT, HE’S GOING TO LET ME KNOW IF HE’S GOING TO BE THERE FOR MY BABY. THEN HE DECIDES TO TELL ME THAT HIM AND HIS BABY MOMMA ARE TALKING AND TRYING TO WORK THINGS OUT. I’VE COME TO TERMS THAT HIM AND I WERE ONCE GOOD FRIENDS, NEVER TOGETHER AND I DON’T THINK WILL EVER BE. BUT WHY IS IT MY BUSINESS WHO HE’S WITH OR TALKING TO WHEN I COULD CARELESS. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO MAKE OF THE SITUATION. LIKE WHY CAN’T HE JUST GROW UP AND UNDERSTAND I DON’T WANT TO BE WITH HIM?
BUT AS FOR NOW, I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO. JUST TALKING TO HIM STRESSES ME OUT. AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!
Hello Everyone,
So my story…..
Well since I’ve moved here, I have been lucky enough to find the love of my life (soon to be married). My boyfriend and I have been together now for 10 months. We are moving out together once I graduate in June and then it’s college in September…
Although on Feb 2nd, we lost our virginity to each other :). I’m so glad I got to share that with him. Since we’ve been sexually active, I’ve found myself longing for something more. I’m happy with him and I’m very involved with school, etc… But why am I having the feeling of wanting a baby?
It’s almost like I’m craving for a child? Yes I am 17, waaaaaay tooo young, people say. And especially to purposely try to have a baby. I am NOT trying this on purpose. My boyfriend does want children, just not right now…and I don’t either, but I’m finding myself becoming confused.
We only use birth control (“the pill”) and he doesn’t pull out. So far, its been about 3 weeks and I took a test…not prego.
Which is good, right? Yes! it is… Then why did I feel so bad when only that 1 pink line showed up?
I just want to know if any other girls get this need?
I know I’m meant to be a mother. There is nothing I want more in life. But I also know its waaay too freaking early and “I have my whole life ahead of me”, which is what everyone says. lol
I know my boyfriend and I could support ourselves and the baby fine. We would manage.
It’s almost like I cant wait to get pregnant! ;p Am I just a lunatic? Or is this normal?
Hey, I am 15 years old. I found out that I am pregnant. My boyfriend is 16 years old. Now I need to abort this child.
I know I am really young. but I don’t know how will it all work out. I actually don’t want to abort this child. But I can’t even keep it. I love my boyfriend and he too loves me a lot. We don’t know how we will abort this child. I live in India. I don’t even know what the charges will be. I can’t share this with anyone else. Otherwise, I’ll be dead.
Please help.
Two days ago, I found out I was pregnant with my new boyfriend.
I was dating a boy for three years and found out he was cheating on me with my best friend for the past three months. I left him and started dating my current boyfriend. To make my ex jealous, I became sexually active with my new boyfriend. I told him today I was pregnant. When I told him, his face was immediately in a state of shock. Abortion is NEVER an option for me, but that is where we disagree. He told me that if I didn’t terminate the pregnancy that he would leave me. So as of an hour ago, I am single and expecting a baby in nine months.
My parents don’t know yet, and I’m, not sure how to tell them. I need advice? I am so lost.
